Me and dalvin are on a hispeed cable modem. I don't know the connection speed exactly, but it is very fast (i think it's like 512kbps or something faster). He's got a good connection. So the problem is that me and dalvin are on the same default gateway? Or just the fact that we're both in the same ip address network (he's a 192.168.0.100, and i'm a 192.168.0.101). I guess i could see if his ****ty router will let me change the ip address for the interface that i use on it, that would probably fix the problem (his router sucks).
There was one way me and dalvin got into a game with 3 people. It was dalvin vs. mepis. And dalvin was using the joystick and stuff, and i was on the keyboard. It was like he was flying with intelligent voice commands and automatic operating secondary functions. I mean, me strengthening his shield quadrants while he was flying around put an extra edge on the gameplay. As fun as that was, we'd prefer to have more than two players, i guess on friday we'll try again with some different things so we can get more people in there. Also, we theorize that vista may be the problem, we tried having the linux machine as the server, but that had problems with the filenames of the missions, besides that, i bet running the server on an xp or linux machine would fix the problem.