In other words, Mefustae, God's love is not applicable to those who don't accept it.
I believe that whatever lifestyle a person leads, while it is somewhat indicative of a person's heart, the heart is indeed only fully visible to God, and He makes the final choice.
I wouldn't say there are no rules, they just aren't as important as they used to be. Instead of salvation/no salvation, it's more like, if you accept Christ's gift you're saved any which way you look at it. But the more you sin, the more responsibility you have for the man's crucifixion. And IDK about you, but I do NOT want that weighing much on my chest when I meet the man face to face. But for sure, we are saved by the Grace of God, and not by things we say/do/don't do.
And Trashman, the only things I consider a bit hazy are those pre-Exodus. I do believe sodom and gommorah did happen (high sulfur content in the soil in that locale, FYI), but as for the story of Adam and Eve, I believe the most important thing a person can take away from that is not simply the story of our origins, but the story of our fall and banishment from paradise. But just about every bit of scripture is backed up and corroborated a couple of times over, especially by the Dead Sea scrolls.
FYI I live in the state of California. And I know the love of God™.
Karajorma, I believe loving God includes doing your best to live up to His standards, which are none less than utter and total perfection.