[Commander Zane]

You tend to get this way when all you meet are idiots, alcoholics, drug abusers, or women who had kids at age 15.

Ooh, it's just like Arizona.

[perihelion]

 
You know, rampant sexism probably isn't the best way to win a lady's heart.  If you even believe half of the bull**** being spewed forth as "wisdom" on this thread, it will eventually become apparent to her, and who could blame her for despising you for it.  <--- [rant not targeted at any particular person, just the general level of ambient sexism in this thread, I mean Sweet Jesus!]

[Aardwolf]

Somewhat relevant to this thread:

My ex-gf (having been my only gf to date) once said that I was the only guy (or was it 'boyfriend' ?) who ever liked her for more than just her looks. Apparently the boyfriends she had after me were horrible. And now she's a lesbian. So uh... bleh.

[Hero_Swe]

Somewhat relevant to this thread:

My ex-gf (having been my only gf to date) once said that I was the only guy (or was it 'boyfriend' ?) who ever liked her for more than just her looks. Apparently the boyfriends she had after me were horrible. And now she's a lesbian. So uh... bleh.

Looks like she had a case of...*puts on glasses*








Derp

[Kosh]

Girls are stupid. They take all the rights and privliges won by the previous generation and basically piss it away, at least when it comes to this. You know the saying, nice guys finish last.

Bull****, from start to finish. Generally speaking, a great many teenage girls are that way, but those in college or other higher education make for a more palatable dating pool. Nice guys finish last? Nice guys tend to finish with women who care about things like intelligence and confidence.

There is a better choice in college, but at least at the tier 2 and tier 3 schools you wont find them until the junior or senior year. All the other times they are too busy partying to notice.

[chief1983]

At an engineering school, you never find them.  They come down with Princess syndrome in the first few weeks.  Then the shy type is pretty much screwed, unless he's gonna settle for the chicks that actually approach guys first.  Have fun with that.

Women don't all _want_ the equal treatment that previous generations have fought for.  I'm sure many of them would rather be treated differently than a man.  Most of the women I talk to these days are going into veterinarian training, RNs, counselors, teachers, etc, and are probably more than willing to be the stay at home type once they settle down.  The type of woman I'm looking for _wants_ a man, not wants to _be_ a man.  I think in the end women's lib won't ever be completely achieved, because not a lot of them give two ****s.

Reference

[Androgeos Exeunt]

Somewhat relevant to this thread:

My ex-gf (having been my only gf to date) once said that I was the only guy (or was it 'boyfriend' ?) who ever liked her for more than just her looks. Apparently the boyfriends she had after me were horrible. And now she's a lesbian. So uh... bleh.

C'est la vie, Aardwolf.

Console yourself in that you actually had a girlfriend. I'm 19 years old now and I've yet to come across a girl worth giving attention to. It's not that I'm surrounded by unpleasant girls; it's just that they're not what I'm looking for.

[iamzack]

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I don't have time for this magnitude of retardation right now, guys.

One thing that stuck out: Someone said something about the intelligent and confident girls being ugly.

That statement is just as true as this one: "Nice guys are ugly and socially incompetent."

So maybe you guys should think about that, eh?

[General Battuta]

Seriously. This is some fantastically sad ****.

The fact that my very first relationship destroyed every bit of advice in this thread suggests that most of you are, in fact, raging pricks (at least in this particular regard.)

[JMN]

One thing that stuck out: Someone said something about the intelligent and confident girls being ugly.

That statement is just as true as this one: "Nice guys are ugly and socially incompetent."

So maybe you guys should think about that, eh?

I said that. But i also agree with you in a way. Nice guys are usually socially incompetent because they believe that being very nice actually works when interacting with women. They are also sometimes unkempt, with yellow teeth, not often baths, dirty nails etc.
But when someone says about women that they are intelligent etc. it's usually because to cover the fact that they are not hot babes.

[iamzack]

Actually, having known quite a few Nice Guys(TM) in my time, nice guys who ***** and complain about girls never going for nice guys... aren't. They tend to be under the impression that women owe them something. Their thought process goes like this: "I'm such a nice guy, I deserve to sleep with this girl!" Noooope.

[chief1983]

Yup.  It needs to be more like, you should sleep with me because you'll enjoy it

[Fury]

[karajorma]

Women want to date and marry men whom they consider superior to themselves.

I assume this holds equally true for any man worthy of being with.

Cause otherwise the amount of fail in that sentence is huge.