Post by: Setekh on April 29, 2002, 03:57:42 am
My Mother, Mum, Mom, Maternal Parent, whatever you wish to call her - she is very sick. In fact, she has lung cancer. It's apparently been in her for several years now; we had no idea. Only during the bushfires earlier this year - in which thick smoke blanketed the sky and infiltrated our houses - was Mum's respiratory system stressed past breaking point. A few tests, and we found out that she had severe pneuomonia (general term; means that you have foreign material obstructing the gas exchange in the lungs, eg. water or cold air). Later, we found that it was in fact a large tumour, not smoke particles, that was the root of the problem. Further testing ascertained that the tumour had stretched its sphere of influence as far as my Mum's heart. That's bad.
The news hit us hard initially and Mum's been hospitalised several times in the past few months; the family as a whole has been dealing with it fine, with a few adjustments (hence the two-month period when you saw no Array updates from me). However, just recently, Mum had begun radiotherapy - and though it will hopefully be having its desired effect, it is having hard side-effects. Her upper digestive tract, leading down to her stomach, is ulcerated from the continual exposure to radiation; she effectively can't eat anything even semi-solid. More importantly, we'll be beginning Mum's first course of chemotherapy in a week's time.
Here, however, is the crux of the message. Up until now we've all been able to bear the extra responsibilities without a great deal of problems. Now, though, it's no longer possible to continue in our normal lives while maintaining this situation; it's simply too much. Every member of the family has been forced to change their lives to accomodate this new part of our lives. The port of call that I have to answer is dropping my role as project leader of HLP - indefinitely. Not only my place simply here, but my place in the entire community.
As I said earlier, I understand that this is one heck of a time to take such a course of action: the development of the source code, something I have been waiting for ever since I joined the community, has finally begun; the community as a whole is in a stunning period of growth; and there are so many projects that I will be leaving hanging. Few of us if any have anything to gain from me leaving, but it's something I have to do - the odds are stacked up against me this time. I can't afford the extra time here when there's a life on the line. I can't express how sorry I feel to all of you. I must leave a some of you with a few words, though.
To the great guys over at BWO: Kellan, Ice and Bob in particular. I am so desperately sorry that I could not fulfill the role that you wanted for me, or complete the work you gave to me. I had hoped that my spare time would last long enough for me to get your jobs done, but the fuse ran out on me. Godspeed to you and your project - you don't need me to tell you that your campaign is going to be killer when it comes out, but it's all I can offer you in terms of encouragement now. You're a great group of people. Don't lose sight of what you first set out to achieve, and remember to have fun on the way. It's just a game, remember - and I'll be damned if you get anything except extraordinary satisfaction out of it.
To the entire Machina Terra team - especially Styxx. I am sorry I couldn't help you more; I couldn't even get you my voice. But who knows, one day maybe I'll come out of nowhere and share with you the pride of completing this monster of a project. Skippy, keep being the helpful self that you always are - we're all better off for it. Styxx, keep going strong my friend. Don't forget that few people will remember that you didn't take a single day off for what seemed like forever, but it may save your life and give you an incredibly well-deserved rest now.
Shrike... with you here, I leave the community in very capable hands. Note well, people, that without this man and his drive, vision, skill and knowledge (and also deep pockets for the vB), none of you would be here. Remember to thank him (not blame him).
Thunder: you were here from the beginning, and I hope that you'll be here to the end. Come back from your break as soon as you can and take the watch when you're good and ready, buddy; it's your time now.
Cobalt. I'm not entirely sure what to say to you. I'm looking at someone I've cried with, shared my life with, and done my best work with. I don't know how you do everything you do and on top of that, still keep a smile on your face and a rainbow in your eyes; maybe you are a real Technomage. If you're not, I don't know who is. Haha, on top of all that, thank you for restoring my faith that amiable programmers exist (daveb is exempt; he's a Volition deity).
