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Off-Topic Discussion => General Discussion => Topic started by: Pegasus V on April 11, 2003, 04:20:22 am
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I need some advice.
I got married to a girl I'd been with for 6 years in September last year, while I was 20 years old. She left me one month later. A week later, I find out that her and my best friend of 14 years are getting jiggy with it. Sorry, I mean ex-best-friend!!
I heal, then start dating a gorgeous girl. But then she gets into the sex industry. Bye bye!
Finally, I think I've found my dream girl. Later I find out that she left school after grade 8. I can live with that. But after a week of dating, she gets jiggy with one of my good friends... Mental breakdown time.
So hense I need advice. Should I turn gay? :nervous: Just kidding.
Anyway, then I receive an email from a very nice girl (http://www.faceparty.com/public/15/images/lilcaddy_331659.jpg) which said, "I live nearby, liked your faceparty profile, so I thought I'd say hi.". We talked and I found out that she was actually a passenger on the party boat that I work on. What a coincidence. We meet up and have lunch together. We have a great time. At least I think so.
I can't remember what I was going to ask you... Stupid beer.
Oh I can't stay mad at you................. Oh yeah...
I message her and ask to take her out to dinner the following night. I don't receive a response, so I call her, she doesn't pick up, call her again an hour later, leave a breif message on her messagebank, email her and msg her through the faceparty online thingo all in the one day. I get a response via SMS from her later on saying that she had no credit on her phone and that she couldn't make it that night coz she has uni (college) until late. I msg her back and tell if she'd like to go to dinner another day, just say.
That was Tuesday. Question is, should I call her today, or just wait for feedback?
I don't want to seem too obsessive by calling, etc too often, but I don't want her to get the impression that I don't like her. I like her a lot hey. She's so beautiful (as I'm sure you can tell in that image) and she has a great personality. I hope something can develop. I also hope she doesn't play FreeSpace and frequent the HLP boards... ;)
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Damn, you sure know how to choose them, eh?
Makes my perpetual dealings with lesbians (goddamit! There's so many of them around here!) positively tame.
Anyhow, play it cool.
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:blah:
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my advice : get rid of your friends
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Errr... and when a woman neglects to call/respond she probably isn't really interested or someone close to her had an accident or sumthin serious...
Orrrrr she's shy :blah:
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That's for your advice. But it's too late, I called her.
She's not interested. :(
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get another beer. oh, come to France, we'll have a beer together :doubt:
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Can i come also? A beer is never wrong:D
/me runs
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mmmmm, b33r :D
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Meh, its a blokes place to get shat on in this day and age, unfortunately. Just dont sweat it and trust me, you'll meet the right gal eventually :)
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Originally posted by wEvil
Meh, its a blokes place to get shat on in this day and age, unfortunately. Just dont sweat it and trust me, you'll meet the right gal eventually :)
trust you? her... no. just need to look around me to know that this does not always happen ( meet the right gal, that is ).
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considering the average age of people on this board and what our preference are as to how we spend our spare time its not that surprising
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Some friends you got yourself, huh. The answer? Fight Club.
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wow, that actually made me smile - have a gold star :D
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Originally posted by wEvil
considering the average age of people on this board and what our preference are as to how we spend our spare time its not that surprising
Hey, I spend my work time here, not my spare time!
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Originally posted by wEvil
wow, that actually made me smile - have a gold star :D
Thanks, thanks.
* pins star to shirt *
* hurts self *
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Originally posted by Pegasus V
I need some advice.
I don't want to seem too obsessive by calling, etc too often, but I don't want her to get the impression that I don't like her.
Thats quite a pickle. Give it a day or so. Wait too long and she probably will loose interest. Phone too soon and she may get a bit scared like you said.
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Uh I don't know what advice to give you. I never had a girl in my whole life. :sigh: :( Well maybe someone else here that are more experienced can help you.
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Originally posted by beatspete
Thats quite a pickle. Give it a day or so. Wait too long and she probably will loose interest. Phone too soon and she may get a bit scared like you said.
What he said. But with this:
If she's interested she'll at least bait you into phoning or messaging again. If you do anything before that happens, then forget it - she'll think you're too posessive/eager/irrational/*insert bollocks here*.
You see the one thing I've learned is, women are not the emotional ones - WE ARE. Women can be far more rational than men.
Also, try and play it slightly cool. Make sure she does some work too ;). But of course, remember and show a little affection at the right moment. Finally, never allow yourself to get too attached until you know for a fact that this is going somewhere.
I made a few mistakes when going after the right/wrong girls, and of course I made an arse of myself. However eventually I got it right and my girlfriend is wonderful - ergo : just remember everyone gets someone eventually. Well, except CP, he'll eventually find a way to clone himself using math alone!
Good luck mate. :)
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Originally posted by wEvil
considering the average age of people on this board and what our preference are as to how we spend our spare time its not that surprising
heh, I'm talking about people in real life, not HLP people. people over 35, for exemple.
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When you say "She got into the sex industry" does this mean there are pictures?
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Originally posted by 01010
When you say "She got into the sex industry" does this mean there are pictures?
:lol:
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Well, you could turn gay and move to San Francisco.
just an idea. :doubt:
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Originally posted by Pegasus V
a very nice girl (http://www.faceparty.com/public/15/images/lilcaddy_331659.jpg)
As we say around my way, she'd get it :nod:
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Originally posted by Pegasus V
Remmber? All the stuff up above? With the hot chick link in it.
You sir, piss me off. One decently hot pic, one reference to a gorgeous chick, a girl of your dreams and one other 6 year marryable typw who, following the pattern - is probably reasonably hot.
