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Off-Topic Discussion => General Discussion => Topic started by: Fearless Leader on December 26, 2007, 03:28:51 am
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
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Dating her is your choice, right? Is she not pro-choice?
(I'm pro-life, and I think homosexuality is a sin, but I'm trying to make a point here.)
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I know, also I didnt understand the last half.
But I didnt know I could be homophobic towards the opposite sex.. would that not be more like hetrophobia?
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I know, also I didnt understand the last half.
But I didnt know I could be homophobic towards the opposite sex.. would that not be more like hetrophobia?
:rolleyes: Yes, you are homophobic or hetrophobic 'cause you are just terrified of them. *snort* :lol:
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You don't want to date a Bi chick? What the hell is the matter of you?!? Think of all the threesomes! Those wonderful moments you just happen to interrup her and her friends pillowfight aftermaths. Don't you use your dick for thinking, like, at all??? :eek:
Althought the dowside is that if you wish a serious relationship, you'd have to compete with women. And a man versus woman for the attention of another woman... Well it's Kobayashi Maru all over... :blah:
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look man, this is a serious issue for me, I wouldnt date a Bi chick because 1) I couldnt trust her and 2) I would always want a 3 way and I would never do that because Im not willing to share my signifigant other with another person
so, am I afraid of gays / bi chicks?
I dont know, but it is a new issue for me
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I wouldnt date a Bi chick because 1) I couldnt trust her
I think that is the key in this issue. I guess it's harder to trust bi chicks. With straight chicks your only concern is that they might take an interest on some other man. But bi chicks could fall for either a man or a woman. The risk of losing her is therefore quite larger compared to a straight chick.
Or then you are a homophobe or equivalent.
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So Bi chicks are innately promiscuous and cannot be trusted? Where does it say a bisexual cannot set their heart on one person, especially if it's a serious relationship?
That's what I'm reading from your "I couldn't trust her" comment.
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And a man versus woman for the attention of another woman... Well it's Kobayashi Maru all over... :blah:
Now that i've picked myself off the floor, i'd just like to point out this is the single greatest obscure reference ever on HLP. Truly, I am in awe of the awesomeness of this post. You have much to teach us, Prophet. :yes:
Fearless Leader, it's a choice of preference. Some guys don't like redheads, so they choose not to date them. Some guys don't like fat women, so they don't date them. We all have our own particular 'types' that we're drawn to, and inversely we also have certain 'types' that were just aren't into. If you don't dig a bisexual girl because she's bisexual, then more power to you. If you're fussed over something like that, then it probably wouldn't have lasted too long anyways.
When you get right down to it, you're not homophobic if you don't like her because she's bisexual. Honestly, if I were looking for a long-term thing, i'd be a bit wary myself. Anyway, so what if you're a homophobe? What business is it of anyone but yours? I'll disagree, but it's your opinion after all.
Oh, and Jr2, what the **** you on about mate?
Edit: Also, could we try to combat the hideous stereotype of forum geeks by not using 'chick' so much? Just a small request, eh? It's ****ing juvenile, people.
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
No. It makes you an idiot. :p
Seriously though whether a girl is bi or not shouldn't affect whether you trust her or not. Suppose you go out with a 100% hetrosexual woman. She's still going to be attracted to other men. If she is the kind of girl who wants to cheat on you there's plenty of willing dick around.
If a girl is bi it simply doubles the number of people she could potentially cheat on you with. It doesn't automatically make her less trustworthy.
Think of it this way. You might be attracted to both redheads and blondes but that doesn't mean you need one of each. I assume that if your girl is blonde she can still trust you not to need to **** a redhead from time to time?
So don't fixate on the bi, the important thing is whether she's monogamous or not.
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No. It makes you an idiot. :p
Exactly what I was going to say. Seriously, why are we having this conversation - go out there and try do what the rest of us can only dream of.
...unless she's ugly.
Edit: Also, could we try to combat the hideous stereotype of forum geeks by not using 'chick' so much? Just a small request, eh? It's ****ing juvenile, people.
