[neo_hermes]

Originally posted by Liberator
It has never and will never just happen to me.  I'm slow, I can't dance, I'm not a good conversationalist, I am a modest student on my best day...you guys don't get it, I fail at everything.

kinda sounds like me a few months ago...that was before i had 24-30yr old women hittin on me, and for some reason i get the distinct feeling they know me somehow.

[Rictor]

...and you are how old?

[Liberator]

That's just it, it's not that I have ever turned anyone down or been turned down.

I've never even been asked...not even looked at.  I am a 6'3", 295lb empty space...

[Ford Prefect]

I'm single and I don't give a ****. I spend most of my time with girls anyway.

[MatthewPapa]

(based on what Rictor mentioned)

Well, you have a roof over your head right? You probably arent hungry   very often are you? Your life isnt threatened on a daily basis is it? You probably have a car right? Your healthy too I persume, no cancer or genetic diseases?

Count your blessings. Some people would DO ANYTHING to get what you have or to be how you are. Be thankful that you are who you are. The trick is to get happy with ones self.

[Primus]

Originally posted by Liberator


I'm slow, I can't dance, I'm not a good conversationalist, I am a modest student on my best day...you guys don't get it, I fail at everything.

I know that guy! It's me!

[Liberator]

I can't even tell when someone is interested...I'm so dense...I could walk through a room full of women who think I'm the next best this to Brad Pitt and not realize it...my only reaction would be anxiety over being in a crowded room...

[Flipside]

Thing is Lib, that's not strictly true, else you would not be here, typing these words.

The thing is, the statement 'Theres someone for everyone' is not true. There are thousands of people for everyone. There are, without doubt, 20 girls within 50 miles who would happily be in a relationship with you if :-

1) They knew you.
2) You lost some of that self-loathing.

The first thing you have to do is shake that conviction that you aren't 'worth' a girlfriend. that you are too geeky or different. I mean, you're in the middle of a Forum for a 5 year-old game worrying about being a geek. Yet many of us are in relationships etc, because we know that in our own little ways we are geeks, everyone is.

Women will detect an emotional martyr a mile off and avoid them, before you can find someone to believe in, you must learn to believe in yourself.

[Liberator]

Originally posted by Flipside
Women will detect an emotional martyr a mile off and avoid them...

Hence why I will always be alone in every sense of the word...

[Nuke]

damn, libs a real wuss

[Taristin]

I give up...

[Primus]

Lib.
If you're a geek, you gotta find a geeky girl too.  Happened to me. I'm with my very first gf, who loves me. And before her, I though there's nobody that even likes me. But now, I think there are and have been girls that liked me.  You gotta belive in yourself

[Liberator]

See even people on the internet can't stand me after a while...

[Taristin]

I never said I can't stand you, I said I give up trying to convince you to stop hating yourself.

These threads, where you ask others about their lives, so you can complain about your own have got to stop, though.

There are people better off than you, yes. But there are people worse off than you, too. Your problems are nothing in the grand scheme of things.

[Primus]

I don't think that nobody meant that they can't stand you..

[Flipside]

1. The best way to not get a girlfriend is to look for one.
2. Talk to every girl as a potential friend, don't get all nervous because they look good, simply tell them they look good, wheres the damage in saying that? If they become friends you may meet someone through them, or your friendship may grow, but it always needs to start off as a friendship. Guys who get all fidgety and insecure will put a girl off.
3. Remember, women like helplessness in kittens and puppies, in men, it bores them.

[Liberator]

I want to apologize...I've acting rather boorish lately and treating you all like crap...like faceless AIs whose only purpose is to keep me from going mad...I'm sorry...

[Knight Templar]

This thread is full of funny.

Seriously, if you're going to come in here to a forum for a five year old game full of 1997 male geeks, moan about your girl situation, turn down all advice and compliments to the otherwise, and ***** some more about how pathetic and miserable you are, women are really the least of your worries.

Take some advice and try it, or go buy some professional advice. Staying here and constantly reminding us of your self-created pit of sorrow without heeding a word we say is annoying to say the least and a waste of everyones' time to put it bluntly. Unless some part of you likes the way you are, then shut up and start trying to change. Otherwise, you're crying to the only group of people you consider friends about how you have none. Frankly, if you're not going to listen, then I don't really care what happens to you.

And crying in self-pity is deffinitely one of the easiest ways to get any girl to become uninterested.

[Nuke]

all you can get here is our bullsh!t, go see a pro and you can get some really expensive bull**** and maybey some pills (ones that would make your d!ck go limp anyway) from a guy with of wallpaper. you may utilize the bullsh!t provided to you through your religion. or you may fabricate your own bullsh!t. i find little use for bullsh!t, though i seem to fabricate of it. the best knoledge is that which you aquire on your own. you seem to be out for pity, not advice. you may get a little, but soon people will realise they are wasting there time, and then you wil really be alone. shutup, get up and go fight the battle on the front lines. you dont need any bullsh!t

[neo_hermes]

Originally posted by Rictor
...and you are how old?

19 maybe they want some young meat or somethin...