ok i sort of fixed it, after hearing it work when bosh says "burn baby burn i realized for some reason your incoming message sound file was somehow preventing it from working. so i did some research and found out how to remove it, and it works. don't know why but it does. well if you can find a better solution (i hope so) i will haply replace my makeshift solution.
thanks for all the help, i really appreciate all the hard work you put into your mod.
ps.sorry for the double post.