Hmmm...
Well, as you are imaginably well aware, at high alts the atmosphere is quite thin, so your AoA might have more to due with the lift you're getting than anything else. Furthermore, most high-speed aircraft use symmetrical, close to symmetrical, or other types of "neutral" airfoils, so lift is generally closely related to your angle of attack, barring fuselage lift, of course. At extreme speeds and high altitudes, the rise the aircraft is experiencing might be due to (a.) the reduced gravitational attraction between the aircraft and the planet and (b.) the fact that the aircraft's speed is so great that it's starting to pull away from the planet - as you said, you're trying to attain extreme velocities while still remaining in the atmosphere. Condition (a.) is somewhat arbitrary, as you really need to get far out to have that as a factor, but I think (b.) is a likely case, especially when you're going like, oh, Mach 8 or greater...
The whole "lift-happy" thing is assumably just an incorrect assessment based on a reasonable observation.