I actually can't see the game even in the channel overview.
But on the FS2Netd Page your server seems to be a "Default server", but i am only listed in the "MediaVPs Server" list as a player. Even if i unselect any mod in the launcher i get into the MediaVPs lobby as it seems. And in root the only additional vp files are both multi-mission files.
So, what i have to do, to be a player in the "Default server" list?
Before you ask. Yes, we were both in the "MediaVPs Server" list. So this was not the issue.
EDIT: Ah, i fixed this. I have to remove the server port entry in multi.cfg.
Yes, i was able to see this game in the "games" tab. After i joined i have been asked to create a new game.
I will ask my partner to try this also.
After i have thought about it.
Maybe this is not important, but i have to say, that we both play with different language settings.
I play on "english" as my partner plays on "german".
I say this, because i noticed, that i have to create a new pilot if i change the language. I can use a pilot only for one language.