No dice, old man. I'm perfectly fine with them calling us "guys" - it's just part of the lingo nowadays.
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Step 1: Get Bi chick
Step 2: ??????
Step 3some!
Really though, if she's the one accusing you of being a homophobe, I don't see the relationship working out that well even if you didn't care about her being bi.
Oh, and no. Unless you have some deep-rooted fear/hate for homosexuals, then I don't think you would be considered a homophobe.
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
It makes you a close minded idiot :p Seriously, I'm kind of annoyed with all of the comments in this thread that immediately assume bi chicks are more promiscuous and/or willing to have a three some. They're people too you know (I imagine that a large portion of this people in this thread would have trouble believing women are really people just like them), and just because they have different sexual tastes than you doesn't mean they immediately want to have tons of sex with as many people as they can.
I say this from experience, as well. Bi chicks are a ton of fun (not just sexually) - you can talk to them about how hot other girls are and they'll talk back, and generally I've found them to be much more chill over all.
And no, you're not a homophobe :p
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
if you don't date a chick you're gay
you must cure her from her bi-illness with your mighty cock
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Don't cure it! Join in!
Damn.....
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And we wonder why no lady-folk frequent the forum...
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Close-minded?
There are no such things as fobias. Homofobia, archanophobia, whateverfobias..they don't exit. Neither does antisemitism. It's all a government conspiracy I tell you! They're at it with the aliens and scientologists! - THE TRUTH IS OUT THERE!
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And we wonder why no lady-folk frequent the forum...
Indeed.
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I think the 'revelation' that men make snappy, sexist replies to questions like this would be pretty low on the list of concerns to be honest, that's been the job of our sex since the dawn of time.
Sharon's more of the opinion that it's the fact that, we are a bunch of computer gamers and this is a site for a 7-year old video game. Like going into Games Workshop, women are there, but rare, and often lost behind a crowd of preening males.
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For all those who don't understand what JR2 was talking about, Gah, I just don't even wanna try tackling that one...
Here's language you can understand: If I were dating this person, and she became interested in another man, I could out-man the man. If she became interested in another woman, well... I'm NOT gonna go there!
Next, what part of "I don't want an open relationship" don't you understand? Here my friends, is something that's becoming a rarity these days: Someone who's more interested in a serious relationship than just sex.
He doesn't want an open relationship and you call him an idiot for it. I commend him. "Old fashioned" you say? "Not very forward-thinking?" What good is moving forward down the wrong path?
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Bi means, by definition, 'more than one', if it's a stable relationship then it doesn't matter what the persons' sexual preferences were, because they would be faithful to one gender and one person.
If you are having doubts because she is bisexual, it means you are having suspicions that she would cheat on you, since, in no other way, would that bisexuality count for anything. If you are having doubts that she would not remain faithful, then don't date her, if you have a problem with her being bisexual, then you're looking in the wrong place for your reasons.
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Next, what part of "I don't want an open relationship" don't you understand?
What part of dating a bisexual doesn't mean you have to have an open relationship don't you understand?
You know what the really ****ing hilarious thing here is. You, Trashman and jr2 are always stating the whole love the sinner, but hate the sin angle and yet when you have the option to possibly take a bisexual off the market and help her not sin by being part of a loving, faithful relationship you immediately go to the "She's a bisexual and therefore unredeemable" place.
Don't ever give me that "hate the sin not the sinner" speech again cause it's obvious that in your heart you don't really believe it.
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Lots of hiding behind specific use of language and avoiding the real issues.
When it comes down to it...if you two get along in the relationship sort of way then it really doesn't matter one bit. Be afraid that I'm giving out dating advice but this one is a no brainer even to me. The other issues of compatibility should far (far far far far) outweigh this "issue". If you're having "trust" issues then bi-sexuality is not the problem.
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Here's language you can understand: If I were dating this person, and she became interested in another man, I could out-man the man. If she became interested in another woman, well... I'm NOT gonna go there!
A woman who is into you won't stray. If she's become interested in someone else male or female you've pretty much already lost her. And no amount of chest thumping is going to bring her back.
