Sorry it took so long to respond, but i've been giving serious thought to this thread. Here's my question, would rather have been with them, or rather they never saw the combat theatre?
The thing we want for our brothers in arms, is for them to not be our brothers in arms. Whether you like a guy or not, once you have trained to put your life in his hands, and asked him to trust you enough to put his in yours, you end up with a familiar kinship that is about as close to family as it gets. They wanted you out of that line of work as much as you want them out.