You'd probably feel nothing, for any of those distances.
The energy carried by a gravitational wave follows the inverse square law, but the stretching (strain) decreases proportionally to distance. So if you're twice as far away, you're stretched half as much. The distance of this merger isn't very well constrained (410Mpc +/- ~170Mpc), but let's suppose it's 410Mpc (about 1.3 billion light years). The strain produced by the waves here on Earth was 1x10-21. That means it stretched humans on Earth by by about a millionth the width of a proton as it passed through us.
If you were one light year away from the merger, then the strain would be 1.3 billion times stronger, so you'd be stretched by... about 1% the width of a hydrogen atom. Still totally unnoticeable.
At 1AU, this stretching of your body increases to about a hundred nanometers. This is about the size of the smallest thing visible to an optical microscope.
At 1 million km, the strain rises to 10-5. Now we're getting somewhere. This is approaching the width of a human hair. Would you feel it? I honestly don't have a clue. No person has ever been subjected to anything like this before.
What if you got closer? The black holes were each about 30 solar masses, which makes them about 200km wide. So, what if you went up to 1000km distance at the moment they merged? Then the strain is 10-2. This stretches you by nearly an inch! And as it stretches you one way, it also squeezes you in the other, and this alternates several times within a single second as waves from the final in-spiral rush past you.
You would definitely feel this. I doubt it would be pleasant.
Unfortunately, you wouldn't be able to get this close to this merger anyway. At that distance, the regular old tidal forces would be extremely lethal (several hundred G's difference between your head and feet).
You could probably get close enough to a supermassive black hole merger to feel the gravitational waves and not worry about the tidal forces. But those are exceptionally rare events.