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Being homophobic requires irrational fear. Do you have an irrational fear of her because she is Bi? If not, then you aren't homophibic. I may not want a dog, but it doesn't mean I am cynophobic. Thats her problem for labeling you as such. You may not want somebody Bi as a girlfriend, but it doesnt mean you don't like her as a person.
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
Well not unless she's a homosexual. It does make you prejudiced though.
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I don't mind if a girl I stay with likes other girls. No, wait...I didn't mind.
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Seriously, I'm kind of annoyed with all of the comments in this thread that immediately assume bi chicks are more promiscuous and/or willing to have a three some.
Hear hear.
I'm going to be blunt, and quite possibly harsh to boot, because someone needs to say it.
Her sexuality has nothing to do with trust - it's rather ignorant to assume that because a person is attracted to both sexes that makes them less morally sound. Downright bigoted, actually.
I'm rather perturbed at both sides of responses here, the:
1. Bisexuality is bad, you can't trust them, and that's alright just find a "normal" girl, and:
2. Bisexuality is great, you'll have plenty of open sex with multiple partners if you so choose.
**** off.
She is a person. It doesn't matter who or what she's attracted to so long as you're the person she chooses to be faithful to. If you have trust issues with her because of who she is rather than what her actions are, you don't deserve her, and the problem is with you.
And while refusing to date a girl because she's bisexual doesn't make you a homophobe per se, it certainly makes you an ignorant tard... six of one, half a dozen of the other.
My advice? Stay away, because you're the problem with the potential relationship, not her.
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I find it ironic that by dumping a bi chick because he's homophobic, he's being a fag.
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Try to be a bit more constructive here guys, if you'll notice he stopped posting. Probably because asking for advice turned out to be about as useful as asking for advice on /b/
To drop my cents:
1) The one thing being repeated is pretty dead on: her sexuality has nothing to do with trust. She could betray you just as easily as a heterosexual person
2) From wikipedia, a large number of bisexual people still prefer one gender over the other, although they may change their mind as to which one that is over time. Your concern about competing with men and women may be moot if she slants more towards men. The problem is bisexuality is a term that labels basically everyone that isn't homosexual or heterosexual. So the individual cases vary, not too many are in the middle, most rather shift to one side or the other.
3) Additionally, I keep hearing from my roommate's ramblings that its been studied that women really have more of a sexual preference rather than men who tend to have a sexual orientation, if this is accurate it further reinforces what I said before.
4) Despite all of this, the question is not whether your choice makes you a homophobe, but rather if you think you are one or not already. If it really bothers you that she's bisexual, you probably shouldn't date her, it's just a huge compatibility clash, kind of like having a couple where one person's religion is vehemently hostile to the other's. Things tend not to work out well.
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I don't care one way or the other but if you're not going to date her give me her phone number :D
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
No.
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I find it ironic that by dumping a bi chick because he's homophobic, he's being a fag.
I find it ironic that he thinks he has a shot with this girl at all while being so confused about gender-orientation and trust.
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Heh... what's next? Orgies? np, dude. whatever the h*** you want. I really love my dog, and the feeling is mutual. Yeah, dude. Where do you freaking draw the line? Or do you seriously contend that there is not line? Because if there's no lines... well, hmm. Jeez. I really don't wanna go there.
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The important thing is that she's probably lying anyways.
"OMG I KISSED MY BEST FRIEND WHILE WE WERE DRUNK THIS ONE TIME AND THAT MAKES ME SO TOTALLY BI LOLOLOoneoneone...."
A chick by the monicker SaabROX used to hang on IRC. She was like 14. She claimed she was gay because she kissed her best friend.
People are idiots.
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:lol:
I needed this to make me laugh after the goings on of yesterday
People are idiots.
this one is not mearly retarded, I wish it was the case...
I don't care one way or the other but if you're not going to date her give me her phone number :D
I'll think about it
Heh... what's next? Orgies? np, dude. whatever the h*** you want. I really love my dog, and the feeling is mutual. Yeah, dude. Where do you freaking draw the line? Or do you seriously contend that there is not line? Because if there's no lines... well, hmm. Jeez. I really don't wanna go there.
