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Off-Topic Discussion => General Discussion => Topic started by: peterv on July 07, 2009, 11:24:20 am
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O.K. here's the story: I'm in a bar with my ex girlfriend and a guy she knows from school walks in. She starts talking with him and ignoring me. For hours. I meet some guys in the bar and i leave with them without telling her a word.
After that, i stopped answering her phonecalls.
But I'm not so very mad anymore, so my question is this:
How do i break up with her politely?
Thanks in advance.
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Just text her "sry it didnt work out lets split up"
(P.S. not a lady)
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Wait, so it's your ex-girlfriend? Or your current girlfriend who ignored you?
If she's actually your girlfriend, stop being a ***** and just call her on her ****. Although, from the sounds of it, she was probably doing it because you ****ed up. You have to think, peterv: What have you done, and much ass do you need to kiss to get the budget back in black.
That said, if she's your ex-girlfriend, then congratulations! You're a stalker! And a narcissist! Yay!
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Breaking up with an ex-girlfriend? Congrats, that takes some doing.
OTOH, are you seriously going to break up with her because she talked to another guy that she knew? And then you stopped answering phone calls. I may have not had a girlfriend before, but that seems.... extreme.
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If she ignored you at the bar with her friends like that, odds are she doesn't give a crap about you either way and is ****ing other guys.
I'm sure she won't be all that heartbroken if you tell her goodbye.
(P.S. not a lady... yet)
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call her a whore and destroy her car
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Why are you asking in here? There's only really IamZack, and I'm not sure she'd say what you want to hear.
Just talk to her, tell her you felt ignored and more than a bit humiliated by her completely blanking you for her ex, you never know, she might listen and understand your feelings, and, if she doesn't, then at least you can both break up knowing why.
She might call you possessive, but it's not so much a matter of owning her as her not respecting your partnership in a way that makes you comfortable. That's not a fault on her part, or yours, just an incompatibility, it can be worked around if you are determined, or you can quit while you are ahead.
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Rather strangely, I agree with Blackdove on this one. :D If she cared about you she would have included you in the conversation.
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Will admit, not arguing with the decision, or why you made it, just saying, clear the air with her straight away, there's no real trick to ending a relationship other than being honest.
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Sure there is.
You can always be a man and just stop calling.
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sleep with her sister , mother or brother , which ever one is cutest, this will usualy finish a relationship
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/me can't believe advice has been asked for and the inevitable answer has yet to be given.
Starting poll on how long it takes........
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stick it in her pooper
:nervous:
I assume that's what you were going for?
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Yep that's the one. It would probably end the relationship real quick too.
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I think she'd actually like that.
I mean.
It's probably what all the other guys have been doing with her.
(I'm so sorry)
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I'm going to assume that your post paints a complete picture of the relationship's problems.
Lady's opinion:
You're being a needy *****. As a needy *****, I do believe I know one when I see one.
If you like her, quit being a passive aggressive douche bag over one goddamn incident, and do that communication thing. I know that's a bit out of fashion these days, but it's what you do in a relationship.
If you don't like her, and you were just looking for an excuse to break up with her without being in the wrong, tough luck. Also, wait until you mature a bit before dating another girl.
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I'm going to assume that your post paints a complete picture of the relationship's problems.
Lady's opinion:
You're being a needy *****. As a needy *****, I do believe I know one when I see one.
If you like her, quit being a passive aggressive douche bag over one goddamn incident, and do that communication thing. I know that's a bit out of fashion these days, but it's what you do in a relationship.
If you don't like her, and you were just looking for an excuse to break up with her without being in the wrong, tough luck. Also, wait until you mature a bit before dating another girl.
Thanks, message received ;)
Here's the best i've heard from a 32 years old friend of mine:
"Don't break up with her. Be very nice to her. Very very nice, become a total victim. She will leave you". :lol:
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O.K. here's the story: I'm in a bar with my ex girlfriend and ...yadda yadda...
How do i break up with her politely?
Wait, wat?
Also:
(I'm so sorry)
Liar!
