When someone who you don't like or dislike says something to you, you tend to blow it off. When two people that you respect say the same thing, you tend to think that there may be some merit in what the other person said. When that statement is congruent to "people who are together should not be at HLP" it shows exactly where people's heads are. The bottom line is, we have been told to get out. I would consider that to be something of an attacking statement. Of course you won't.
I know for a fact that I have apologized to everyone i have made a personal attack on, with the exceptions of Janos and Gank. Janos, your remark was truly tasteless, but so was my reaction, you have my apology. Gank...your opinion is valid, as an opinion. We disagree on it. Personnal attacks aside.
I say this, because people shouldn't have to have skin thick enough to endure the personnal attacks. I don't think any of us has a right to make them. I had always believed that our differences were strengths that made what we do here great, i've come to realize that it instead gives us the right to attack any person who does not share our beliefs. I disagree with most of Kazan's beliefs, yet i can't question his intelligence. I disagree with aldo's as well, yet again, there is no question of intelligence. In other words, there is no room for a personal attack based on someone's beliefs. Debate is fine, personnal attacks aren't, and that's why I've made it a point to apologize as soon as i got over it. We make these attacks and forget that it isn't just data, we forget that there is a person on the other end. Maybe some of us don't much care who we walk on in our quest to have our opinions validated. If that's true, then i feel particularly bad for those of you who do feel that. The personnal attacks have to stop guys. WE...need to stop it. Some of the best people we have ever had have left over this, and we are still pushing people out with the immature actions that we have all partaken in. I'm not pointing any fingers, because as a community we are guilty, me included.
sorry again rictor, i tried to let it die where we left it, but people wouldn't. For the rest of you, i'm sure that a good flaming is on the way. It doesn't matter though, because as long as we sit here and accept the fact that these personnal attacks do happen, then we are condoning them. Admin has finally put an end to the most blatant of these, maybe we need to pick that ball up now.
I think that's the last that i will say on it.