I dont want you to go there either
Try to be a bit more constructive here guys, if you'll notice he stopped posting. Probably because asking for advice turned out to be about as useful as asking for advice on /b/
I stopped posting because I was tired and needed to sleep
Seriously, I'm kind of annoyed with all of the comments in this thread that immediately assume bi chicks are more promiscuous and/or willing to have a three some.
Hear hear.
I'm going to be blunt, and quite possibly harsh to boot, because someone needs to say it.
Her sexuality has nothing to do with trust - it's rather ignorant to assume that because a person is attracted to both sexes that makes them less morally sound. Downright bigoted, actually.
sexuality does not have to do with trust, being able to make choices does
However, I miss stated before. Bi chicks/dudes cant be trusted as much because they dont know what they want.
Example, I can say "I want a woman that is smart funny and attractive" where a Bi person says "I want a _______ that is smart funny and attractive"
They dont know what they want, if they did they would be strait or gay, so I cant trust somebody that doesnt know what she wants.
Sure, I could do it for sex and try to have fun and 3-ways, but thats not the way I am, I dont share (at least not like that) and I dont expect to be shared.
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So because 200 million men and women fit her initial criterion rather than 100 million women for you that means a bi can't make a choice?
As you stated in your post what a bi is looking for is someone smart, funny and attractive to them. Which is what you're looking for. Does that mean that if a man only likes blonde women he's better relationship material because he can make a choice on hair colour while you can't?
To be honest I'm going to agree with the general sentiment that this girl is better off without you though. Even if she was faithful to you, you'd make her life hell with accusations whenever she even looked at another woman. Even if you were being the smart, funny and attractive person she had wanted.
Jeez. I really don't wanna go there.
Then don't. It would be a ridiculous strawman if you did and at least that way we can pretend you bothered to actually read a few posts and learn something rather than skimming them in a bigoted haze.
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karajorma ....
you have been watching to much "Chasing Amy" to many times.
Im worried that if I invest my emotions into somebody that is not sure what she wants and she decides she likes girls more, then it would suck. She wouldnt have to cheat on me to decide that.
Anyways, people in here are just as confused as I am, so I feel better now, I did get a good laugh out of some of your comments though (I hope some of you were joking) :p
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Jeez. I really don't wanna go there.
Then don't. It would be a ridiculous strawman if you did and at least that way we can pretend you bothered to actually read a few posts and learn something rather than skimming them in a bigoted haze.
See here. You're so bigoted that, even though you don't skim your posts (and I do read mine), it doesn't make a difference. Next time you call me a bigot, think a little more.
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You've acted as though bisexual = promiscuous even though several times it's been pointed out that it means nothing of the sort.
I can only assume you either aren't reading other peoples posts or that you are but it's not sinking in because you choose not to let it sink in.
But when you go further and start to make some ridiculous comment comparing bisexuality and bestiality then I'm going to call you a bigot. As I pointed out earlier you're always claiming "hate the sin not the sinner" but when you get the chance to prove it you've gone and assumed that bisexuals are only capable of sin and can't be redeemed and live the rest of their life in a monogamous heterosexual relationship. So not only are you being bigoted against bisexuals you are failing to practice what you've preached.
You've made out that bisexuals can't chose a partner of the opposite sex because that's the same as bestiality and yet you don't want them to choose one of the same sex since that is a sin. So in other words you're saying that simply because someone is bisexual they should never have a relationship and die alone.
Which basically proves you do hate the sinner not the sin.
Im worried that if I invest my emotions into somebody that is not sure what she wants and she decides she likes girls more, then it would suck. She wouldnt have to cheat on me to decide that.
Thing is that that can happen with any girl. She could go out with you and then decide she doesn't like people who like computer games or that she prefers black men (assuming you aren't one) or that she wants someone rich or better looking or a whole host of other choices.
You're elevating the man/woman choice above every other one and treating it like it's special but it's not. While a girl is into you she won't change her preference because it will constantly be reinforced by the fact she is into you. You only have problems if she's losing interest in you anyway. And if you're already at the point then as I said before you're already fighting a losing battle anyway.