Why do all the Hot chicks live in Perth!!! Argh! I live 100 kms away, and we have nobody who isn't either mediocre at best, buggered off to uni or taken/taken over and over again. Is it the beaches? The god damned water? What is it!
I tell you what though, if there're none left next year (damn my boring year of uni defferrment!) I'm blaming you boy.
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Originally posted by Black Wolf
Why do all the Hot chicks live in Perth!!!
I don't live there :p
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Originally posted by Black Wolf
Why do all the Hot chicks live in Perth!!!
(http://www.3dap.com/hlp/hosted/lmarshal/kristin.jpg)
Now, don't tell me you didn't see that coming.
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Originally posted by Stunaep
(http://www.3dap.com/hlp/hosted/lmarshal/kristin.jpg)
Now, don't tell me you didn't see that coming.
Someone really should tell her about that smudge on her face.
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Hey if you don't want her over a smudge, I will!
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Hey Kali, paper scissor rock for her?
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(http://www.hausmarik.de/fetty/sandra01.jpg)
you where saying ? ;7
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:wtf: You all have serious problems. Particularly you, Peggy... I have no idea what you should do...
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Originally posted by Fetty
(http://www.hausmarik.de/fetty/sandra01.jpg)
you where saying ? ;7
Oh ****, good effort Fetty. Done well there, son :yes:
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I just know that 90% of these pics are just ego boosters and not actually true. Not giving any names, but I doubt that everyone has beautifull g/f's :p
Ofcourse I could be wrong, just seems a bit... out of the ordinary.
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never said that was my girlfriend. Just the cutest girl in my class.
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Ah, that's different :p
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Originally posted by Shrike
Makes my perpetual dealings with lesbians (goddamit! There's so many of them around here!) positively tame.
yeah, they only said they were lesbians as to not hurt your feelings.
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Originally posted by Fetty
(http://www.hausmarik.de/fetty/sandra01.jpg)
you where saying ? ;7
not mine anyway i have none :(
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Originally posted by Carl
yeah, they only said they were lesbians as to not hurt your feelings.
Ohhh, I'm so wounded! Argh, I think I will have to kill myself.....
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Originally posted by Fetty
(http://www.hausmarik.de/fetty/sandra01.jpg)
you where saying ? ;7
your mom? damn dude...
*sees Peg's girl*
woa momma ;7
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sodding scorps..
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Ah, women are good to look at :nod:
*disappears under a hail of axe blows*
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Originally posted by Stunaep
(http://www.3dap.com/hlp/hosted/lmarshal/kristin.jpg)
Oh phleeease...that ain't cute and/or sexy anymore. Pick another target dude.
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she's ok, but her nose is rather large and witch-like
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here's some advise...
CRACK WHORES AND PORNO!! ;7 :yes: :yes: ;7 :ha:
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Originally posted by Tiara
I just know that 90% of these pics are just ego boosters and not actually true. Not giving any names, but I doubt that everyone has beautifull g/f's :p
Ofcourse I could be wrong, just seems a bit... out of the ordinary.
Beauty is within the eye of the beholder. My g/f to me is the most beautiful person I know and I wouldn't change her for the world.
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WOOOOOO! Go Dr. Zero!;)
No offence to anyone, but is a computer game forum really the best place to go for romantic advice?
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Originally posted by 01010
When you say "She got into the sex industry" does this mean there are pictures?
No... Phone sex. Although I do have access to her "pics". But I'm not going to betray her trust, sorry. :)
Originally posted by Black Wolf
Why do all the Hot chicks live in Perth!!! Argh! I tell you what though, if there're none left next year (damn my boring year of uni defferrment!) I'm blaming you boy.
Hehe. More population = more chances. Comes to Club Justice - 9/10 girls are superhot!
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Originally posted by Pegasus V
Comes to Club Justice - 9/10 girls are superhot!
Eshpeshilly after five er shix beersh. *hic* Mmm, ladies...
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Originally posted by 01010
Beauty is within the eye of the beholder. My g/f to me is the most beautiful person I know and I wouldn't change her for the world.
Could that be less because she's beautiful and more because you almost had a threesome involving her and another girl in new years eve?
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Originally posted by 01010
Beauty is within the eye of the beholder. My g/f to me is the most beautiful person I know and I wouldn't change her for the world.
Liar :p
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Originally posted by Ulundel
Liar :p
:)
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Ah...I got me a g/f, been going out for 2 weeks...she's great...*sigh*...too bad I'll have to wait till next week-end to see her again...Grrr@over-protective "wrong idea" type parents...
I got a pic of her too!
http://www.geocities.com/corhellion666/yvonnes_pic.jpg
(edit: copy and paste the link...damn Geocrappies.../edit)
Her names Yvonne, and she's my angel
She's also a year and a bit older than me too, which is cool!
I'm 17 by the way, she's 18 going on 19 in oct.
****ty stuff man...well, you can always go to one of those match maker sites and look at the selection there!
Well good luck!
Cor
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Singleness (grumbles), what really sucks is when the girl you fancy has a boyfriend - sends all the right signs. Stops seeing her boyfriend and messes around with you for a day or two - then decides she's not interested after all and goes out with your best friend instead.
Women :mad2:
Edit: Very nice though Cor, although she looks like she's being crushed by a heavy object like a bookcase :)
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heh...I guess so...*sigh*...weeks are too long...thank god for long weekends though ;7
Gonna have fun...NEXT weekend...*grumbles about over-protective parents*