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Title: Finally selected my wedding ring [update2: now w/ real pics]
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 09:48:44 am
(http://www.kay.com/images/en_US/products/detail/250635303.jpg)

still trying to find one for the fiancee that she likes

and isn't out of our budget
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ferret on May 02, 2006, 09:59:31 am
(http://www.123healthybalance.com/i/products/hula-hoops.jpg)

.... Well I'ld accept it...
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: BlackDove on May 02, 2006, 10:10:06 am
Tacky.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Setekh on May 02, 2006, 10:17:23 am
You're not getting matching rings? That's interesting.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 10:31:27 am
Tacky.

what are you refering to as tacky? my ring of Ferret's post?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ferret on May 02, 2006, 10:32:58 am
Tacky.

what are you refering to as tacky? my ring of Ferret's post?
Probably yours since mine isn't tacky, it's tastyeful.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Unknown Target on May 02, 2006, 10:56:37 am
Nice rings, although they remind me of The One Ring :D
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 11:00:13 am
it's a single ring - they just pictured it at two angles
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Martinus on May 02, 2006, 11:13:08 am
You sure? The diameters are significantly different. Looks very his 'n hers.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Flipside on May 02, 2006, 11:16:25 am
I like them, they look nice :)

....And in darkness bind them.... ;)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 11:31:38 am
You sure? The diameters are significantly different. Looks very his 'n hers.

they had no womens rings of that design

in the picture one is a size ten and one is a size nine - both common male sizes

and yes - i will rule them all :D
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Wild Fragaria on May 02, 2006, 11:48:43 am
The ring looks good but if I was the one who designed it, I will simplify the pattern and use platinum or white gold instead of gold.  Anyway, as long as you like it and that matters the most :D  Congratulations!  When's the big day?  Can I come?  :D
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 11:54:38 am
if you look closely the inner pattern is on white gold, it just has an electroplating of yellow gold which has been given a brushed finish, at low angles the edge becomes very apparently and flashes the white gold

as the ring is worn over the years the electroplating will probably wear off
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: karajorma on May 02, 2006, 12:06:27 pm
and yes - i will rule them all :D

Most men seem to go into marriage believing that. It generally takes a few years to realise the terrible depth of that mistake :p
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ghostavo on May 02, 2006, 12:14:11 pm
and yes - i will rule them all :D

Most men seem to go into marriage believing that. It generally takes a few years to realise the terrible depth of that mistake :p

Years? Don't you mean 5 minutes afterwards?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Wild Fragaria on May 02, 2006, 12:31:23 pm
if you look closely the inner pattern is on white gold, it just has an electroplating of yellow gold which has been given a brushed finish, at low angles the edge becomes very apparently and flashes the white gold

as the ring is worn over the years the electroplating will probably wear off

Yeah I can see what you're talking about.  I still think it looks nicer in silvery color.  How many people did you guys invite?

and yes - i will rule them all :D

Most men seem to go into marriage believing that. It generally takes a few years to realise the terrible depth of that mistake :p

Years? Don't you mean 5 minutes afterwards?

Yeah, you really think that?  Then why are so many men get married?  *lol*
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ghostavo on May 02, 2006, 12:34:59 pm
and yes - i will rule them all :D

Most men seem to go into marriage believing that. It generally takes a few years to realise the terrible depth of that mistake :p

Years? Don't you mean 5 minutes afterwards?

Yeah, you really think that?  Then why are so many men get married?  *lol*

Er... I think karajorma answered that :p

Besides, there is always hope :nervous:
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Wild Fragaria on May 02, 2006, 12:38:19 pm
Do you hope because of you believe in it?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ghostavo on May 02, 2006, 12:42:49 pm
Do you hope because of you believe in it?

Five minutes into the whole thing probably not...  :shaking:
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Wild Fragaria on May 02, 2006, 12:49:39 pm
No need to be nervous  :p
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ghostavo on May 02, 2006, 12:50:14 pm
Yet...
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: karajorma on May 02, 2006, 01:06:19 pm
Years? Don't you mean 5 minutes afterwards?