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Hooray, let's all watch ****ty chick flicks like they're guides to life. :doubt:
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O.K. here's the story: I'm in a bar with my ex girlfriend and ...yadda yadda...
How do i break up with her politely?
Wait, wat?
An ex who doesn't know that she's an ex because i'm not answering her phonecalls.
Hooray, let's all watch ****ty chick flicks like they're guides to life. :doubt:
Well, the method of breaking a relationship is not so important i think. :)
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Maybe you should answer her calls in case she's trying to apologize.
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Drama, drama, drama... no situation is improved by cutting off the lines of communication.
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Maybe you should answer her calls in case she's trying to apologize.
Yeah, I think he wanted to break up with her anyway, he just didn't want to be the "bad guy."
I hate passive aggressive people. XP
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Maybe you should answer her calls in case she's trying to apologize.
I did it tonight. She was not trying to apologize.
Yeah, I think he wanted to break up with her anyway, he just didn't want to be the "bad guy."
I hate passive aggressive people. XP
I hate them too and i said that message is received. :doubt:
I think that this hole think has turned to a stupid game about who is going to win. Therefore i have no problem to be the bad guy, but i don't find it interesting.
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Also, wait until you mature a bit before dating another girl.
Or he can choose wisely and choose a good girl who will like him for who he is, respect him for his heart and personality, and not have an attitude or a selfish disposition and just wanting to be treated like a queen. Bars aren't really the place to look for a relationship. That is a place where people meet people for animalistic one night stands. He can meet a girl anywhere. It doesn't have to be a bar. Also, one must not get desperate and must not go for just anyone because that is sure to fail. That is my advice.
Also, who says maturity has anything to do with it or it is he who is not mature? This girl could be the one being immature. In this culture, people tend to think that the guy is always the suspect and is at fault and the girl isn't, but that is far from the truth. I don't like it when people think that.
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Who knew HLP had so many ladies...
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It doesn't, so he is getting most of his answers from men. ;)
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I second the pooper sticking idea
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Well, ladies or not it seems like my take on this situation would be massively redundant by this point.
I will note, though, that leaving without her and ignoring all her phone calls may have been taken as breakup by default.
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Well, ladies or not it seems like my take on this situation would be massively redundant by this point.
I will note, though, that leaving without her and ignoring all her phone calls may have been taken as breakup by default.
Good point. She acted exactly like this. And it seems to me that she wins. As i said this became a stupid game and worst of all it's a trademark for the relation. :no:
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Also, who says maturity has anything to do with it or it is he who is not mature? This girl could be the one being immature. In this culture, people tend to think that the guy is always the suspect and is at fault and the girl isn't, but that is far from the truth. I don't like it when people think that.
Based on his post, this is what happened:
He and his girlfriend went out. She met somebody she knew from school and talked with him for a long while, ignoring peterv.
Peterv, instead of attempting to join the conversation or attempting to draw her attention back to him, instead sulked for a hours and then left without telling her.
THEN, he decided to pout some more and ignore her phone calls.
After that, he decided to break up with her.
Do you see it yet? He gave limited information, and I'm well aware that that is the case, but it is safer to judge only on what he actually said rather than what maybe could possibly be the case. Based on just his post, the girl was being insensitive and rude. Insensitivity and rudeness are things you talk through. You say "hey, I felt pretty ignored back there, next time could you introduce me and try to invite me into the conversation?" The only reason that would be difficult or impossible is immaturity.
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Iamjack, when a friend comes in a bar or whereever the first thing you do is introduce him/her to the other friends. Otherwise you're rude.
However, i think that both women and men like to be "claimed" all the time. And perhaps it's a nice game but not to me, it's boring me. Seems to me that this was the game i didn't play and that's all.
It also proved that this hole relation was nothing special to me or to her.
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Iamjack, when a friend comes in a bar or whereever the first thing you do is introduce him/her to the other friends. Otherwise you're rude.
I must say that the lack of politeness, in my experience, seems to be because of the culture here.