To all of you, to all the people who are a part of this amazing place that we call HLP. I thank you for adding tremendously to my life; for changing me and making me a better person, in every way I thought possible and more (with the exception of my physical fitness, which has gone down the drain). You made this place, and you are its life... if I'd met you all in real life, I'd swear that such an outrageously funny, downright artistically brilliant, food-loving and computer-literate people were nothing more than an apparition. But here, it's not just real, but it's alive. Keep doing that thing you do so well here, each and every day (not spamming) - being a place, a group where people can come to hang around; show their work and get it constructively criticised or complimented; learn how to make things if they don't know already; become better people in social activity and intellect; and discover that there are places on the Internet that are not hellholes of scum and useless junk, but instead what the World Wide Web is really about. Connecting people and sharing what would otherwise not be possible. And in everything... remember what I would do. Whether it would be to offer constructive criticism, thanks, compliments, well-timed smilies, one hand for helping or two hands for getting up or in - just don't forget. I feel like I've given part of myself and become this Forum - and with my postcount, most of you would agree to some measure - but please, keep it in your heads, your hearts, your various appendages if you have more than normal. Remember me.
Lastly to everyone. Don't let this news get you down - I'll be out of the picture temporarily but when it comes down to the wire, my Mum will be going to Heaven or she will stay here. Either is good. So don't worry about that - instead, get on with your lives! It'll be wierd not to see this place for a period longer than 24 hours. I hope I can deal with it. I hope you can too. Godspeed, everyone. I'll be back, one day. And if this place isn't better than when I left it, you know I'll be getting some five-letter smilies and using them liberally.
Bye, people. :(
Post by: Shrike on April 29, 2002, 04:00:35 am
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Post by: Fineus on April 29, 2002, 04:04:16 am
Post by: Sandwich on April 29, 2002, 04:07:55 am
Ed, I will always keep you, your Mum and your whole family in my prayers - you know that. This ain't goodbye between us - not by a long shot. After all, heaven awaits. :)
You've left a piece of yourself behind here on these forums, and I'll do my darndest to make sure that piece is remembered.
I look forward to the day when we can walk the streets of Jerusalem together, bro. And I know that day will come, one way or the other, old Jerusalem or the New.
God loves you - remember that, no matter what the situation.
In Him, YBIC,
Michael "Sandwich" Cohen
Post by: Setekh on April 29, 2002, 04:11:44 am
Remember guys, I'll be back... don't know how and don't know when, but I will. :)
GVA Setekh, leaving drydock. ;)
Post by: Sandwich on April 29, 2002, 04:26:49 am
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Originally posted by Setekh
GVA Setekh, leaving drydock. ;)
Hmmm... that gives me an idea...
Post by: Crazy_Ivan80 on April 29, 2002, 04:33:56 am
The best of luck to you, your mother and your family, Setekh :yes:
we'll be awaiting your return...
And thus he left, onwards to the stars and past the Rim... Legends spoke of a a quest... And a return
Post by: delta_7890 on April 29, 2002, 05:44:44 am
Post by: Zeronet on April 29, 2002, 06:02:46 am
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Originally posted by Shrike
Not much to say, really...... You know there'll always be a place here for you. And I'm sure we all wish you well.
That about sums everything up. Bye Dude.
Post by: Ryx on April 29, 2002, 06:04:24 am
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Originally posted by Crazy_Ivan80
:( :(
The best of luck to you, your mother and your family, Setekh :yes:
we'll be awaiting your return...
ditto
:(
Post by: heretic on April 29, 2002, 06:18:54 am
:(
good luck man, hope you do come back soon....
Post by: TheCelestialOne on April 29, 2002, 06:36:18 am
This community will surely feel this (temporary) loss.
[glow=blue]I wish you and your mother the best of luck![/glow]
Post by: Darkage on April 29, 2002, 06:43:22 am
I'll miss you my friend and all the happy/sad conversations we had on ICQ and our PM stampde. May god be whit you my dear friend.
