I don't know to which question you answered, but here goes.
Why would you want to cube the nasty looking cubic root side? That's tedious work, I think your original approach was better. In fact, we would like to show that under that cubic root, there indeed is a cube of something. Why? Because that makes it rather easy to calculate and the cubic roots are cancelled.
So in principle, the effect should be [(a - b)3]1/3 = a - b
How could you know that 20-14*sqrt(2) is a cube of something? Well, you are actually cheated by the looks of it, since using numbers allows combining terms in a way that it is very non-intuitive to get back in to the expanded cubic form of a3 - 3a2b + 3ab2 - b3. Which is the reason I still heartily recommend staying the hell away from the numbers until last possible moment and said this is a rather arbitrary and stupid kind of assignment.
So now we are basically saying that a3 - 3a2b + 3ab2 - b3 = 20 - 14*sqrt(2)
That's fine, but not very informative. We have two unknowns a and b and only one equation. To solve the equation exactly, we would need two independent equations. Where do we get the second one?
Well, there is a bit of a hint in the numerical form, so we can actually write:
(1) a3 + 3ab2 = 20
(2) -3a2b - b3 = -14*sqrt(2)
Now, as I said I wont solve the problem myself, so spoon-feeding the answer stops here. Explain me why did I write these two equations; I wont continue any further until I get reasonable feedback from you. I'm positive that you will get it, but it might take some time. This is where the assignment actually becomes ingenious.