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Title: Not a good start to the holidays...
Post by: Corhellion on June 19, 2003, 11:22:15 am
Greetings fellow forumers...

IT'S THE HOLIDAYS!!! YAY!!! WOOT!!! and all the rest.

However, my holidays (and a few other people from around here) didn't get off to a good start.

A fellow classmate drowned yesterday. At the same place where another classmate drowned a few years ago.

People knew the place was unsafe. But these things happen.

May I please have a moment of silence.


(http://www.geocities.com/corhellion666/Mccredie_gr11.jpg)

Andrew "Drew" Mc Credie

         1986-2003

Thank you for your time.

Cor

(edit: copy and paste the image to see)
Title: Not a good start to the holidays...
Post by: Fineus on June 19, 2003, 11:37:58 am
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Damn man, I'm sorry to hear about that - I guess if it happens that much it can't be safe to be there, but that doesnt change the fact that it's tragic. I certainly hope your holiday improves... and indeed that everyone copes ok with it.
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Post by: kasperl on June 19, 2003, 11:57:33 am
damn, sorry to hear that. i hope if family finds some way of dealing with someting like this.
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Post by: Tiara on June 19, 2003, 12:10:03 pm
:(

[insert moment of silence]
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 12:12:33 pm
People die. Deal.
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Post by: FreeTerran on June 19, 2003, 12:21:08 pm
The world is bad to us.....:sigh:

:(
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Post by: Fineus on June 19, 2003, 12:28:40 pm
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Originally posted by an0n
People die. Deal.

That doesn't mean you can't show a little compassion - one more commment like that from you or anyone else and I'm making motions to have you banned. People may well die, but if someone posts about it and you can't either be compassionate or shut the f*** up and say nothing at all then you can find another forum for all I care. Bitter little prick.

(note, respond to this in any way other than an apology to Corhellion for your insensitivity and I'll have motions to have you banned for that too, I'm tired of some of the people around here and their attitudes towards others. Don't have anything nice to say? Shut up or go elsewhere.)
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Post by: Petrarch of the VBB on June 19, 2003, 12:31:23 pm
I'm sorry to hear that, Cor. I hope that people can cope.

Where was this place that he drowned, might I ask?
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 12:38:41 pm
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Originally posted by Kalfireth
That doesn't mean you can't show a little compassion - one more commment like that from you or anyone else and I'm making motions to have you banned. People may well die, but if someone posts about it and you can't either be compassionate or shut the f*** up and say nothing at all then you can find another forum for all I care. Bitter little prick.

(note, respond to this in any way other than an apology to Corhellion for your insensitivity and I'll have motions to have you banned for that too, I'm tired of some of the people around here and their attitudes towards others. Don't have anything nice to say? Shut up or go elsewhere.)
Ah, well:

Fuck you.
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Post by: redsniper on June 19, 2003, 12:41:44 pm
:sigh: *moment of silence* sorry to hear that. I hope your holiday only gets better.
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Post by: Stunaep on June 19, 2003, 12:55:22 pm
Really sorry about that dude. Hope it'll get better.

On a side note, I look forward to an0n's...erm...voluntary retirement.
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 12:57:23 pm
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Originally posted by Stunaep
On a side note, I look forward to an0n's...erm...voluntary retirement.
:wtf:

:(:doubt:
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Post by: beatspete on June 19, 2003, 12:58:57 pm
Dude.  ****.

I know how you feel, a girl in my year died on our prom night 6 months ago - and we don't have a very big year, everyone knows each other.
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 01:00:12 pm
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Originally posted by beatspete
a girl in my year died on our prom night 6 months ago
See, that sucks. But someone drowning after going swimming in a place they knew was lethal is just Darwinism.
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Post by: Corhellion on June 19, 2003, 01:13:39 pm
Ah Thunder/Kalfireth, just leave An0n alone, he's insensitive sometimes, but he's human too...I think...(j/k!!)

Thanks everybody...

This stuff sucks...our last exams were yesterday too...

Sorry to hear that pete...a girl was also murdered this year too...she was 15 years old...murdered by her 23 year old(I think it was around there...) boyfriend.

Hope nothin' else like this happens anymore...

Cor
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Post by: Martinus on June 19, 2003, 01:16:59 pm
:sigh:
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Post by: Petrarch of the VBB on June 19, 2003, 01:17:23 pm
Where in the world do you live, Cor?
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Post by: phreak on June 19, 2003, 01:18:14 pm
sorry about your loss
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 01:18:54 pm
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Originally posted by Corhellion
Ah Thunder/Kalfireth, just leave An0n alone, he's insensitive sometimes, but he's human too...I think...(j/k!!)
I'm Human++. Maybe I'm FORTMAN, I'm not sure.

And I'm 'insensetive' because I see the big picture and thus see individual lives as being worth fuck-all.

There are CARS that cost more than people.

And how many people die every goddamn year in India when the place floods to ****? What, a few thousand? Do we sit and mourn them? Hell no. Because **** happens.
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Post by: Corhellion on June 19, 2003, 01:19:18 pm
Near...Belleville Ont.

