No, I don't know your philosophy. I didn't say I do.
Well, I could say that you implied you did by saying that I would think differently if I lived elsewhere, but never mind that.

As I said before, I am no warhawk, but I don't like the Gandhi principle either, as we have seen how well that worked in the real world.

Of course nobody defines them. Political weapons they currently are, that is a commonly accepted fact. What else can a weapon that has been used only twice in the history be but political? India and Pakistan can of course see it other way, but that doesn't justify possible usage of them. They can fight their silly wars just fine without them.
Yeah, the situation does not justify them just yet from a world perspective, but it is not going to do much even if they are used compared to the potential benefits.
Seriously, war aint a fun thing, no matter what the scale is. I mean look at human civilization as a whole. For over 5000 years we've been at war with each other. "The more things change, the more they stay the same" so to speak. We progress in science, but not in culture. We just learn new ways to kill each other, instead of new ways to live with one another. So, what am I saying?
I think that will change over the course of the next few millennia, seeing as we subtly headed towards a world government, and in the very distant future, a combined physical system. Also, our prehistoric ancestors fought wars as individuals, while the wars of today are fought by cohesive groups formed out of ideologies.

Bah, I'll get back to playing some Freespace. 
That's always a good idea.
