You know what? **** this guy. If I'm in a situation where a woman is acting crazy, overreacting, or being nutso-emotional, I'm going to tell her (with obvious consideration given to the specifics of the situation at the time). But you know what? I'm going to do the exact same thing if a bloke starts acting that way, except I'd probably come down harder on the guy because, again, with due consideration for the specific details of the situation, there's a fair chance he probably just needs to harden the **** up (and yeah, that's a double standard - I don't care).
Nobody, male or female, lives in a bubble. Your actions and interactions affect the people around you, and we have an elaborate code of behaviour that regulates these interactions. If you step outside of it, by acting crazy, then you need to be told so, otherwise that's tacit acceptance of behaviour that in many cases falls outside the bounds of what's acceptable, and that applies equally to men and women.
Now, if you had quoted the whole article, you would have noticed that he author describes some specific situations where the bloke in question is being a dick, and the women in question should do something about it. But I am not going to censor my interactions with fifty percent of the world's population because some wanker thinks they're too emotionally and intellectually weak to look after themselves.