I somehow doubt that they'd care... sort of like when any of your wingmen die, Command rarely has anything to say other then to yell at you.
Beta 3: Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Command: The xxx is taking damage, protect that ship!
Something about having 80 more ships just like it sort of ruins your idea... when it's worth it and you have the ships to make the differance, Command will send em all home to let themselves be destroyed. If it's not worth it and you don't quite have the ships to make the differance, Command will tell em to go for it and let them all die. Frankly, you're lucky you will survive half of the missions Command wants you in!