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sometimes I see problems I wished I had.
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What, like this one (http://www.abcactionnews.com/entertainment/story.aspx?content_id=0880e2f7-63b0-4940-a1d7-6ec9b828de1b)? :lol:
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However, I miss stated before. Bi chicks/dudes cant be trusted as much because they dont know what they want.
I know I said your comment in the other thread was the dumbest thing I've heard in the past three days, but that was before I read this gem.
Who you are attracted to has nothing to do with knowing what you want. Good grief. Like I said before, leave the girl alone because you are just going to be a train ride from hell for her.
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What confuses me in this case is simple:
- why did you even bring this subject to the FORUMS? Your personal life issues in front of 100's of strangers that don't realyl know you anyway. :wtf:
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Im worried that if I invest my emotions into somebody that is not sure what she wants and she decides she likes girls more, then it would suck. She wouldnt have to cheat on me to decide that.
There are many, many gradients of knowing what you want. Just because someone is bi doesn't mean that they know what they want any less than somebody who isn't bi.
And as far as I'm concerned, I would gladly take "I'm breaking up with you because I've decided to date women" over the grab bag of break up reasons. If that's the only reason you'd be breaking up with her, then you would have had a better run than a lot of people.
If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
If I don't date a guy because he is male then does that make me sexist?
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You don't want to date a Bi chick? What the hell is the matter of you?!? Think of all the threesomes! Those wonderful moments you just happen to interrup her and her friends pillowfight aftermaths. Don't you use your dick for thinking, like, at all??? :eek:
Althought the dowside is that if you wish a serious relationship, you'd have to compete with women. And a man versus woman for the attention of another woman... Well it's Kobayashi Maru all over... :blah:
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Plenty of us were being serious though. Or semi-serious at least.
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What confuses me in this case is simple:
- why did you even bring this subject to the FORUMS? Your personal life issues in front of 100's of strangers that don't realyl know you anyway. :wtf:
Plus, most of them don't know people who are Bi-Sexual; Hence all what they say is most likely based on Prejudices, which can not be trusted.
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My experience. Bi chicks. Bad news.
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*shrugs* conversely, my experience with bisexual girls has been positive. They're mostly laid-back, fun to be around and make for good conversation.
They're people too, and as with gay and straight people, some are polyamorous, some are promiscuous and the rest want long-term, exclusive relationships.
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They're people too, and as with gay and straight people, some are polyamorous, some are promiscuous and the rest want long-term, exclusive relationships.
But the fact remains that they're knee-deep in sin, and should be socially ostracized as much as possible. It's the only way they'll learn.
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But the fact remains that they're knee-deep in sin, and should be socially ostracized as much as possible.
And 'sin' is just a term invented by religious leaders as a means for controlling people.
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They're people too, and as with gay and straight people, some are polyamorous, some are promiscuous and the rest want long-term, exclusive relationships.
But the fact remains that they're knee-deep in sin, and should be socially ostracized as much as possible. It's the only way they'll learn.
:lol:
Sin is overhyped.
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But sin is oh so enjoyable... Like most other "bad" things...
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But the fact remains that they're knee-deep in sin, and should be socially ostracized as much as possible.
And 'sin' is just a term invented by religious leaders as a means for controlling people.
he was being sarcastic/mocking a few people
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you must cure her from her bi-illness with your mighty cock
Mighty Meaty
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But sin is oh so enjoyable... Like most other "bad" things...
Sin's just too much damn fun ;)
Anyway, my personal experiences with both bi and lesbian girls has been exceedingly positive. In fact, I find them less *****y and annoying than straight ones.
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Next, what part of "I don't want an open relationship" don't you understand?
What part of dating a bisexual doesn't mean you have to have an open relationship don't you understand?
You know what the really ****ing hilarious thing here is. You, Trashman and jr2 are always stating the whole love the sinner, but hate the sin angle and yet when you have the option to possibly take a bisexual off the market and help her not sin by being part of a loving, faithful relationship you immediately go to the "She's a bisexual and therefore unredeemable" place.