:(:(
And one more time i say Wakka wakka to you. :wakka: this smillie will help me remember you. Thank youv Setekh for a great time you gave us on HLP.
Post by: Alikchi on April 29, 2002, 07:13:55 am
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Originally posted by Shrike
Not much to say, really...... You know there'll always be a place here for you.
Good luck, Steak :sigh:
Post by: Windrunner on April 29, 2002, 07:15:44 am
Keep in mind:
Don't ever give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other...
Goodbye buddy and I hope to hear from you some day.
Post by: diamondgeezer on April 29, 2002, 07:18:26 am
Later dude.
:(
Post by: Nico on April 29, 2002, 07:19:51 am
Everything has been said already, so I'll just say:
see you! :nod:
Post by: Dark_4ce on April 29, 2002, 07:29:42 am
:(
Post by: Styxx on April 29, 2002, 07:34:15 am
I don't know what I can say that the other guys already said... The only thing that comes to my mind is that, even though some of us are not christian, or sometimes not even religious, we will all be sending you and you mother our prayers. All of us. You've been a strong force pushing the community forward, and I'm sure it's because of guys like you that the net has places like HLP.
Keep walking man, keep walking. We'll all be by your side.
I feel like this moment asks for a poem or something, but I can't think of anything that fits. Lemme stop or I'll start crying...
Post by: aldo_14 on April 29, 2002, 07:34:15 am
Best wishes. I hope everything works out ok.
I know i'm half a world away, but if there's ever anything I can do for you.... let me know. i know the rest here would and will do the same.
Post by: Ypoknons on April 29, 2002, 07:38:55 am
Post by: Redfang on April 29, 2002, 08:18:45 am
Good luck! :nod:
Post by: LtNarol on April 29, 2002, 08:19:42 am
Post by: Martinus on April 29, 2002, 08:25:09 am
I really don't know what to say :(
I've always saw you as the light of this community, everything good here is in someway related to you. I wouldn't even have come here when I did if you hadn't invited me and told me about this place. You've always supported me in good times and in bad and talking to you is one of the things I always look forward to.
There's not a single person who won't be sad that you're leaving especially under these circumstances.
I don't know who wrote this but I think it's very apt:
"If I could give you one thing I would wish for you, the ability to see
yourself as others see you, then you would realize what a truly special
person you are".
All my hope and prayers go with you and your family. Keep smiling and don't let go of hope. Godspeed and take care.
Post by: IceFire on April 29, 2002, 08:25:32 am
Setekh, you have been a valuable member of this community. You have helped people, shown more paitence than I ever could, shown us your amazing talents, and achieved a noble goal of helping create something larger than yourself. The reason that this place exists is through the hard work, determination, and vision of the people who started it and do not discount yourself among those who made it happen and gave it purpose and presence.
I think I speak for everyone in the community when I say that we will be sad to see you go, and even sadder at the bad news about your mom and the tough times ahead of you. Know that although some of us are thousands of kilometers away, in other countries and on other continents, we are thinking about you and your family.
Never give up hope.
Post by: ##UnknownPlayer## on April 29, 2002, 08:35:28 am
Post by: Fury on April 29, 2002, 08:59:40 am
Ice already said very nicely, it is hard to add anything on it.
Best luck to you, your mom and rest of your family. :(
Post by: deep_eyes on April 29, 2002, 09:29:10 am
I hope that you, your family, and mother do well, hope to hear from you soon.
Do well and give her the cimmunities best wishes.
Post by: Galemp on April 29, 2002, 09:59:00 am
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Originally posted by Styxx
Man, it's sad to hear it reached such point.
I've had your mum in my prayers since that one, isolated ICQ, Setekh. I feel the same way Styxx and everyone else does. Though I have not known you personally, you have nonetheless been a mentor and a vast help to me, and in fact the entire community. You have done wonderful things here, and we will always keep it running. Never forget that.
