Kara, what you do is elect leaders who won't rob the pot to pay for some pork fat program in an attempt to ellicit votes from the people said program benefits when said program runs out of money. If I took money from my utilities budget to pay for trip to Vegas and my lights get cut off, I don't have the benefit of raising taxes to cover the overage, neither should government.
And, yes to Bob and Klaustrophobia, that's what I meant. A middle class lifestyle isn't a right, but you have a truckload of politicians telling people that it is. The only right is that government get out of the way to allow me to attain said lifestyle.