@iamzack: I should have read the first post more carefully, but it doesn't necessarily mean he is immature and we all don't know the whole story. If he is immature, she could also be. In my opinon, I feel to go to bars is immature and exposes people to bad situations. However, I will say that I wouldn't ignore phone calls. I don't like when people play the silent game. I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of the silent game that many people play, but it always seemed it was the women who ignored much more than the men.
If I was Pete, I would have immediately told the person what I was feeling the first time when he received the phone call. However, it is possible he was playing the silent game because he felt ignored by her and he wanted her to see what it felt like. Maybe he felt that by doing something similar, it would be more effective than just saying how he felt.
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If I was Pete, I would have immediately told the person what I was feeling the first time when he received the phone call. However, it is possible he was playing the silent game because he felt ignored by her and he wanted her to see what it felt like. Maybe he felt that by doing something similar, it would be more effective than just saying how he felt.
I've a much worst character i suppose. I was just very very angry :mad:
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In my opinon, I feel to go to bars is immature and exposes people to bad situations.
I agree; bars are awesome.
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ohh, well the important thing is that you are not sobbing on the corner of your bedroom, you are ready to move on now Peterv?
so dump the girl and walk on ^^
And if you are actually gonna miss her and you are wondering if breaking up with her was a bad choice...I assure you, the less you care, the more they melt.
(only if she still cares about you... yeah right I know... it sucks XD )
This is by far... the best forum I've ever joined... why did I avoided it for so long time is something that keeps me awake at night jojojo.
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ohh, well the important thing is that you are not sobbing on the corner of your bedroom, you are ready to move on now Peterv?
so dump the girl and walk on ^^
And if you are actually gonna miss her and you are wondering if breaking up with her was a bad choice...I assure you, the less you care, the more they melt.
(only if she still cares about you... yeah right I know... it sucks XD )
Well yeah, that's the feeling. ;)
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In my opinon, I feel to go to bars is immature and exposes people to bad situations.
I agree; bars are awesome.
You mean you agree that bars are immature and yet you feel they are awesome? I think it is awesome to watch history channel, science channel, and feel healthy :) I like to watch a show called The Universe. You can watch them on the history channel website too.
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Hey High Max, hint: prejudice is immature.
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Ignoring the person you're in a relationship usually means you don't give a **** about them.
My personal experience.
Is there anything to be done? Call her up, or leave a message, and tell her you don't want her. It's not that hard.
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Hey High Max, hint: prejudice is immature.
Not if you are judging someone by their actions. I guess it could be considered immature for someone to do certain things and expect everyone to be ok with it and not have to take any responsibility or ridicule for what they have done. Only if one judges someone by what they can't control would it be immature, I guess. Like a person judging someone for their disability or age is completely different than judging someone by their actions that one deserves to be judged for. Of course a person could also say that what is and isn't mature is a cultural opinion too.
Standing up for my way of thinking and beliefs and not doing what most others do is actually grow up and brave. Many people just give into peer pressure and not let others know how they feel because they can't handle loneliness and they get desperate, which is not grown up. So on the contrary.
Certain things should be judged. If they weren't, then people would get away with everything and think it is alright to do anything they want. To do things and not expect ridicule is unrealistic and means the person doesn't want to take responsibilty for whatever they are being judged about. Sometimes we must deal with being judged. I was picked on countless times in the past, judged for acne, being fat 10 years ago, and much more, and much of what I was judged about were things I couldn't control.
People judge others in society all the time. Anytime anyone gets in trouble by law, people will judge that person. Anytime there are differences, there will always be judgment. Live with it like I had to. It is life. Also, you judged Pete saying he is immature because of that silly girl who he should have never gotten involved with in the first place. She might have done certain things too and was up to no good excluding what Pete said about the situation and about her.
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Call her, tell her hey, look, I'm upset about X, I think we should split up.
For the love of god don't be a pussy and do it through text.
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Call her, tell her hey, look, I'm upset about X, I think we should split up.
For the love of god don't be a pussy and do it through a text.
Fixed.
I have a certain fondness for writing long letters about relationships since some things are difficult to adequately convey in conversation. Any other text-based form, however, is usually full of fail.
