I've confined my responses mostly to Draw Muhammed Day. As you keep point out, that's the agreed battleground. A battleground full of innocent civilians.
Why not choose a different battleground then? One better suited for us? Why not make it personal? I've already linked to the picture Choudary wants removed from the internet. Why not make your free speech battle there? Somewhere where it's not going to hit people who want no part in the battle but get involved cause it happens where they live.
Because constantly posting the picture Choudary wants removed from the Internet angers no one but Choudary, and he's not the only extremist out there. No one's shooting up magazine offices and sending death threats over his picture being posted. The point of drawing Muhammad is to tell the extremists "we're not afraid of you, and to prove it, here's us doing the thing you don't want us to do". It's not a terribly good approach, but it's a more satisfying way of doing it than taking the piss out of one man. The former attacks the whole movement. The latter does not. As contemptible as Choudary is, he's not responsible for these attacks.
Like I said before, I don't really give a **** about Draw Muhammad Day. It's quite petty to me, like asking for Facebook likes. I'm just explaining why people take part in it.
See, when Fred Phelps acted like a wanker, I'd shut down anyone who took the piss out of Christianity on these boards. If you want to go after Phelps, go after him, but don't make HLP a place deemed anti-Christian because you're going after one bigot. Why not do the same thing here?
The thing about Phelps and the Westboro Baptist Church is that it's very easy to mock them without mocking all Christians. Most Christians I know don't really care if you mock the fundamentalist interpretation of the Bible. Often, they'll laugh right along with you. Not the case for everyone, obviously, but some members of my family are religious, and most of them laugh at fundamentalists and creationists as much as I do.
It helps that Westerners tend to be more educated about Christanity than Islam, of course.
Flipside: Like a lot of conflicts, it's become rather self-sustaining. Someone draws Muhammad, some people get angry (some more than others), people interpret that as an attack on free speech, they draw Muhammad some more. It'd be really nice if we could casually take the piss out of Islam the way we do for everything else, but I think, most of the time, neither side can help turning it into a political issue. Free speech isn't something we can compromise on, but I will agree it isn't something we need to make a huge show about either.
I get it that you don't hate Muslims, but, I wonder, if you showed these images to someone in, say, Saudi Arabia and then told them you don't hate Muslims, would they believe you?
Probably not, but they are not required to. I don't live in Saudi Arabia, and I don't want to live there. Yes, the Internet means they can see it, but I wouldn't think highly of someone who went to Saudi Arabia purely to spread images of Muhammad, just like I wouldn't think highly of a Saudi who tried to extend his country's anti-blasphemy laws to the West.