You can think her videos are badly done, her theories lacking and her data unsubstantiated, but I don't believe that "she didn't dilute her opinion enough" is a good criticism, even if fighting only the most solid battles can seem effective in the short term.
I think that pin pointing the exact problem in Sarkeesian has been hard, at least for me, since I've been hedging and swinging in some different directions. It's in my nature to listen and research about everything involved from very different viewpoints, and some times the result is messier than if I just sticked with first impressions and just be a sheep to someone with a sharp clear message about this whole thing. I think it's worth the trouble though.
Having said this, there are some issues that span a lot of activists that are loosely connected with Anita (I'm talking about feminists in general) that really rub me on the wrong side and make, I think, matters way worse than they could be if they were a lot more minimalistic and focused.
First, Anita really boils my brain for having this knack of absolutely dismissing or ignoring any positive, sincere, friendly or polite criticisms of her. What is her daily focus on twitter, on talks, on her videos, whenever? To show psychopathic trolls attacking her and asking her audience if this isn't sexism. If this isn't mysogyny. Now think about this for a second. Who would ever disagree with this? Only
the same nutjob trolls who attacked her. The rest of the audience is like "omg yeah you're right". But she's right about what? That there are mysoginist creeps in the internet? Come on, the sky is blue too, how have we advance the discussion in any way shape or form if
the only people she addresses are the psychopathic trolls?Think about that: the
only people she respects enough in order to respond to them are the darkest participants of the discussion. And everyone who disagrees with her is swiftly swept under those same trolls' group by her allies, handwavingly, mindlessly. "
Oh you disagree with her? Are you crazy? Have you seen the attacks on her? It's a blatant evidence of mysoginy! How can you possibly disagree with her?" is what it boils down to.
Focus on this particular problem for a moment, consider other prominent people who have fought for social change in some way and compare this behavior. Think about Richard Dawkins for instance. Do we conflate all the hate mails, threats and attacks he is the target of daily with the criticism against his positions? No we don't. And why don't we? Well, probably because for starters Dawkins himself
never made that mistake in the first place. He shrubs the trolls and deals with them in comical "hate mail reading by the fireplace" videos, all the while discussing and debating his viewpoints in a civil, respectful manner with all the civil, respectful people who don't agree with his take on the world. In this manner, he is inviting us to politely address him and think rationally about his positions, to disagree with reason not emotion, because that's the way he deals with us himself. This is respect for the audience.
What makes matters worse, Anita herself
profited for this lack of respect she had with her audience. By merely addressing the critics who were abusers and rude to her (and ignoring the rational parts of their own tirades, focusing only on the "feelings" displayed within), by showcasing how hated she was, she managed to get 160k dollars in her pocket. This means that there's no incentive whatsoever for her or any other "activist" to go for the rational route and addressing with generosity the big majority of people who are not commited to any position here and are just trying to learn a thing or two here and might have reasonable questions and doubts regarding the things she said. Much better to either ignore these questions or screenshotting those less polite as examples of the widespread "mysoginy" she's such a target of.
How can this woman possibly be a good example of anything? I mean, I admire her tenacity and preserverance, but her methods are lacking and have created a complete polarization, divisiveness and hatred on an issue that
should and would probably be ****ing consensual if these people had any tact whatsoever.