EDIT: Effort to plumb the depths of High Max's inanity (no, that's spelled correctly) erased. I tossed a rock in and I haven't heard it hit bottom yet...
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And this is why I have avoided intimate relationships up until now, much easier to deal with people without having to worry about who's right or wrong in a pointless argument, much less figure out if you are attracted to them or not.
I say this as someone who has never been on a date or kissed anyone in that fashion or even had it suggested that such activities were intended for my consumption. To be fair, I've never been one to really look for that, it's just how I'm wired. I have said many times that if a woman finds me attractive and wants to pursue something, then she would have to be the one to club me over the head and drag me back to her cave.
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Call her, tell her hey, look, I'm upset about X, I think we should split up.
For the love of god don't be a pussy and do it through a text.
EDIT: Effort to plumb the depths of High Max's inanity (no, that's spelled correctly) erased. I tossed a rock in and I haven't heard it hit bottom yet...
That comment itself was inane. Maybe I was talking too deep for you to understand the above post or maybe it was just your resulting comment as a result of your not agreeing. Just because you disagree means nothing personally. It is a result of differences between people, like people judging others as a result of differences. So disagreement is also inevitable and a part of life. People call whatever they disagree with inane, so no offense taken. I don't mind being judged. I was expecting it. If I was worried, I wouldn't have said what I said previously. Feel free to continue. This discussion is entertaining really.
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Maybe I was talking too deep for you to understand the above post
Well he freely admitted that the rock he tossed in hasn't hit bottom yet, so I suspect this may indeed be the case.
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It has to have reached terminal velocity by now...
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lol, I had one breakup that lasted for . . . A FULL MONTH
Never again
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Her name doesn’t matter, it’s what she’s packing
Tight ass, nice vag, but double D’s she’s lackin’
Give her a few rounds and she’ll almost look like Khloe Kardashian
I think that's the best piece of advice I can give you. :pimp:
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I'm no lady, i'm the wrong gender in fact. But listen carefully, be assertive. Don't be a sheep, be a shepherd or a wolf.
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And this is why I have avoided intimate relationships up until now, much easier to deal with people without having to worry about who's right or wrong in a pointless argument, much less figure out if you are attracted to them or not.
I say this as someone who has never been on a date or kissed anyone in that fashion or even had it suggested that such activities were intended for my consumption. To be fair, I've never been one to really look for that, it's just how I'm wired. I have said many times that if a woman finds me attractive and wants to pursue something, then she would have to be the one to club me over the head and drag me back to her cave.
If you find the right woman, it stops mattering who is right and wrong at some point and you often share a giggle about the fact that you not always agree on one thing or the other ;)
I would argue it only really becomes a "relationship" when you start accepting the other person as they are - on a mutual basis - and start to enjoy the differences as well as the similiarities.
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I would argue it only really becomes a "relationship" when you start bickering over trivial matters
FIXORED!!!! :lol: ;7
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Who knew HLP had so many ladies...
Judging by the replies, apparently more than one would think.
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We have two and they're both here.
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Three.
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That's not what I meant though.
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Yes yes, I detected the original intent, but now I'm curious. We have three?
...or am I just, uh, missing something again? :nervous:
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Three.
Rian, you, and...
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[Fouad] OH HO HO! Is funny because thread asks for ladies' advice but most people giving advice aren't ladies! So you call them ladies! Oh ho ho! So funny! [/Fouad]
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[Fouad] OH HO HO! Is funny because thread asks for ladies' advice but most people giving advice aren't ladies! So you call them ladies! Oh ho ho! So funny! [/Fouad]
Meeh
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I think i'm the only one that declared non-ladyship. So that's admission by non-declaration to all you weekend ladyboys :p
Also try caring less when dealing with your ex. . .because. . .she's your EX!!!
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Blah blah blah
If you find the right woman, it stops mattering who is right and wrong at some point and you often share a giggle about the fact that you not always agree on one thing or the other ;)
I would argue it only really becomes a "relationship" when you start accepting the other person as they are - on a mutual basis - and start to enjoy the differences as well as the similiarities.
Mikes, I would have a more positive outlook if I'd ever received anything other than disdain from women.