Until you return, Tang-boy. We'll be waiting for you. :(
Post by: wEvil on April 29, 2002, 10:04:20 am
I'll be thinking of you and i hope that, in some small way, it might make things better.
Post by: Kellan on April 29, 2002, 10:16:47 am
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Originally posted by IceFire
Never give up hope.
That's the most important thing of all. I, like everyone else send my best wishes for your whole family.
Believe me, you've helped us all so much already - creating HLP, providing inspiration and input, and having such good humour and the will to take on new tasks, even up until yesterday.
We'll miss you, but your family must always come first. Good luck with everything.
Post by: Dranon on April 29, 2002, 10:25:03 am
Post by: Wildlife on April 29, 2002, 10:28:48 am
All i can say is dont give up hope
Good luck and i'll miss ya
Post by: CP5670 on April 29, 2002, 11:04:19 am
btw I see a render coming up about this...;)
Post by: DTP on April 29, 2002, 11:18:26 am
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Originally posted by IceFire
Its times like this that the expression of words is a poor an inadequate substitute for what you really want to say but can't.
Setekh, you have been a valuable member of this community. You have helped people, shown more paitence than I ever could, shown us your amazing talents, and achieved a noble goal of helping create something larger than yourself. The reason that this place exists is through the hard work, determination, and vision of the people who started it and do not discount yourself among those who made it happen and gave it purpose and presence.
I think I speak for everyone in the community when I say that we will be sad to see you go, and even sadder at the bad news about your mom and the tough times ahead of you. Know that although some of us are thousands of kilometers away, in other countries and on other continents, we are thinking about you and your family.
Never give up hope.
well said, IceFire.
And yes never give up hope, my mom`s sister got cured from breast cancer. i know it is different. But she never gave up hope & neither did we.
Post by: Jon Handby on April 29, 2002, 11:25:06 am
Jon Handby
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Post by: CptWhite on April 29, 2002, 11:47:38 am
i look forward to seeing random spamming by your good self in the future ;)
but seriously all the best, and i hope your mum gets better.
Post by: 67th GW Leader on April 29, 2002, 12:04:16 pm
P.S The Bahamut is ready to escort GVA Seketh out.
Post by: Fineus on April 29, 2002, 12:24:17 pm
Post by: Stunaep on April 29, 2002, 12:52:10 pm
I wish you luck. :nod:
Post by: Sandwich on April 29, 2002, 01:20:52 pm
"I may not know what the future holds, but I know Who holds the future."
:nod:
Post by: Gortef on April 29, 2002, 01:20:57 pm
It's so sad to see you leave (even though not necessarily for good), but of course we understand :nod:
I wish everything good for your mother! :yes2::):yes:
God speed! *salutes*
(now I really wish my scanner were in working condition :doubt: )
See ya! :)
Post by: Azrael on April 29, 2002, 01:40:07 pm
Post by: Assassin on April 29, 2002, 02:00:40 pm
I know I have not really talked to you much since back in the early days of the VBB, but I will never forget that familiar name, which came with all of the good qualities of a true man. You will be sorely missed my old friend. I may not be religious, but you and your mother will be in my prayers tonight.
I wish her the very best, no matter what happens always be there for her and cherish your time together. This kind of threat is always an eye opener, and I hope it will make you go and hug your family, kiss your spouse and tell them you love them, and tell all your friends how much they mean to you. Because we can never tell when we may not be able to...
Godspeed, man.
You'll be missed.
Post by: TheVirtu on April 29, 2002, 02:25:11 pm
Farewell for a while Setekh. :(
Post by: delta_7890 on April 29, 2002, 02:37:36 pm
Delta
Post by: Mad Bomber on April 29, 2002, 02:43:35 pm
I, for one, am gonna miss you :(
Post by: untouchable on April 29, 2002, 02:43:57 pm
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Originally posted by aldo_14:nod: ditto
I know i'm half a world away, but if there's ever anything I can do for you.... let me know. i know the rest here would and will do the same.