I go to Center Hastings Secondary School in Madoc

Drew drowned in the river in Tweed Ont.

The girl was killed in Marmora

Cor
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Post by: Petrarch of the VBB on June 19, 2003, 01:22:11 pm
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Originally posted by Corhellion
Near...Belleville Ont.

I go to Center Hastings Secondary School in Madoc

Drew drowned in the river in Tweed Ont.

The girl was killed in Marmora

Cor


Oh, I thought you were a Scot, as it seems that a lot of these things happen on school trips and such to the Highlands.
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Post by: Nico on June 19, 2003, 01:48:21 pm
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Originally posted by an0n
I'm Human++. Maybe I'm FORTMAN, I'm not sure.

And I'm 'insensetive' because I see the big picture and thus see individual lives as being worth fuck-all.

There are CARS that cost more than people.

And how many people die every goddamn year in India when the place floods to ****? What, a few thousand? Do we sit and mourn them? Hell no. Because **** happens.


yeah, you're like that because you don't know them. mind you, I think the same as you.
but when that happens to someone you happen to know, it's a different world, go wonder.
in any case, there's just no need to go tell others about that, they just don't need it. I hope you won't get banned for something that stupid, but I also hope you wouldn't do it again. I expect you to laugh at me or something like that, tho, unfortunately :doubt:
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Post by: Martinus on June 19, 2003, 02:08:25 pm
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Originally posted by an0n
And I'm 'insensetive' because I see the big picture and thus see individual lives as being worth fuck-all.

[color=66ff00]Most people find this kind of thing distressing, just because you claim to have a grasp on something bigger does not give you the right to invalidate how they feel.

Who's to say you're right anyway? Why is one single life worth nothing? In mathematical terms it may be one in ten million or one in a billion but to most of us one life might be worth more than any amount of cars or currency.

Most people don't think the way you do, this does not make them right and you wrong but you have to be willing to accept that it's their view, or be ignored because everyone knows that you don't care about what they think.
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Post by: Ryx on June 19, 2003, 02:14:33 pm
:(
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 02:22:40 pm
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Title: Not a good start to the holidays...
Post by: kasperl on June 19, 2003, 02:26:06 pm
this is directed at an0n, and he'll probably will kill me for this, but i need to say this.

even if your right about the fact that one life isn't much compared to the thousands that die each day in traffic, or because they don't have food, it's still a great loss for those that knew that person. now, if you can be so emotionless that you don't have to care, fine for you. but you shouldn't tell others that what they feel means nothing, not after some person died, no matter how much it was his own mistake. now, i know your family isn't really something you care about, or at least that's the impression i get from your posts. so i won't use that as an example, and i doubt you have friends your really, really care about. anyway, let's just say someone you do care about dies, because he, let's say, jumped of a bridge in a drunken state when someone dared him or her. wouldn't you feel a loss, just becasue that person with all his or her quality's is lost, to you, but to the world as well? off course, that person was an idiot for getting him or herself killed (note, i am not reffering to the subject of this thread), but even then, if you think about all the good that person might have done, isn't any dead a great loss?

ok, you'll probably see all of this as a big pile of BS, but even if you do, don't impress your views on others, especially not if they lost a loved one.
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Post by: Nico on June 19, 2003, 02:27:25 pm
you can't value a person to the amount of money you spent for this person, you know...
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 02:32:10 pm
I'd be vastly impressed that:
[list=a]And I'd feel honoured to have known such a person.


All that remains when we inevitably die is what people remember of us and the ripples we made in the world. No matter how nice, or evil, or calous, or friendly the person was, that is the case. The fact that we are arguing the fundamentals of death because of this guy Cor Knew is a greater testament to his life than any of this "Oh, he was a great guy. He'll be missed. We're sorry for your loss." bull**** that you all seem to revel in.
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Post by: Martinus on June 19, 2003, 02:34:36 pm
[color=66ff00]It's not that specific person that our sympathy is targeted at, it's the idea.
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 02:36:07 pm
Then it's even more redundant than I had realised.
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Post by: kasperl on June 19, 2003, 02:36:31 pm
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Originally posted by an0n
car-human comparison
 


an0n, i find these things pretty offensive, just because you can't sopend as much on your kid as some crazy rich family does on thier car, doesn;t mean that a human bieng isn't worth more then a car. you don't buy humans. every single human being there is, no matter how ill, mentally or physicly impared, or otherwise abnormal, as good quality's to add to society. if you would just take Darwinism as you're ideology, you'd say that every slightly bad strain should be elimenated. if you do this, you take away what's human, our uniqueniss and personal bad -or good- characteristics. now, off course, you can say that our humanity isn't defined by our flaws, but by our skills. if you do, i won't bash your views, but i can't agree. if you take away every bad aspect in ahuman being, you take away their humanity.

ok, this post didn't go as it was planned, and i have to attend my schoolwork now, but an0n, if you wan't to carry on this discussion, start another topic, please. just see it as a bit of respect for the dead, ok?
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Post by: an0n on June 19, 2003, 02:39:28 pm
I have respect for the dead. On a school trip to the French WW2 battlefields and graveyards I was the only person (including the teachers) who didn't walk on/over/across the graves.

