Well, to be honest, having read ngt's post again, it's not only attempting to attack me, it's attempting to attack my relationship, and feelings for, my partner. ngt obviously thinks that nothing is worth respect if it doesn't match up to his own opinion, and that there is nothing he cannot attack or insult if he feels he is right. He refuses to argue like an adult and instead reverts to childish attacks and, quite frankly, in insulting my relationship and feelings for Sharon, he has crossed the line.
I can't stay in a Forum with people like that, sorry, but when someone demands that I justify caring about my wifes' concerns, and tries to reduce my feelings for her to some kind of legal argument, it's obvious I'm dealing with someone who has never been in love and has no clue what it entails, and has no concept of standing up for someone else's feelings.
For that reason, I'm hanging up my GenDis badge, I've tried treating everyone in here like mature adults, and some people seem incapable of being so, at 37 I no longer have the patience to deal with squalling children who are more concerned with 'winning arguments' than actually having an intelligent discussion or even attempting to empathise with people who's opinion is different from their own.
From here on outwards you are at the mercy of Nuke and Colonol Decker, I'm just going to be sticking to the Diaspora and other Freespace project forums.