:(:( This is truely a sad time :( What will HLP be like without Setekh?
But all good things eventually come to an end :(
I will always remember and hope that you return soon, and I really hope that your mother makes it through this terrible sickness :nod:
Bye :sigh:
Post by: Corsair on April 29, 2002, 03:04:05 pm
I'll never forget you - ever. I may only have known you for four months, but they were great ones. The memories you leave behind, of the Array, of Poor Setekh, of Steak (to name few) wil lways be with us. I feel as if I know you so well, and I'll pray for you. I could quote quite a few people right now and it might seem appropriate, but I don't think it would be. I'll miss you terribly man. Never give up the battle.
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And thus he left, onwards to the stars and past the Rim... Legends spoke of a a quest... And a return.
Book of Steak 429:2002
Banshee 2 to GVA Setekh. You are clear to engage your subspace drives. Come back when you're ready Setekh. Banshee 2 signing off.
Post by: Grey Wolf on April 29, 2002, 03:10:49 pm
Post by: Styxx on April 29, 2002, 03:14:48 pm
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Originally posted by untouchable
But all good things eventually come to an end :(
Just remember, it's not the end. It's just... a pause. ;)
Post by: FSW on April 29, 2002, 03:53:21 pm
Post by: TheVirtu on April 29, 2002, 04:01:05 pm
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Originally posted by delta_7890
Y'know, not much will make me cry (barring excruciating pain), but even now I'm finding myself a bit misty-eyed. You've been no doubt an invaluable member of this community. Though I never knew you personally, you always seemed like a good, laid-back guy who didn't let much bother him and always sought out a good laugh. I don't think I once read a post of yours that showed anger of any kind. You've done a lot for the community, co-founding HLP, and making yourself the local Render Man. You will be missed...
Delta
Ditto.
Post by: CougEr on April 29, 2002, 05:12:52 pm
[size= 5]With sadness in my hart, for loosing you here and at OSIRIS and with great concern for the mom of one of the nicest people I had the pleasure of meeting on the net, I bid you farewell, Godspeed and might all your desires come through soon enough.
You will be missed.
Your friend and Sydney sider,[/size] [/color]
CougEr
Post by: Grey Wolf on April 29, 2002, 05:15:24 pm
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Originally posted by CougErWow....
[size= 5]With sadness in my hart, for loosing you here and at OSIRIS and with great concern for the mom of one of the nicest people I had the pleasure of meeting on the net, I bid you farewell, Godspeed and might all your desires come through soon enough.
You will be missed.
Your friend and Sydney sider,[/size] [/color]
CougEr [/B]
That's....
Big....
Post by: delta_7890 on April 29, 2002, 06:07:06 pm
Post by: Joey_21 on April 29, 2002, 06:18:46 pm
Post by: Kamikaze on April 29, 2002, 06:42:51 pm
Anyway, steak you're a big pillar here, you support the modders, give us inspiration (with art and words), and humor us (TANG anyone?). I just hope the other pillars are quite strong and the architect was good...
Cheers, :)
Kamikaze
Post by: PSYCHO on April 29, 2002, 07:49:40 pm
Ill miss your Awesome Renders and comments, Take Care
-Psycho
Post by: Nuclear1 on April 29, 2002, 08:40:58 pm
See ya, Setekh. You're on my prayer list, man. :yes:
Post by: Mr. Vega on April 29, 2002, 08:52:50 pm
Godspeed pilot. I have no personal ship to escort you with, so I'll use my Tarn Federation ships (NodeWars)
Edit-not a whole year, but a the start of this year
Post by: Warlock on April 29, 2002, 08:54:38 pm
Simply saying you'll be missed would be an understatement. But you've got to be with your family, your family here at HLP will still be here for you when you return, and anytime if you should be in need of ears to listen.
We'll see you in the future once you return my friend.
