america can not be blessed if i do not hear it from god him or herself, so lets just leave it at that.
that man should just conform it to standards and just find another woman to have a life with. although its very tragic to hear of such a thing he needs to get over the problems, i think that is a better way of honoring that mans wife and kid then taking it up with the whole of the united states where support will grow for him however he gets more trouble then it is worth if he refuses and is forced to live elsewhere. besides thats a good way, if he moves elsewhere under his own volition, however it will always be their and a good way or ensuring his future better and not take it from granted. just like everyone should.