[Colonol Dekker]

I'm not bitter, its all circumstantial. I've had good breakups, and i've had bad.
Its just for the man in the article to go to such extremes, He cant have been the anagoniser. So i can relate to his situation.



[dont forget i'm happily married now ]

[karajorma]

I do not give credits to divorced women who depend on the financial support from their exs for a living, when they can survive fine on their own.  It's rather embarrassing to see my 'kind' do that sometimes.

That sort of behaviour really pisses me off. What's worse is that it should piss feminists off too but you never hear a word about it from them cause it's in women's financial interest to do that.

Just look at the way alimony is set up. The woman gets it until she remarries. No matter how long she was married for nor how long until she remarries. That's basically saying that women can't look after themselves and need a man to do it, isn't it?

Yet I have never heard any self proclaimed feminist put it that way. Maybe I'm just looking in the wrong places.

[redmenace]

Damn Right, deny the biatch everything................


Women turn nasty, nasty, nasty when they become ex's.......

You sound bitter.  You must be pretty unlucky all these years...

I do not give credits to divorced women who depend on the financial support from their exs for a living, when they can survive fine on their own.  It's rather embarrassing to see my 'kind' do that sometimes.

Hes bitter? Then aparently you have never read one of my I hate women threads.

Also some interesting reading
http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html
http://www.mensnewsdaily.com/archive/u-v/usher/2005/usher051105.htm

Frankly divorce laws are really unfair and punish if not victimize guys. One of the MANY reasons that you should not get married. And in regaurds to pre-nuptial agreements, if you need one of those, then you should not marry this person. Also why you should date women a VERY LONG TIME and have a short engagement.

[an0n]

Meh.

I'm of the opinion: Every woman is a slut, except the one I end up marrying.

[IceFire]

Women turn nasty, nasty, nasty when they become ex's.......

only if you're a misogynist - all my exs are still on friendly terms with me and one of them is even coming to my wedding

Your lucky that way.  My only ex pretends I do not exist.  I just go along...just a very bitter person.

For some its no problem...for others its like night and day.  I've seen both...experienced one.  Its the way of things.

[Nuclear1]

Women turn nasty, nasty, nasty when they become ex's.......

only if you're a misogynist - all my exs are still on friendly terms with me and one of them is even coming to my wedding

My only ex is actually one of my better friends, and that's after a pretty awful breakup too.

[NGTM-1R]

Icefire: That's what happened to me. She stopped speaking to me one day. I'm lucky if she acknowledges my existance before she bumps into me.

The damnable thing is that no one, no one, knows why. She won't say. If someone tries to bring it up in conversation she pretends not to hear them. She won't tell her brother, her friends, her parents, anyone. It's a question I've thought over many times, seeking some offense, some insult, I offered, and I just draw a blank. So I've been sitting here in the dark for years without a clue what went wrong, no sense of closure.

It would be easier if I could hate her for inflicting the kind of pain she did. But I don't know if it was my fault somehow.

[aldo_14]

Meh.

I'm of the opinion: Every woman is a slut, except the one I end up marrying.

In which case she's a naive idiot?

[Colonol Dekker]

Its down to individual chemistry and how people react to the breakup, sometimes it all ends up roses, Sometimes you end up hating their guts. although the circumstances in which the breakup take place are a big factor too.


My personal opinion is variety is the spice of life get out, get your nuts in, if it turns into a long term thing, Great, If you just get your nuts in, its all practice. When you eventually settle, At least you had a good innings.

If you happen to be a bit more traditional thats great also.

Just take the bad with the good, or the good with the bad depending on your point of view.

[WMCoolmon]

Icefire: That's what happened to me. She stopped speaking to me one day. I'm lucky if she acknowledges my existance before she bumps into me.

The damnable thing is that no one, no one, knows why. She won't say. If someone tries to bring it up in conversation she pretends not to hear them. She won't tell her brother, her friends, her parents, anyone. It's a question I've thought over many times, seeking some offense, some insult, I offered, and I just draw a blank. So I've been sitting here in the dark for years without a clue what went wrong, no sense of closure.

It would be easier if I could hate her for inflicting the kind of pain she did. But I don't know if it was my fault somehow.

Sounds like she has some kind of internal issue, and feels better about herself by influencing other people and getting them to feel bad over her. She clearly doesn't have any interest in solving the issue.

Oh ****, here I am playing relationship counselor again.

[an0n]

Meh.

I'm of the opinion: Every woman is a slut, except the one I end up marrying.

In which case she's a naive idiot?

Horrifically enough: Yes.

This is why I stopped bothering trying to get into relationships.

I try to hide the evil. And they don't see it because I hide it so well. So I label them as idiots in my head.

And in a nice little practical application of a Catch-22, the only girl I'll every truly not-wish-dead would be the one who sees the evil - at which point all her interest in me will die. And if it doesn't, I'll lose all respect for her for wanting to be with someone who'd sell her bones while she slept.

It's one of the downsides of basing my entire mental cognative structure on evil, purist concepts.

[Wobble73]

Meh.

I'm of the opinion: Every woman is a slut, except the one I end up marrying.

In which case she's a naive idiot?

Horrifically enough: Yes.

This is why I stopped bothering trying to get into relationships.

I try to hide the evil. And they don't see it because I hide it so well. So I label them as idiots in my head.

And in a nice little practical application of a Catch-22, the only girl I'll every truly not-wish-dead would be the one who sees the evil - at which point all her interest in me will die. And if it doesn't, I'll lose all respect for her for wanting to be with someone who'd sell her bones while she slept.

It's one of the downsides of basing my entire mental cognative structure on evil, purist concepts.

You've lost the plot big time pal!!!!

[aldo_14]

Meh.

I'm of the opinion: Every woman is a slut, except the one I end up marrying.

In which case she's a naive idiot?

Horrifically enough: Yes.

This is why I stopped bothering trying to get into relationships.

I try to hide the evil. And they don't see it because I hide it so well. So I label them as idiots in my head.

And in a nice little practical application of a Catch-22, the only girl I'll every truly not-wish-dead would be the one who sees the evil - at which point all her interest in me will die. And if it doesn't, I'll lose all respect for her for wanting to be with someone who'd sell her bones while she slept.

It's one of the downsides of basing my entire mental cognative structure on evil, purist concepts.

You've lost the plot big time pal!!!!

Can't lose what you don't have........

[Flipside]

There's enough bitterness in this thread to start a Lemon factory

[an0n]

Can't lose what you don't have........

No ****.

Fortunately, I'm ****ed-up enough that I don't really care that I'm ****ed-up. Being 'sane' is more an idealistic intellectual concept to me. Like owning a 360. Sure, it'd be cool - but playing Halo 3 isn't worth the effort I'd need to put in to be able to afford the console.

[Descenterace]

Everyone's ****ed up, in some way or another.