You're assuming that women change the second that they are married? Shame on you. :rolleyes:




They know full well that you can get the marriage annulled if it's not been consummated and it should take you at least that long to get out of the church :)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 01:06:59 pm
Yeah I can see what you're talking about.  I still think it looks nicer in silvery color.  How many people did you guys invite?

about 50
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 01:09:13 pm
Years? Don't you mean 5 minutes afterwards?

You're assuming that women change the second that they are married? Shame on you. :rolleyes:


yeah, some people are teh silly.  I've been living with her for almost two and a half years


They know full well that you can get the marriage annulled if it's not been consummated and it should take you at least that long to get out of the church :)

 :lol:  :lol:

not consumated? any marriage that doesn't come pre-consumated  ;7 is bound for trouble  :pimp:

church? what is this church thing you're speaking of, church has nothing to do with marriage



atleast for me  ;)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: karajorma on May 02, 2006, 01:59:19 pm
Yeah I know but making the joke atheistic would have killed the punchline :D
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 02, 2006, 02:52:20 pm
out of the venue?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Wild Fragaria on May 02, 2006, 03:15:50 pm
Yeah I can see what you're talking about.  I still think it looks nicer in silvery color.  How many people did you guys invite?

about 50

Sounds like a small cozy wedding.  Can you make it 51?  I can be the flower girl and I look good in fancy gown (I have pictures to prove that)  :D

Anyway, congrats again and I'm very happy for you two  :)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Rictor on May 02, 2006, 03:45:48 pm
You know you can buy The One Ring on a few websites. So the only way the marriage can be destroyed is by throwing both rings into a mountain of fire, possibly while they're still attached to their owners, depending on how desperate the situation is.

Anyway, congrats on getting married.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Polpolion on May 02, 2006, 05:15:32 pm
Nice rings, although they remind me of The One Ring :D

[off-topic]I had a boardgame which had some of the ring replicas in them, so I took one to the movie, and when Frodo said, "Where's the ring?" I said, "I have it!" [/off-topic]
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: IceFire on May 02, 2006, 06:27:41 pm
Congrats Kazan.  Good luck on the whole thing...

Nice rings too!
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 05:28:57 am
*Snickers @ karajorma. :p

'Grats kazan, the lucky girl must be a woman of steel and patience. ;) :p
Are you going for an outdoors wedding?
They are always nice. :)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 08:37:04 am
it's being hold indoors - it's november afterall

being held in the Conservatory @ Reiman Gardens

(http://www.fpm.iastate.edu/maps/buildings/154.jpg)
(http://www.galvanizeit.org/resources/files/customImages/Reiman%20Gardens%20Conservatory.jpg)


(http://www.reimangardens.com/documents/albums/u_010604111421.jpg)
(http://www.reimangardens.com/documents/albums/u_010604111013.jpg)
(http://www.reimangardens.com/documents/albums/u_010604111435.jpg)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: aldo_14 on May 03, 2006, 08:40:13 am
Nice choice.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 08:43:59 am
Nice choice.

Seconded.
Much-o-green :) :yes:
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 09:02:37 am
now i'm pissed - her parents said they would pay for the wedding, then sent us enough money to only cover half of the expenses; and she won't ask them about it.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 09:29:56 am
Erhh... yeeahhh.
Trouble in paradise?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 09:47:36 am
yes -
it's called "never trust anyone's parents ever"
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 09:53:10 am
yes -
it's called "never trust anyone's parents ever"

Erh, maybe they are expecting a payment scheme, 12months interest free? :p
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 09:57:04 am
no - i figured they may just be sending it in two checks

but she won't ask them about it  :mad: :hopping:
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 10:02:22 am
LoL.
Well, wait a week or so, then ask. No point in getting reved up over it yet. :p

Go have a root instead, else head to the pub. *shrugs*
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 10:11:30 am
lol grug doesn't know me very well

head to the pub? lol
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: übermetroid on May 03, 2006, 10:47:39 am
and yes - i will rule them all :D

Most men seem to go into marriage believing that. It generally takes a few years to realise the terrible depth of that mistake :p

HAHAHAHA.......