People are, by the very essence and fundamental nature of life, unimportant. It is their deeds which matter.
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Post by: CP5670 on June 19, 2003, 02:39:35 pm
lol, for once I am in 100% agreement with an0n; great stuff there. :D :yes:
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Post by: Stunaep on June 19, 2003, 02:40:31 pm
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Originally posted by Corhellion

Sorry to hear that pete...a girl was also murdered this year too...she was 15 years old...murdered by her 23 year old(I think it was around there...) boyfriend.
 


Okay, no offense, but this is one WEIRD school you go to.
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Post by: Nico on June 19, 2003, 02:56:58 pm
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Originally posted by Stunaep


Okay, no offense, but this is one WEIRD school you go to.


not really, in fact ( sadly ).
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Post by: Corhellion on June 19, 2003, 03:04:52 pm
yay...I'll agree with you Stuneap...my school is ****ed up...

there was also...an...um..."incident" that happened to a guy I know.

He and his g/f (at the time)...um..."did something in the boy's change room" AND!!! (this tops it all off!) They got caught!!!! :lol:

Ok...well...An0n...I would be surprised if Kal bans you when he sees your last few posts...so, enjoy your stay until then!

And to clear up a few things:

1: Drew was probably swimming for fun with a bunch of his friends and he probably went into the rapids and got caught in the undertow.

2: I don't think he was drinking.

3: He'll be missed by all of his friends, family and his g/f...poor girl...

That's all I have to say.

*goes to play TFC*

Cor
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Post by: aldo_14 on June 19, 2003, 03:09:23 pm
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Originally posted by an0n
I'm Human++. Maybe I'm FORTMAN, I'm not sure.

And I'm 'insensetive' because I see the big picture and thus see individual lives as being worth fuck-all.
 


No, you're a dumb, terminally immature little ****wit who attempts to cover their own feelings of inadequacy with some bizarre & unconvincing attempt to put out an image of self-superiority.

Grow up and learn to respect other peoples feelings - stop posting deliberately provocative or insulting pish just to try and satisfy your apparent craving for being loathed.
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Post by: Corhellion on June 19, 2003, 03:10:58 pm
Here Here! :nod:
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Post by: Stunaep on June 19, 2003, 03:19:18 pm
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Originally posted by Venom


not really, in fact ( sadly ).


In that case, I´m happy to be estonian. The worst thing we've had in the entire COUNTRY was that a couple of young 15-year-olds crashed with a car in the capital, and died. And then there was the incident with a girl who hung himself. And none of those was in my school.

And cor... the dude who died was a girl?

In that case I'm even more sorry. If this was a boy I would've thought that it was some dude trying to be "cool"
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Post by: Corhellion on June 19, 2003, 03:22:21 pm
...the guy who died yesterday WAS A GUY!

the girl who was murdered, was killed in november or december...
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Post by: Knight Templar on June 19, 2003, 03:44:47 pm
Well I just watched Star Trek Nemesis again last night (for whatever reason...) So can we take a minute to mourn over Data?

:(
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Post by: aldo_14 on June 19, 2003, 03:52:17 pm
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Originally posted by Knight Templar
Well I just watched Star Trek Nemesis again last night (for whatever reason...) So can we take a minute to mourn over Data?

:(


Surely celebrate?

And isn't this trivialising the issue a tad?
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Post by: Knight Templar on June 19, 2003, 03:55:12 pm
dude, Data was like one of the best characters on there, and he was bound to cost more than any car.

tis a sad day indeed. :sigh:
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Post by: Fineus on June 19, 2003, 06:06:24 pm
I'm going to lock this purely because of it's potential to go the wrong way.

In addition, an0n. I realise that you feel this way - and it's fine that you do, I won't try and change that. But this forum is public and people have feelings - it just so happens that I lost a family friend a couple of weeks ago that I've known for the last 18 (and therefore 18/19s) of my life, therefore Corhellions loss is particularly close to home since I've lost a friend recently too and the very suggestion that I should just get over it because their life wasn't worth as much as a car is incredibly insensitive. Given your attitude of "**** you" to that angle of things, I've no problem with banning you for the time being. You want to do things your own way? Do it on your own turf - but HLP is not your private stomping ground, nor is it anyone elses. I've offended nobody with my views on this - but you have. Since you won't stop, you'll have to be treated like the insensitive person that you portray yourself to be. All it really takes is to say nothing, or to offer sympathies even if you don't mean it - and people will move on and not take notice - but you have to prove that you think differently because you're under the impression we care, and guess what - you pissed people off. Now you deal with that, and if "**** you" is your best response, we'll I've news for you, you and your opinions are not as important as you think them to be, the same as everyone else - but since you won't think about that, you'll have to be treated as you bought upon yourself. Now you deal.

(and on that note, I'm going to sleep)...