Post by: JR2000Z on April 29, 2002, 08:57:03 pm
Post by: LtNarol on April 29, 2002, 09:13:25 pm
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Originally posted by Corsair:nod: Farewell for now Setekh, until we meat again....er, meet ;)
I'll never forget you - ever. I may only have known you for four months, but they were great ones. The memories you leave behind, of the Array, of Poor Setekh, of Steak (to name few) wil lways be with us. I feel as if I know you so well, and I'll pray for you. I could quote quite a few people right now and it might seem appropriate, but I don't think it would be. I'll miss you terribly man. Never give up the battle.
Post by: Liberator on April 29, 2002, 09:18:15 pm
Good luck, may God bless you and keep you and your mother. Remember in Him all things are possible to those that believe.
Goodluck and Godspeed.
Post by: KillMeNow on April 29, 2002, 09:48:11 pm
and lets hope the force is with your whole family especially your mum
Post by: untouchable on April 29, 2002, 09:59:38 pm
I hope that even though we will all depart to college and real life, we have to keep in touch and keep the legacy of HLP alive for many years to come :nod:
Long enough mabey for our children to continue on with the traditions ;)
Post by: Kitsune on April 29, 2002, 10:21:03 pm
We had no warning, doctors have generally been clueless as to why she was sick, then the morning of jan 15th, 2000 she was in her bed...
You're going to hate yourself forever if you miss a minute with her.
Do yourself a big favor, don't ever feel that she may be bugging you, or trying to hurt anyone. God knows I am not happy with my last words to her while she was with us.
~Kitsune
Post by: Vertigo1 on April 29, 2002, 10:21:32 pm
When he was first diagnosed with it, he just gave up. He literally just shut down. It wasn't just a couple of months later that he died. I don't want to sound overbearing, but don't you EVER let your mother give up. AT ALL COSTS. You do whatever it takes to keep her spirits up. Keep her laughing.
I wish you and your family the best. If you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to send me a message over ICQ. Or even e-mail me. I check it twicea a day, everyday. ([email protected])
Post by: LtNarol on April 29, 2002, 10:38:29 pm
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Post by: RoachKoach on April 30, 2002, 01:07:12 am
this is really sad, first thunder and now you.
i hope ur mom recovers soon, all that therapy makes u worse the longer its used. really sorry to hear about it Steak, best of luck to Mum and Co.
cya soon buddy, need ur renders as inspiration for mine :D
Post by: NotDefault on April 30, 2002, 01:09:44 am
I can hardly even imagine what you're going through right now. Good luck.
Post by: RoachKoach on April 30, 2002, 01:09:51 am
Post by: NotDefault on April 30, 2002, 01:11:56 am
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Originally posted by Setekh
Keep doing that thing you do so well here, each and every day (not spamming)
:D
Post by: Razor on April 30, 2002, 03:14:18 am
Post by: Stunaep on April 30, 2002, 07:31:23 am
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Originally posted by LtNarol
we will last that long, we must last that long...
WE WILL LAST THAT LONG, PILOT!!! IS THERE A QUESTION OF DISCIPLINE?! WE WERE TRAINED TO SURVIVE ON THE BATTLEFIELD, EVEN WITHOUT OUR BELOVED LEADER!!! NOW DROP AND GIVE ME TWENTY!!
Sorry, just I've got this thing about pessimism.:nod:
Post by: Corsair on April 30, 2002, 07:33:42 am
Post by: LtNarol on April 30, 2002, 07:36:13 am
Post by: Ulundel on April 30, 2002, 07:45:50 am
but actually I'm worried about your mom, mine is also sick (not so badly) and she must stay home for some weeks and drink water only. I she does anything wrong, she'll... I don't say it :(
Bye and... *starts to cry*
Post by: 15thRampage on April 30, 2002, 08:19:27 am
SOrry to hear that, I hope eveyting goes fine, I'm going to miss you Setekh, we will eb waiting here for u and we will keeo this comunity alive in you honor
Post by: Nuclear1 on April 30, 2002, 08:39:36 am
See ya, man and godspeed. :nod:
Post by: phreak on April 30, 2002, 02:01:27 pm
stay safe and well, and come back soon (and in good spirits)
Post by: Crazy_Ivan80 on April 30, 2002, 02:04:32 pm
What about Jeeves? He's out of a job now.
