UUUUUUGGggghh!!1
Sheltering. It's evil. You got to go out there and socialize your kids! Or else you end up with some really naive and annoying kids who really don't know better about many things, and also just plain old don't know many things.
Reminds me going to a church private school for 6th and 7th grade. That place was fun to go to for sure. But, 8th grade i had to go back to public. And many many many others started calling me names and i didn't know what a single one of them meant. After that i was just curious why everybody was making fun of me. Then i closed up and became very anti-social.
Also reminds me of my friend i met years ago. Everyone didn't hang out with him because he was annoying and he'd steal your stuff. I figured out once you accepted him for who he is and even more over all become his friend then he wont steal your ****. But, he called like 15 times a day! This was a guy who lived 5 miles out of town, and got to go to town maybe once a month. He wanted to hang out all the time too.
HELLO SHELTERED AND UNSOCIALIZED KIDS...THE ABOVE WILL BE YOURS
Solutions? Yes.
I just got mad one day when my own friends started making fun of me too. So i took a bold step and started making friends with all of the bullies and doing constructive things like tutoring them, and teach them how to use certain win apps necessary for school. My betraying friends became the laughing stock....they just weren't cool, the bullies in my old school seriously were much cooler and nicer people.
And with a lot of patience, after like a year, my unsocialized friend learned the errors of his old ways with his big realization period, and became a normal person.
Why did all of this happen? In the first situation it took me a while for my stupor to wear off and realize damn that church private school didn't prepare me for **** because it ended up being a negatively impacting sheltering experience, grew out of my anti-socialness, and got better friends while at it. And the second situation i actually got my friend out of his house at least once a week to hang out in town.
Sometimes you got to realize that there are things that are necessary for you that your parents may end up never doing for you that they normally should have. And that's when you got to go out and do them for yourself, and even possibly help other people with them. Such as socializing...it's pretty important. Living under a nurturing umbrella of safety soley for a long period of life doesn't do any good.
Good luck titan in your 1984 novel life of an experience that is happening for you now