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I think i'm the only one that declared non-ladyship. So that's admission by non-declaration to all you weekend ladyboys :p
Also try caring less when dealing with your ex. . .because. . .she's your EX!!!
(Also not a lady)
And I disagree with your second statement.
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I think i'm the only one that declared non-ladyship. So that's admission by non-declaration to all you weekend ladyboys :p
Also try caring less when dealing with your ex. . .because. . .she's your EX!!!
(Also not a lady)
And I disagree with your second statement.
Well, Col D's second statement must mean that he never intends to love the woman and so he expects the people he talks to here to also have the same motives for being with a woman (purely physical and the wrong reasons) and he might be assuming that people here aren't with the woman for love and therefore wouldn't love her after she becomes an ex. I also assume that judging by other posts about topics like this that he has made. Not feeling love afterwards is also usually the result of the man being with the woman for selfish reasons and the wrong and superficial reasons that have nothing to do with love. Probably just sex like so many do. So sad.
Dilmah G's comment basically saying that only looks matter and not her name is also disturbing and the wrong way to look at it. It is perverted and selfish to the extreme. What is this world coming to?
I'm only with a woman and will kiss her and sexual stuff with her only if it is serious and I have the intent of staying with her in a serious relationship. I don't think a person has to be married though like some fanatics think. I will do everything with her if I love her and commit myself to her and she loves me and does the same. But no need for me to start that again since last time I said certain things like that, it struck a pointless argument of ridicule against me that goes nowhere. So I will not say more about it for the remainder of this thread and perhaps not in the future on this forum as well.
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Also try caring less when dealing with your ex. . .because. . .she's your EX!!!
I am, and this tread helps allot :lol:
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High Max, you've got to take comments like mine with a grain of salt, of course that is not a belief I hold true to myself, it was a short rhyming joke I threw in to lift peterv's spirits (a little bit). Though there are people who think like that, it's merely a play on the "Gangster/Player" stereotype.
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Blah blah blah
If you find the right woman, it stops mattering who is right and wrong at some point and you often share a giggle about the fact that you not always agree on one thing or the other ;)
I would argue it only really becomes a "relationship" when you start accepting the other person as they are - on a mutual basis - and start to enjoy the differences as well as the similiarities.
Mikes, I would have a more positive outlook if I'd ever received anything other than disdain from women.
Maybe it has something to do with your attitudes towards women?
Didn't mean that as a jab, it was a genuine suggestion. I'm sorry if it seems hurtful but I do genuinely feel bad about how lonely you've probably been.
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Hell, Liberator, at least you're getting disdain. I don't even know anyone of the eligible female persuasion (or all that many people at all, come to think of it). It's hard to even strike out when you can't find the ballpark to begin with. :p
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And I disagree with your second statement.
He makes a valid point though. While there are some women you can maintain a close friendship with after the relationship ends, most of the time you're better off putting them out of your life for good and moving on. Caring about what they're thinking or doing after the relationship is over is the fast track to obsession and stalking. :p
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:yes: going through a few hardships with the opposite sex normal. With all the all the compassion in the world, no use crying over spilt milk.
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Hell, Liberator, at least you're getting disdain. I don't even know anyone of the eligible female persuasion (or all that many people at all, come to think of it). It's hard to even strike out when you can't find the ballpark to begin with. :p
I with you on this particuarly bandwagon.
Very difficult to play ball when you are even in the same Local Group as the ball park. 'Course it's been that way for as long as I can remember, so I've both grown used to it and don't really bother any more, not that I ever did. You see, I'm the downer, the parade rainer, ect. No one likes spending time with me.
Maybe it has something to do with your attitudes towards women?
Didn't mean that as a jab, it was a genuine suggestion. I'm sorry if it seems hurtful but I do genuinely feel bad about how lonely you've probably been.
As I said above, I'm used to it. You'd be amazed at what you can get used to, learn to live with, and deal with.