Thats funny because it is true.  I have been married for only 2 years and I just learned who is boss.    :(
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 11:07:43 am
lol grug doesn't know me very well

head to the pub? lol

That could be taken a few ways...

loLs @ uber'oids
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 11:10:53 am
take it in the kazan-doesn't-drink way
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 11:16:32 am
Fair 'nuff. :p
I'll go to the pub on your behalf then. ;)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: aldo_14 on May 03, 2006, 11:17:28 am
Fair 'nuff. :p
I'll go to the pub on your behalf then. ;)

Yeah, cos you really need an excuse to......
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Grug on May 03, 2006, 11:22:25 am
Fair 'nuff. :p
I'll go to the pub on your behalf then. ;)

Yeah, cos you really need an excuse to......

Quiet you. :p
Who doesn't!?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Wild Fragaria on May 03, 2006, 12:01:26 pm
You have pick a nice place for the wedding.  So what are you going to do if that's the only check you'll get?  Make up the rest from your own pocket or cut the guest list?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 03, 2006, 12:56:48 pm
make up the rest out of pocket - cutting the guest list wouldn't make it cheaper
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Gortef on May 04, 2006, 03:31:04 am
Good loking ring Kazan. Nice choise. Also the place looks fantastic aswell :)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: BlackDove on May 04, 2006, 08:10:35 pm
Tacky.

what are you refering to as tacky? my ring of Ferret's post?

Your ring.

I've been pretty lucky to sit in on this conversation with a friend of my family a few years back who was a sixth generation goldsmith/jewler, owned his own shop, etc. etc.

Basically it comes down to detail, or lack of it, defining the features and quality. There is nothing wrong with the kind of a ring you chose, if the ring and its ingredients cost in the upper range of about a million dollars (figurative price, just to paint the value system behind precious stones) and beyond and the detail is matched with quality, but even just looking at the image of that ring, I can see it definitely isn't one with high-value jewels and gold, but more it's trying to look as if it is.

The key to selecting a ring is your price range, and then taking the value and making it seamless. The ring you chose, to me, just screams "tacky" as it has quite a bit of detail, and it clearly states that you wanted a ring which displays a lot of features.

Only the poor man needs something to brag about. Much like the uneducated being the ones who demand respect the most. So, hand in hand, goes property and what it displays. Your ring displays a lot.

But that's just my opinion, and my opinion isn't fact. We all see what we see. If you want an example of my point of view from popular culture, it would sort of be the "Lord of the Rings", actual ring, being just an ordinary gold ring with that much power behind it, or more accurately, the "Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade" with the whole Holy Grail topic in the end. The Grail of kings wasn't the one with the jewlery and sparkly **** on it, it was the cup of a carpenter that gave "eternal life".

On another note though, I very much like the choice of your wedding location. Very good choice. :yes:
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 05, 2006, 07:02:35 am
wow.. that was pulled out of someone's ass

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There is nothing wrong with the kind of a ring you chose, if the ring and its ingredients cost in the upper range of about a million dollars (figurative price, just to paint the value system behind precious stones)

how the ****ing hell do you figure that? it's just two tone gold - no stones, the white gold has a yellow gold electroplate with a brushed finish and it's etched

furthermore - if i had purchased one with stones i would get lab grown stones since they're chemically more pure, you have finer control over the colors, they don't have flaws and they're cheaper.  MY fiancee even intends to get lab stones for hers.

seriously, where did you get this load of **** from.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: aldo_14 on May 05, 2006, 07:16:08 am
wow.. that was pulled out of someone's ass

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There is nothing wrong with the kind of a ring you chose, if the ring and its ingredients cost in the upper range of about a million dollars (figurative price, just to paint the value system behind precious stones)

how the ****ing hell do you figure that? it's just two tone gold - no stones, the white gold has a yellow gold electroplate with a brushed finish and it's etched

furthermore - if i had purchased one with stones i would get lab grown stones since they're chemically more pure, you have finer control over the colors, they don't have flaws and they're cheaper.  MY fiancee even intends to get lab stones for hers.

seriously, where did you get this load of **** from.

Kaz, it only really matters what you (well, and the wife-to-be) think of it anyways, so i wouldn't let it annoy you.