Post by: beatspete on April 30, 2002, 03:33:11 pm
Good luck man.
Post by: Fineus on April 30, 2002, 03:44:44 pm
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Originally posted by Crazy_Ivan80
What about Jeeves? He's out of a job now.
We have some other things for him to be getting on with whilst Setekh is away, and we'll still need someone to shine The Array... even if it isn't updated! :)
Post by: Zeronet on April 30, 2002, 04:18:42 pm
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Originally posted by Thunder
We have some other things for him to be getting on with whilst Setekh is away, and we'll still need someone to shine The Array... even if it isn't updated! :)
One with much patience could browse the extensive works.
Post by: 67th GW Leader on April 30, 2002, 04:42:17 pm
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One with much patience could browse the extensive works.
I've done it a few times...
Post by: Zeronet on April 30, 2002, 04:43:03 pm
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Originally posted by 67th GW Leader
I've done it a few times...
Then the force may find you yet, young one.
Post by: Culando on April 30, 2002, 09:16:32 pm
You showed me alot of respect and even tried to help me get into the community when I finally came back here. I have a great amount of respect for you Setekh, and that is not easily earned with me.
*salutes* Godspeed. You and your family are in my prayers.
Post by: demon442 on April 30, 2002, 11:02:48 pm
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"If I could give you one thing I would wish for you, the ability to see yourself as others see you, then you would realize what a truly special person you are"
...ditto...
Goodbye new buddy, without you this place would not exist.
:( :( :(
Post by: Silver_Scythe on May 01, 2002, 09:04:55 am
I know its kind of spammi but :(
Farewell Setekh
Post by: Su-tehp on May 01, 2002, 11:59:00 am
Setekh, I understand how rough things are going for you. My mother was diagnosed with cervical cancer several years ago and went through chemotherapy herself.
She died last July.
It's been really rough dealing with it, especially since I'm in New York for law school and my father and sister are still home in Washington DC. Being away from my family so soon after my mother's death has been a huge strain, to say the least.
So I applaud your decision to stay with your mother and the rest of your family. It's what has to be done.
I'm gonna miss you, pal. HLP and the Freespace Community have always made me feel welcome here, (after all, we're here because of the love of the Freespace game) but it is because of you in particular that I always enjoyed coming here. Setekh, you always made me feel welcome here and it was always a pleasure to see your hard work here and to have you as my friend.
You will be missed.
Don't sweat it, pal. Stay with your family, spend time with your mom, and don't sweat the small stuff. Take as long as you need. We'll still be here when you get back.
Your Friend Always,
Christian "Su-tehp" Fernandez-Duque
Post by: Sandwich on May 01, 2002, 01:31:31 pm
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Originally posted by Su-tehp
(Man, I can't believe how much has happened around here just in the month and a half I've been away! FYI, I've been getting ready for exams, which start next week, so my time here will be brief; I gotta get back to work.)
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Su-tehp!! Welcome back, dude! I wish it could be under happier circumstances, but...
Post by: Skippy on May 01, 2002, 02:30:28 pm
But I'll always stay here to wait for your return.....
Post by: Alpha on May 01, 2002, 09:24:51 pm
GODSpeed Pilot...
Post by: icespeed on May 02, 2002, 02:48:35 am
it sucks, don't it, dude.
hey, brothermine. don't forget: god loves you,loves your mum, and all everyone.
yeah, hlp wontbe the same without you... (indeed, we must hold on! hopefully not for long before he comes back...)
youll always be in my prayers dude. and im sure, everyone else around here will be praying for you too, whether christian or not.
seeya, bro.