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This is "somewhat" related, I've learned over many years of trial and error (the best way to learn in this case) that nothing is as advantageous as having good, and at least one close female friend. Not only did it help shake off the bravado and inability to operate without penile direction. But it's like having an SOC database to hand. Any insight on women is best straight from women. As a bonus it expands your target range as women in bars clubs pubs and everyday situations drop their man-guard around other women ;)
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This one's easy. She starts talking to a guy not including you in the conversation for hours. Break up with her anyway you like. Make it fun and entertaining for yourself in the least and most. If she's going to be a prick, then you're going to be an asshole. If you don't show her that you're a force not to be recokoned with, then that'll lead to problems later with you and her even after you're broken up.
I don't mean any kind of physical force here. Just whenever i break up with a girl, it either goes smooth or great. If it was a great relationship, it goes smooth and everyone has their respect in tact. If it doesn't go smooth, then that means i took my happy ass time being an asshole because she happened to be ****ed up.
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Maybe it has something to do with your attitudes towards women?
Didn't mean that as a jab, it was a genuine suggestion. I'm sorry if it seems hurtful but I do genuinely feel bad about how lonely you've probably been.
As I said above, I'm used to it. You'd be amazed at what you can get used to, learn to live with, and deal with.
Oh, fine, go ignore the useful part. :p
Companionship is a fairly basic need.
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Good thing all women are pretty much exactly alike such that one can give you perfect advice on any other one. Interchangeable parts! Woohoo!
Hint to lonely nerdy boys (ogawd, it's high school again): females aren't inherently mysterious or strange or different. May I suggest finding someone you have things in common with and going from there? However difficult that might be, you're better off waiting than forming a bunch of relationships you know likely won't work. (Ain't no fairy tales in this life-- incompatibility does not equal compatibility.)
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By vectrons golden crown, iamzack is talking sense. :yes:
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Maybe it has something to do with your attitudes towards women?
Didn't mean that as a jab, it was a genuine suggestion. I'm sorry if it seems hurtful but I do genuinely feel bad about how lonely you've probably been.
As I said above, I'm used to it. You'd be amazed at what you can get used to, learn to live with, and deal with.
Oh, fine, go ignore the useful part. :p
Companionship is a fairly basic need.
But, apparently, it's not something I'm wired up to need or provide in any great amounts. I am, after all, a Bore, if you lookup the definition of kill-joy or mood assassinator, my picture is in gold filigree on the opposite page.
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Companionship is a fairly basic need.
*blasts "I Am a Rock" by Simon & Garfunkel* :p
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Maybe it has something to do with your attitudes towards women?
Didn't mean that as a jab, it was a genuine suggestion. I'm sorry if it seems hurtful but I do genuinely feel bad about how lonely you've probably been.
As I said above, I'm used to it. You'd be amazed at what you can get used to, learn to live with, and deal with.
Oh, fine, go ignore the useful part. :p
Companionship is a fairly basic need.
But, apparently, it's not something I'm wired up to need or provide in any great amounts. I am, after all, a Bore, if you lookup the definition of kill-joy or mood assassinator, my picture is in gold filigree on the opposite page.
Self-fulfilling prophecy much ? But then again... I remember your hot-or-not thread, so you might have a point.
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:RAWR!>: I'm back home now, ................surely there are more "qualified" sites you could get advice about women from... Or that big 3D world outside your door may have some relevanyt experiences.
^This is not a flame, a knock, or a put-down. Srsly, get out there and replace your anxiety with something worth worrying about....liek a paternity lawsuit :yes:
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And I disagree with your second statement.
Caring about what they're thinking or doing after the relationship is over is the fast track to obsession and stalking. :p
That's one problem with certain western countries. They and society always say "stalking this, obssession that" and they whine too much about if they are being stalked and obssessed about. They should get over themselves. I would just tell those people as a comeback: "don't flatter yourself, I'm not that desperate". Also be careful who you choose and get someone who is more about love and is sensitive and not selfish with an attitude or superficial, like people tend to be on average around here. Don't pick a girl who cares about what car you drive, your wallet, possessions, or just liking you for your looks, etc. That isn't love. That is pure selfishness. Choose someone who loves you for you and for your similarities, character; things like intelligence and patience; and kindness. Sure looks are good and matter somewhat to me, but she doesn't have to look the best if she has compatibility and qualities like being faithful and honest. So-so looks are fine if she has compatibility and personality.