 BD ovbviously prefers something plain & simple, although a more polite phrasing of that would be nice, IMO, and in any case I'd imagine the ring looks different than in the photo simply due to light and contrast differences in 'real' light anyways (for example, the reflectance on the cross-hatching potentially makes it look a bit like faux-diamonds).
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: BlackDove on May 05, 2006, 12:16:57 pm
wow.. that was pulled out of someone's ass

how the ****ing hell do you figure that?

seriously, where did you get this load of **** from.

See, that's just the thing I was talking about.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: aldo_14 on May 05, 2006, 12:59:52 pm
Alright, just break it up........
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Ulala on May 05, 2006, 01:41:02 pm
The location looks great, it'll be a beautiful wedding indeed. Congrats Kazan, good luck to you and your gal!  :nod:
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 05, 2006, 10:40:36 pm
thank you ulala


BD i'm still waiting for an explaination of why you think a few pennyweight of gold should cost $1 million
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: aldo_14 on May 06, 2006, 07:14:06 am
thank you ulala


BD i'm still waiting for an explaination of why you think a few pennyweight of gold should cost $1 million

He thought the silver bits were diamonds (or diamond-esque jewels).
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: BlackDove on May 06, 2006, 08:27:18 am
No he didn't.


BD i'm still waiting for an explaination of why you think a few pennyweight of gold should cost $1 million

I already explained everything. :)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Inquisitor on May 06, 2006, 08:54:36 am
http://www.hard-light.net/forums/index.php/topic,37583.0.html
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: BlackDove on May 06, 2006, 11:39:34 am
Don't wave that at me, I just said the ring was not to my liking and why.
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 07, 2006, 05:49:55 pm
BD i'm still waiting for an explaination of why you think a few pennyweight of gold should cost $1 million

(oh wait.. you clearly showed that you think anything that glitters must be impersonating stones.... right)

Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring
Post by: Kazan on May 08, 2006, 12:19:59 pm
finally got blairs

I couldn't find the picture of the yellow gold version - but this is what we're getting - and the two big diamonds are being replaced by sapphires

(http://www.riddlesjewelry.com/images/12637539.jpg)

it's going with this solitare (in 1/10 carat size) [which was the engagement ring]
(http://www.riddlesjewelry.com/images/10401631.jpg)

so she'll have two tone gold going on - three stone appearance (sapphire, diamond, sapphire) with the diamond band
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update: blair's too]
Post by: vyper on May 08, 2006, 12:48:11 pm
Nice.

Don't take this the wrong way - but the first one in that last post looks like its a smiley face...
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update: blair's too]
Post by: Kazan on May 08, 2006, 01:00:59 pm
lol

that's what a wrap is - this one just has a curve of diamonds along the band unlike others
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update: blair's too]
Post by: Grug on May 08, 2006, 11:48:58 pm
Shiny. :)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update: blair's too]
Post by: Sandwich on May 09, 2006, 09:10:46 am
Isn't the proper term a "wedding band", not a "wedding ring"?
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update: blair's too]
Post by: Kazan on May 09, 2006, 09:12:37 am
do i care? :P
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update2: now w/ real pics]
Post by: Kazan on June 01, 2006, 09:18:50 pm
now with pics of the actual ring

(http://derekmeek.com/Pictures/BlairRing1.jpg)
(http://derekmeek.com/Pictures/BlairRing2.jpg)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update2: now w/ real pics]
Post by: Flipside on June 02, 2006, 02:34:38 pm
Looking very nice :) The Sapphire tends to add an 'Egyptian' feel to the rings, which I quite like :)

Edit : Or maybe I've just been playing too much Pharaoh and Cleopatra lately ;)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update2: now w/ real pics]
Post by: karajorma on June 02, 2006, 03:14:50 pm
What kinky dress up games you get up to with Sharon should remain in your bedroom :p
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update2: now w/ real pics]
Post by: Flipside on June 02, 2006, 03:18:16 pm
:lol: Of course, you have to worry as to who plays Cleo ;)
Title: Re: Finally selected my wedding ring [update2: now w/ real pics]
Post by: aldo_14 on June 02, 2006, 04:07:33 pm
:lol: Of course, you have to worry as to who plays Cleo ;)

Keep your asp out of it!