No, you misunderstand, the effort to overplay what is going on and turn it into a 'Rome is burning' situation is in full swing. Your post is an excellent example of it in fact.
Just because someone says that the gaming community tends to over-dramatize things and make a 'show' of it is not a statement on what is going on at all, it's a statement on the reaction on it, but any statement that could possibly be taken as detracting from your viewpoint must be a belittlement of what happened in your eyes.
Ask yourself, what does showing it to the Internet actually achieve compared to reporting it to the authorities? Beyond a great deal of drama, very little. Pointing that out is not attacking Sarkeesian, not at all, we all do it, it's the nature of the Gaming Community itself I'm afraid.
As I said before, Drama from a Crisis.