@Liberator: Choose someone with your views and you will be ok, even if it means you must meet someone from another part of the world. Don't look in a bar. The most important thing in love and relationships is having stuff in common when it comes to morals, lifestyle, and ways of thinking. Otherwise it is doomed from the start.
@iamzack: No, not all woman are exactly alike at all. Sure they share similarities since they are all women, but differences as well. Just like men and women share similarities since they are both humans, but also differences. Just like we share similarities to other animals, but even more differences. Always some similarities and differences but the further something is from something else physically and mentally, the more differences it has.
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Zack's little commentary about the interchangeable parts was a joke.... I think?
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Yep.
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Caring about what they're thinking or doing after the relationship is over is the fast track to obsession and stalking. :p
That's one problem with certain western countries. They and society always say "stalking this, obssession that" and they whine too much about if they are being stalked and obssessed about. They should get over themselves.
The more you talk, the more clear you make it that you don't have the faintest clue what anyone else on this thread is saying. :rolleyes:
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I don't care. I'm done being on topic. I'm saying my peace and that's all that matters to me in my current state of mind. I'm saying the truth and not replying for the purpose of what the topic should be about but as a reply to others and what I think and feel.
I'm not really in the mood right now. I'm quite pissed about certain things and certain feelings I have felt. Like a darkness anger in me. A revenge anger and hate. But it has nothing to do with HLP. Just some other things. If it makes you feel better, I'll go quietly and not say another word in this thread. I was about done here in this thread anyways. This thread is certain to cease sooner or later anyways.
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High Max. Dude. Do you know what stalking is? I agree completely with Kara, that statement leads me to believe you haven't the faintest clue about women.
Look mate, calm down, and re-read the quoted statement. You told people who get stalked and obsessed about to get over themselves. If it was some kind of accident, then save face by saying so, but if you truly believe people who get stalked should get over themselves, I would really like to see your rationale behind that.
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Max: Don't mope and post.
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Look mate, calm down, and re-read the quoted statement. You told people who get stalked and obsessed about to get over themselves. If it was some kind of accident, then save face by saying so, but if you truly believe people who get stalked should get over themselves, I would really like to see your rationale behind that.
Because a lot of people think someone is stalking when they are not and make stories up. Stalk means to follow them around. I'm saying that they shouldn't be full of themselves thinking that everyone wants them and will thinking people are out to stalk them. Then they like to try and get that man in trouble. For me, if a girl tried to file a report like a coward behind my back or get me in trouble somehow for little or no reason, it is unforgivable and I will hate that person.
Max: Don't mope and post.
Remove that silly custom title "rant machine" that some admin put on me and I'll think about it. Time for bed. I'm done for now.
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In my opinon, I feel to go to bars is immature and exposes people to bad situations.
I agree; bars are awesome.
This was win btw. If you're still up and see this tonight that makes you a liar too, and even if you don't reply, you'll still know.
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Look mate, calm down, and re-read the quoted statement. You told people who get stalked and obsessed about to get over themselves. If it was some kind of accident, then save face by saying so, but if you truly believe people who get stalked should get over themselves, I would really like to see your rationale behind that.
Because a lot of people think someone is stalking when they are not and make stories up. Stalk means to follow them around. Im saying that they shouldn't be full of themselves thinking that everyone wants them and will thinking people are out to stalk them.
Well maybe you should've said that in the first place instead of posting it here, people generally do get stalked and whatnot.
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I would assume as my mother for advice on women than ask on an internet forum, but that's just me.
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Well maybe you should've said that in the first place instead of posting it here, people generally do get stalked and whatnot.
Yes, like a lion. I'm surprised that the people who are scientific on this forum would think it is bad instead of thinking it is natural since they only believe in evolution and nothing else. So how can it be bad from their point of view? Their beliefs contradict their pure scientific points of view since they believe good and bad were made up by humans and means nothing.
