No, you build a machine that you try to make 100% efficient, but you can't do it because (whatever); it only ends up being 20% efficient. Your intentionality was to save 100% of embryos, but you can only save 20%.
The thought experiment presupposes that you can't do any better. In this scenario, if IVF inefficiency is the problem, the Church would be forced to concede that this mission was not sinful.
The "whatever" kind of proves my point above. Why are we even making this device in the first place if it doesn't function any better than human biology? I don't see where we can go with this.
Let me rephrase your statement:
You go into an attempt to get your partner pregnant with the full foreknowledge that you're going to be sentencing multiple embryos to destruction. It's completely within your control. You have no idea whether you will produce a zygote, much less have an embryo implant; it's completely out of your hands - but the odds are that 80% of your successful fertilizations will abort. (An IVF person could, of course, get lucky and have only 1 embryo form, and it would also implant.)
There's no moral distinction at work here.
But you
don't have that foreknowledge that you're going to be sentencing
anything to destruction when you have sexual intercourse. You have no idea what's going to happen in there: if your sperm will even fertilize an egg, if said zygote will even make it to the uterus, if the embryo will manage to implant. You're not playing any sort of deliberate odds here, just leaving everything up to chance..."in God's hands," if you will. In contrast, the couple entering into IVF
knows that there are going to be multiple embryos generated, and that those extra embryos that aren't implanted will either be destroyed or thrown into a deep-freezer. That's a bare fact of the process. I don't really see how this distinction is difficult to grasp.
On top of that, trying to promote the assertion that attempting to conceive via sexual intercourse is somehow morally wrong under the Church's own guidelines is kind of fundamentally laughable in the first place, as it's the basic natural process that all of the artificial methods are based on anyway. It's the original design, so to speak.