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Off-Topic Discussion => General Discussion => Topic started by: Admiral Edivad on May 24, 2009, 10:04:25 am
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Hi everybody,
i write here to communicate you some news concerning my Italian colleague Mobius. Some of you may already know his relationship with Sabrina, an italian lady. Less of you will have heard that the girl became pregnant some months ago.
My communication here is to inform the community of the death of the baby, which occurred in the night between the 4th and 5th of May.
This is the reason for Mobius absence, and i don't know how long it will last.
I heard of him recently and he wasn't in a good state, therefore I'd ask you all to be respectful of Mobius silence and sorrow.
I thank you in advance.
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If you speak to him again before he comes back be sure to communicate this forums heartfelt condolences to him. I'm sure that we're all very sad to hear this.
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Sad. My condolences go out. Lots a' tragedy lately.
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Sorry to hear about that, my condolences to him and his partner :(
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Oh, no.
I'm so sorry for both of them.
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Oh my God. First AE's father, and now this. I ****ing hate Memorial Day Weekend.
Like Kara said, if you talk to him again before he returns, give both of them my condolences. A death in the family is never easy, but losing your child...there are no fitting words for it.
I'm so sorry. :(
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My condolences also
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Like I said on IRC, I feel deeply for Mobius's loss. I hope that he can get past it.
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I don't know what to say beyond to pass on my condolences. : :(
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:(
We are here for him online, though it pains me that we cannot be so AFK.
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My condolences also
:rolleyes: :( :( :(
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It's so sad that this has happened. I'm so, so sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences to them both.
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My god, that's awful. My condolences to them both. :(
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Oh my God... Jesus.
I'm sure he'll be the last person he wants to hear from now, but really. Don't know what to say.
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That's just awful. My deepest sympathies to both of you. You are in my prayers.
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My condolences also
:rolleyes: :( :( :(
You could at least pretend you're not bringing your personal grievences into a condolences thread, for chrissakes.
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I will only say this once:
This isn't about differences, it's about someone losing their child. Been there, done that, and I can assure you that I will come down with great wrath on anyone who turns this thread into an argument.
I won't name names, I will simply ask everyone to please respect Mobius at this time, believe it or not, it's possible to not agree with someone and still care when something like this happens, this is uncountable leagues above and beyond a disagreement over a Mod or personal differences of any sort.
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I hope this turns into a Stealth, because I'd rather be angry at a lie than sad about the truth.
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sorry to hear this , as flipside said earlier, also know this one ....... hugs to you both ..
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I cannot imagine what they must be going through. I will keep both of them in my prayers.
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I will only say this once:
This isn't about differences, it's about someone losing their child. Been there, done that, and I can assure you that I will come down with great wrath on anyone who turns this thread into an argument.
I won't name names, I will simply ask everyone to please respect Mobius at this time, believe it or not, it's possible to not agree with someone and still care when something like this happens, this is uncountable leagues above and beyond a disagreement over a Mod or personal differences of any sort.
Amen to that, Flipside. Amen to that.
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences.
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This is really sad. My condolences to them both.
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Jesus...
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Oh dear, that's... my deepest condolences to them both.
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I hope this turns into a Stealth, because I'd rather be angry at a lie than sad about the truth.
I seriously doubt it's a Stealth.
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This is sad news. They'll be in my prayers.
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So, was it a miscarriage, or was it post-birth?
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I´m sorry to hear this. My condolences.
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My God... This is terrible... I'm so sorry to hear that.
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So, was it a miscarriage, or was it post-birth?
Does it really matter?
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So, was it a miscarriage, or was it post-birth?
...is it seriously appropriate to ask that?
My sorrow for Mobius and his partner. Best of luck getting over it :(
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It's not inappropriate to ask. it's just a question, and not an invalid one.
It may not be a relevant question to some people, but I certainly wouldn't class it as inappropriate.
Anyway, we get the message, so please, we don't need multiple posts on the subject.
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God, Mobius, I'm so sorry. :( I'll keep both of you and your baby in my prayers. Hang in there, man.
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I'm terribly sorry to hear about this, Mobius. What I'm going through is nothing compared to what you have to bear.
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I'm terribly sorry to hear about this, Mobius. What I'm going through is nothing compared to what you have to bear.
Don't say that, man. These are both terrible things. We're here for you and Mobius.
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Agree with Battuta, losing a member of the family is equally painful, there is a saying that no parent should outlive their child, but that doesn't mean that losing a parent is less painful, you have a lifetime of memories, in some ways that helps, in others, it makes it that much more difficult to deal with.
You miss what 'was', Mobius and his partner have to wonder what 'could have been', I know I did for years. Neither is, I think, less painful than the other.
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This is awful. Condolences to Mobius and his partner. :(
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I'm at a loss for words.............I can only add my condolences. :(