On top of that I strongly feel that the first duty of a soldier is to protect civilians. When Steele took over in Sol, he conquered that station and then immediately started hunting down everything that wouldn't immediately surrender - including transports packed full with civilians!
No warning shots! No disabling of the engines and capture! Just a "surrender or die", ten seconds to consider and then meciless slaughter.
Wrong. Play "Cost of War" again. The final GTVA bomber assault force contacts the UEF convoy, citing the rules of engagement. "By travelling under military escort, you are considered a military target." There are rules about attacking civilians. As in, don't. However, a civilian vessel travelling under military escort is, most likely, a military asset itself, and thus a valid target. In addition, a civillian freighter that doesn't immediately surrender to an armed force bearing down on it, well, that's just terminally stupid behaviour, right?
If you took out the engines of the enemies, in Delanda Est and the mission before, four Deimos, one Leviathan and one Aeolus are destroyed and another Deimos and Aeolus disabled and most likely captured by the UEF (I'm quite sure it's possible.... on my last playthrough only one Deimos made the jump to safety with 8% left in her last surviving engine subsystem). And while those ships fought, the Imperieus was sitting back twiddling their thumbs.
Two things. One, killing any of the Corvettes or Cruisers in Delenda Est takes some effort, as they are all scripted to warp out before destruction.
Two, Had the Imperieuse jumped in earlier, the Wargods would have more time to maneuver out of her way. If the range had been longer, the Wargods would have just scattered, or clustered up and run away for mutual protection. This way, the Imp and the Hydra were able to get almost guaranteed kills on 2 Karunas and 2 Sancti. Steele took a risk, and was vindicated. As said before, Steele gets results, and gets them fast. He also drives his crews as hard as he possibly can to do so. In the end, the people under his command will follow him everywhere, because they know that with him in command, they'll have a better chance of survival than under someone like Severanti.
And because of that the soldiers would love him? Respect him and be thankfull quite likely, but love?
Steele is the one guy they can count on to win the war as quickly and efficiently as he can. They know for a fact that the long, protracted struggle of Severanti's war of attrition is over. They
know that they have the best chances of winning.
In the end, -Norbert-, what you are doing is armchair strategizing. Could Steele have done it differently? Sure he could. But what matters to him, and to the GTVA, and to the people under his command is that he is
winning the war.