Frankly? I’d prefer extinction.
I was going to reply only to Battuta but I just had to ask you about this post. Are you honestly saying that you would prefer the extinction of your entire species, given the choice between that and having the women stay safely out of the war to raise families? Don't you think that's rather... well, selfish?
Especially considering that raising a family is just about the best job there is. Furthermore, it's the only job that's absolutely essential to society.
You think that raising a family is the best job there is. Are you a stay-at home parent? Have you abandoned your own career, your own ambitions to raise a couple dozen kids? If not, you have no authority on which to make this claim, which I find paternalistic, condescending, and offensive. If you are, what makes you think your experience is universal?
Consider also that a single woman is not going to give birth to more than ten or twenty children in her lifetime, even if she does nothing else for the entire fertile period of her life. The limitations of the human body might draw the line long before that. Now suppose that woman instead joins the military and makes a decent showing for herself. No, she’s not going to turn back the tide all by herself, but as has already been pointed out, this is a war in which
whole planets are at stake. She’s a member of an enormous military force, but that force is dwarfed by the populations of the planets they’re defending. If they prevent the Shivans from destroying even one planet, her share of the lives saved is hundreds or thousands. And you want her to spend her life enslaved by her womb?
Think about what you’re saying. You’re saying that even if I was the kind of pilot who could disarm a Sathanas and save a fleet, humanity would be better served if I stayed home to mind the younglings. What kind of logic is that?
Besides all that, this is a
war. You don’t need people twenty years in the future when all those babies grow up, you need them to hold the Shivans off
now. And if you restrict yourself to half your able-bodied population, then odds are those babies are going to be space dust
long before they get big enough to fly a ship. If you win, your pilots can all settle down and breed afterward. If you don’t, then it won’t make a damn bit of difference. This is the
future, ffs. If population was that much of an issue they’d find a way to grow their babies in vats or something.
Your position is regressive in the extreme, it completely dismisses the contributions of millions of women that have
nothing to do with their reproductive capacities, and I find it repellent. I stand by my earlier claim. Survival alone is worth nothing if we become no better than the enemy we fight, and a society that would entertain enslaving half its population in this way does not deserve to survive.