I'm currently a Paramedic in a busy ass system. I've been in EMS for 7 years. Wait no, 8 years.
To become a Paramedic, I started running start in high school as soon as I could to knock out the pre-reqs. Then I got a job at Safeway and a job at an ambulance company cleaning out bloody ambulances and scrubbing toilets. I also went to school full time. I had no money, and spent all my time at one of those three places OR my car going to these places. Or sleeping at the ambulance company. I lived in Vancouver, WA, where I worked at Safeway. School was in Portland, my other job in Hillsboro. I shared rent on a cruddy old apartment that I hardly saw.
I am now a Field Training Officer for the ambulance company, and I make more money then I ever have. I admit my viewport is skewed on this matter, but if there is one problem that the American populous has, it is the fact that failure IS an option. No one is required to do what I did anymore. Hell, I could have easily told my MD that I was tired and falling asleep in class, because I was, and received a diagnosis of chronic fatigue and then live off the state. *
Now, do I think state programs are bad? No. They are just set up in way that encourages failure. For example, let's say I get obese and have knee problems that I claim make it impossible for me to work. Oh sure, we like to pretend that I have a degenerative disease that I have no control over, but the reality is that my joints can no longer tolerate my own weight and degrade at an abnormally fast rate. My diet has no calcium or other nutrients either, so that causes further degradation. BOOM. You are on disability. We give you pain medications, narcotics. What should happen if you improve? You lose the meds. You lose the benefits. You have to punch a clock like I did, and will until I am far too old.
Is life great on disability? Not really. It is not horrible, I see plenty of the people described above with computers and consoles lying about with Cable TV. But yeah, the apartment is a bad place near a bad school. Do they want to be successful? Nice house? Cool car? Yeah, sure. Do they want to put in that effort? No. Not at all. Life aint great, but at least it is easy.
If America has one issue, it is that we forgot how to row our own boat.
*I am not saying that Chronic Fatigue is not a real issue/disease. What I am saying is that its diagnosis is often given to those without any real issue aside from laziness.