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Off-Topic Discussion => General Discussion => Topic started by: iamzack on January 30, 2011, 02:27:56 pm
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I don't care anymore so it's up to y'all. :ha:
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Yes if you want to be fwends. No if not.
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I already voted, require tie-breaker.
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Then maybe you shouldn't have put in that third option...
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If I didn't, a moderator would have.
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dude what's his name I want to friend him
ehs a cool guy
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zack derouiche
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awesome, thanks
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Whether you do it or not is up to your personal opinion, so I voted Snuffahumpagus.
In my own case I wouldn't, because I think of Facebook as a record keeper of interactions with people I know in real life. Mixing that with people I've only known from the Internet feels very weird to me, so I wouldn't do it if I were in your situation (nothing against Turambar, it would just feel weird). But again, that's my opinion and I can't recommend it because Your Mileage May Vary.
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There's only one vote that counts.
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Whether you do it or not is up to your personal opinion, so I voted Snuffahumpagus.
In my own case I wouldn't, because I think of Facebook as a record keeper of interactions with people I know in real life. Mixing that with people I've only known from the Internet feels very weird to me, so I wouldn't do it if I were in your situation (nothing against Turambar, it would just feel weird). But again, that's my opinion and I can't recommend it because Your Mileage May Vary.
actually I've come to the conclusion that I talk to people on Facebook the same way I talk to people on IRC, just because the people that I talk to on Facebook are the ones that it's impractical to talk to in person.
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There's only one vote that counts.
I like to examine my biases and make sure I make rational decisions when I can.
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Well, it's not like you are sending him to the Russian Front or anything, if you aren't ready for it yet, leave it a while until you do feel ready. Chances are that if you don't feel ready, you aren't :)
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Trying to decide whether my hatred is justified or not.
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Well, it's not like you are sending him to the Russian Front or anything, if you aren't ready for it yet, leave it a while until you do feel ready. Chances are that if you don't feel ready, you aren't :)
Trying to decide whether my hatred is justified or not.
You are justified in being mad, but don't hold on to that hatred, else you're just living in the past. One of you has to lay down their 'weapons' (their past memories of fear and anger and blame) if there is to be peace -- otherwise you wind up with a perpetual mexican standoff and zero closure. If you still feel hatred (or fear), you are not ready yet, so keep your distance for a while, get time to repair yourself independently. Make your tomorrow something you can look forward to.
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True, but if you try to be 'just friends' too soon, a whole sea of bitterness and anger can end up all flooding out at once and ruin any chance of friendship. Better to be patient to the point where you feel you can cope with your own feelings towards the relationship.
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Yeah, but why would I want to be friends with someone who thinks I'm some worthless whore he no longer has use for?
Looks like it doesn't matter anymore since he reblocked me anyhow. :)
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Testosterone, it built the world, and the chances are it'll destroy it too...
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I count it as a victory. If I'd fallen for his whole "ok i'm done being a prick" thing he'd have just set me up to be humiliated in some way.
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I have accepted a number of x's requests.
Of course, I actually they started as x's in some cases 20 years ago.
It takes time. Men and women confuse one another.
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I think people can get caught in a 'hurt-circle' as well, the mentality of 'You hurt me, so I'm going to hurt you'. Been there, done that.
The sad fact is that you end up realising the only reason you were able to hurt each other was because, at some level, you still cared what they thought and their opinion still had meaning to you.
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Yes, except in this case it's more like "you hurt me, i forgive you, you hurt me again, i forgive you, you hurt me again..."
Even if I tried to hurt him, it wouldn't work, because he doesn't care.
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I didn't block you, i was offline.
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I have no way of telling the difference.
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One does not simply Snuffleupagus into Mordor
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One does not simply Snuffleupagus into Mordor
Snuffleupagus was invisible for a long time, he has the Ring and knows how to use it. Sauron's got nothing on it.
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One does not simply Snuffleupagus into Mordor
Snuffleupagus was invisible for a long time, he has the Ring and knows how to use it. Sauron's got nothing on it.
Sauron couldn't find Snuffleupagus if even he did kno---ALL GLORY TO THE HYPNOCAT!
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So far, it looks like the nays have it, even without my vote. I knew I could count on you gu--ALL GLORY TO THE HYPNOCAT!
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My brother at college is going through the aftermath of a rocky break-up right now...only he's living in the same house as his ex through the end of the semester. It doesn't seem like fun times.
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lol, if we were living together, tura would have put me out on the street and changed all the locks
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My brother at college is going through the aftermath of a rocky break-up right now...only he's living in the same house as his ex through the end of the semester. It doesn't seem like fun times.
YOU BROKE IT
(http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTk6R8EVi-6iMBT5F8U3B8uichs64exRC-4Pi8pSWaoXQZbFgb4&t=1)
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So far, it looks like the nays have it, even without my vote. I knew I could count on you gu--ALL GLORY TO THE HYPNOCAT!
to me, it looks more like the "we don't give a ****" is the overwhelming response. i really think it's time this issue left the board. for good.
no personal offense intended.
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I am so offended. >:|
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lol, if we were living together, tura would have put me out on the street and changed all the locks
When it comes to living together, this is a good argument for having your name on the lease/deed. If yours is and his isn't, he can't change the locks....or call the police to inform them of a trespasser on the property.
My brother at college is going through the aftermath of a rocky break-up right now...only he's living in the same house as his ex through the end of the semester. It doesn't seem like fun times.
When I was working at Melrose Hall, a couple of the other RAs got together and later broke up. Staff meetings became a real joy, since they were held in a room that only needed to (and could only just) accomodate eight people. Icy stares, occasional outbursts, and awkward pauses were guaranteed on a weekly basis for most of spring semester, '07, exacerbated slightly by strategic and opportunistic seat selection. Yes, keeping close quarters immediately after a breakup doesn't help with getting over it or moving on. Depending on the people involved, though, it can be awfully entertaining for onlookers.
As to the topic, if he's not your friend, don't put him on a list that labels him as such. Also, maybe put a little more trust in your personal judgement than the annonymous advice of laypersons/strangers on the internet.
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You know, I'm with Klaustrophobia. I've had enough of this issue, both on IRC and the forums. Stop it.
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I am so offended. >:|
i wasn't worried about you so much as others who might be offended on your behalf.
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Also in light of my own above agreement with you, Klaustrophobia, could you try to keep whatever is making you incredibly grumpy off the boards too?
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I'll agree that putting it up for vote was a silly idea, seeing as both Zack and Tura members of the forum, which is why I, and most other people, voted Snuffleupagus. It's not the way to sort out the problem, and probably goes to show that it takes two to tango. This isn't a popularity contest.
Also in light of my own above agreement with you, Klaustrophobia, could you try to keep whatever is making you incredibly grumpy off the boards too?
Agreed, this popping up and posting a single rolleyes, or declaring TV shows to be '****' with neither a supporting argument nor even much relevance to the thread is starting to get pretty boring. As I've said before, if you don't want to get involved, then don't, if you do then be relevant.
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Don't worry, it's over now. :)
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WTF is a Snuffahumpagus? Like a sexual snuffleupagus?
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to me, it looks more like the "we don't give a ****" is the overwhelming response. i really think it's time this issue left the board. for good.
no personal offense intended.
While I can't say whether that is correct, I disagree about its being a good interpretation of the poll data.
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Yeah, it seems like as far as people with opinions go, "No" is the leading response, which is what I went with.
Just had to pretend I cared whether he was sorry so he'd pretend to be sorry and now he's gonna leave me alone :D
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I can still read your damn posts
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Enough of this crap. Take it somewhere else.
That goes for both of you. iamzack, no more baiting.