@chief: Liar about what? This isn't a bar. It's a game forum. I'm pretty sure that was directed to me. Stop trying to stir up stuff with me. And also you don't know me. I'm happy I don't open my heart to most people since most are losers and only care about themselves and their fun and games even at the expense of others. Most also care too much about money and can't spend it wisely and save it wisely. That in itself is immature. Wasting it on alcohol and cigarettes and pop and other harmful expensive things. I guess no one can take anything seriously here and like to make dumb jokes. Just leave me be. Why can't people just stop with the jokes? That is childish and has a habit of making me angry. Yes, Gary (me) is an angry rant machine if you want to think that about me. Whatever. I wish I could remove my nick (high max) and put (Gary) instead. It sounds better and is my real name.
Was that mature or nice to change my custom title to say that without my permission? That is pretty low. Why have you done this, whoever did that? See, many people only care about their fun and games even at the expense of people, including me. Using me and others for entertainment and provoking me just to get a laugh and reaction and with jokes that aren't funny no less. That's very high school, no doubt. I don't go to bars so I'm not lying. This isn't a bar and I don't go to bars. think I'm lying as you will.
I know you called me a liar just for me to react but I don't care. I reacted and tou can think what you want. You really don't know how honest I am but whatever. Funny yo usay taht when you neevr meet me and I neevr said anyting on the forum tah twould indicate I'm a liar. I don't even get what you mean because you made no sense. Maybe you misunderstood my grammar and thought I was saying I liked bars.
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High Max, he said you were a liar because you said you were signing off and not going to post on this thread after that reply you left before his.
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High Max, he said you were a liar because you said you were signing off and not going to post on this thread after that reply you left before his.
I changed my mind, but now I mean it.
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@chief: Liar about what? This isn't a bar. It's a game forum. I'm pretty sure that was directed to me. Stop trying to stir up stuff with me. And also you don't know me. I'm happy I don't open my heart to most people since most are losers and only care about themselves and their fun and games even at the expense of others. Most also care too much about money and can't spend it wisely and save it wisely. That in itself is immature. Wasting it on alcohol and cigarettes and pop and other harmful expensive things. I guess no one can take anything seriously here and like to make dumb jokes. Just leave me be. Why can't people just stop with the jokes? That is childish and has a habit of making me angry. Yes, Gary (me) is an angry rant machine if you want to think that about me. Whatever. I wish I could remove my nick (high max) and put (Gary) instead. It sounds better and is my real name.
Was that mature or nice to change my custom title to say that without my permission? That is pretty low. Why have you done this, whoever did that? See, many people only care about their fun and games even at the expense of people, including me. Using me and others for entertainment and provoking me just to get a laugh and reaction and with jokes that aren't funny no less. That's very high school, no doubt. I don't go to bars so I'm not lying. This isn't a bar and I don't go to bars. think I'm lying as you will.
I know you called me a liar just for me to react but I don't care. I reacted and tou can think what you want. You really don't know how honest I am but whatever. Funny yo usay taht when you neevr meet me and I neevr said anyting on the forum tah twould indicate I'm a liar. I don't even get what you mean because you made no sense. Maybe you misunderstood my grammar and thought I was saying I liked bars.
You wouldn't recognize trollbait if it fell in your mouth. I was just seeing if I could drag one more post out of you since you said you were going to bed, and I succeeded. Which you did call me on, congrats for that, but you still posted when you said you were done for the night. That's all I meant.
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Oh gawd. Everyone needs to chill out. This is drifting south fast, so I'm going to lock this untill/unless peterv asks for it to be opened again.
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Was that mature or nice to change my custom title to say that without my permission? That is pretty low. Why have you done this, whoever did that?
HLP has always had a habit of giving titles to those deserving of them. If you've done a lot of good for the community you'll get a title pointing that out. If you do something excessively stupid you'll get a title reflecting that. That has always been how custom titles work and the admins have never cared about getting permission to give them out.
You have a habit of starting rants about things only slightly connected to the topic at hand. It's even led to you being banned. You more than deserve the custom title you've been given.
Oh and for the record, you were given that title over a month ago for behaviour similar to that in this thread.