from a christian point of view (yes i know i'm setting myself up to get flamed, but i'm not trying to put anyone down here) homosexuality is about on level with kleptomania or sadism or whatever; everyone's born with _something_ wrong with them. so people really have no right to point at other people and say 'he's gay!' because at every point you judge other people, you yourself will be judged (paraphrase from somewhere... book of romans? can't remember)
to me personally, homosexuality is just another thing to hack. doesn't make the person any worse or better than me, or anyone else. so i fully sympathise, andreas, why can't we just _love_ people instead of hating? where is the love?