Post by: kode on May 02, 2002, 07:35:13 am
Post by: Corsair on May 02, 2002, 11:32:08 am
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Originally posted by icespeedSo are you going to stay while Steak is gone to keep us updated (and just to stay and hang out)?
basically everyone has said it all.
it sucks, don't it, dude.
hey, brothermine. don't forget: god loves you,loves your mum, and all everyone.
yeah, hlp wontbe the same without you... (indeed, we must hold on! hopefully not for long before he comes back...)
youll always be in my prayers dude. and im sure, everyone else around here will be praying for you too, whether christian or not.
seeya, bro.
Post by: adwight on May 02, 2002, 11:16:09 pm
Post by: Top Gun on May 04, 2002, 08:43:49 am
Post by: Griffon UK on May 05, 2002, 04:53:24 pm
Hope she gets better soon...
Post by: Dr.Zer0 on May 05, 2002, 09:21:42 pm
and its almots mothers day around here too
Post by: icespeed on May 06, 2002, 02:13:07 am
Corsair
I'll be around, tell you if anything's going on with him. But I won't be around online as often- school, other stuff, and parents prevent me.
right now, Setekh... well, he's... under some pressure right now. It'll get worse... he's holding up okay so far, though.
It'll all be good. God will take care of him.
Post by: Boct1584 on May 06, 2002, 11:17:34 am
Post by: Unidan on May 10, 2002, 02:18:40 pm
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Originally posted by Top Gun
Setekh, you have been a fantastic contributor to this community, it would never have been the same without you. Both for the creation of HLP that has grown into such a fantastic hub of development for this game and your amazing talent, which you always put to good use in and outside the community and were egar to share with the rest of us. I wish you and your family the best of luck.
Amen, good luck, and godspeed :(
Post by: Zeronet on May 11, 2002, 02:15:21 pm
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Originally posted by icespeed
"So are you going to stay while Steak is gone to keep us updated (and just to stay and hang out)?"
Corsair
I'll be around, tell you if anything's going on with him. But I won't be around online as often- school, other stuff, and parents prevent me.
right now, Setekh... well, he's... under some pressure right now. It'll get worse... he's holding up okay so far, though.
It'll all be good. God will take care of him.
You can use the quote button you know or the tags for quoting.
Post by: Kazashi on May 13, 2002, 09:26:10 am
Post by: Stunaep on May 13, 2002, 12:37:22 pm
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Originally posted by Zeronet
You can use the quote button you know or the tags for quoting.
Does anyone count the times she has been told that??? :lol: :lol:
Post by: Ulundel on May 13, 2002, 02:01:47 pm
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Originally posted by Stunaep
Does anyone count the times she has been told that??? :lol: :lol:
I think here comes some addition to Zeronets signature... :p
Post by: Redfang on May 30, 2002, 06:29:22 am
Setekh was active for a moment... don't know what that means but he was. :)
Edit: [offtopic]
Happy birthday Shrike! :D
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Post by: Fineus on May 30, 2002, 06:42:27 am
Post by: Redfang on May 30, 2002, 06:45:43 am
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Originally posted by Thunder
What are you talking about? :wtf:
I saw Setekh[/i] in the current active users list... but not for long. :sigh:
Edit: About your next post, I guess you're right. I almost wasn't going to bump this, but then I thought I would. :o
Post by: Fineus on May 30, 2002, 06:47:13 am
Post by: LtNarol on May 30, 2002, 07:16:22 am
Post by: WMCoolmon on May 30, 2002, 05:16:09 pm
Post by: Sandwich on May 30, 2002, 05:31:34 pm
*sniff*
I miss you, Eddie - God Blesses! :yes: :yes2:
Post by: CP5670 on May 30, 2002, 06:27:06 pm
Post by: Stunaep on May 31, 2002, 12:54:26 am
[edit] Post count now at a 4 digit number.
Post by: Fineus on May 31, 2002, 01:31:51 am