Don't ever give me that "hate the sin not the sinner" speech again cause it's obvious that in your heart you don't really believe it.
You totally missed my point. You were calling him an idiot because he should go for this chick and hook himself a threesome, even after he stated several times that he was interested in a serious, meaningful relationship, not the cheap sex you (the majority, not you specifically) were advising him to go for.
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Next, what part of "I don't want an open relationship" don't you understand?
What part of dating a bisexual doesn't mean you have to have an open relationship don't you understand?
You know what the really ****ing hilarious thing here is. You, Trashman and jr2 are always stating the whole love the sinner, but hate the sin angle and yet when you have the option to possibly take a bisexual off the market and help her not sin by being part of a loving, faithful relationship you immediately go to the "She's a bisexual and therefore unredeemable" place.
Don't ever give me that "hate the sin not the sinner" speech again cause it's obvious that in your heart you don't really believe it.
You totally missed my point. You were calling him an idiot because he should go for this chick and hook himself a threesome, even after he stated several times that he was interested in a serious, meaningful relationship, not the cheap sex you (the majority, not you specifically) were advising him to go for.
Which thread were you reading? :wtf:
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I think Prophet started it, and everything else was taken from there. Ya, so let me get this straight.. are we talking of a bi wanting to have a single-person relationship with you? Or with you and another person(s)? The second instance what what I was reacting to. Probably a reaction to what Prophet said. Pretty much I was responding to the whole "threesome" idea. But w/e.
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Those of us who were being serious have constantly hammered home the point that being bisexual doesn't mean threesomes. Bisexuals can form long term, single partner relationships same as hetrosexuals can. Bisexuals are people too. There are some who are promiscuous, there are some who despite their attraction don't ever sleep with either sex and there are some who just want to settle down and have a family.
To get hung up on their sexuality as if it is important is silly. There are other things that are more important in making the choice.
You totally missed my point. You were calling him an idiot because he should go for this chick and hook himself a threesome, even after he stated several times that he was interested in a serious, meaningful relationship, not the cheap sex you (the majority, not you specifically) were advising him to go for.
I called him that in jest and then went on to give him a serious explanation. If he doesn't want to have threesomes and an open relationship that's his choice and he's welcome to it. I've got no problem with him wanting that.
But you didn't stop at having a go at threesomes. You went further and claimed you would never have a relationship with a bisexual because you were worried about her becoming attracted to someone else of the opposite sex. And that's where you stopped talking about threesomes and were ruling out any relationship with this girl simply because she's bisexual. So no, I didn't miss your point. I was having a go at you over your point.
Let's see if I can put it another way. Suppose the woman you marry is plain and rather fat. But you pick her cause she's got a great personality and you can see yourself being happy for the rest of your life with her. But you're still a man. You're still going to see pretty girls who you think are attractive all the time. She's not got what the other girls have got in the physical department. According to you she's stuffed. She's going to have to try to out-woman the other girls you see constantly and since she probably can't cause she's not that physically attractive you're going to cheat on her.
Now I know you're probably frothing at the mouth by now because you know that last bit is bollocks. Good. You've seen the problem with your own argument about why you can't date a bisexual girl then. She might be attracted to other women but she doesn't have to act on it. Same as you don't have to act on being attracted to other women. Why are you making the assumption that she's any less likely to be faithful just because of what she is attracted to?
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Hmm... we don't want to do statistics, do we?
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Considering that they'll just be made up ****, no.
Stats for this sort of thing are rubbish because people lie.
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The fundie spastics are making the mistake of grouping good ol' fashioned whores in with 'bisexual'.
Being attracted to both men and women makes you bisexual.
****ing anything that moves makes you a whore.
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Hey guys, this original question was "If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?", Im not dragging private matters into the public, you dont know my name, where I live or work, or even who Im talking about. I brought this here because there are 3 things that could happen 1) serious debate 2) funny jokes 3) people fighting. All 3 of those happened, I just wanted to see if anyone was on my side. At the time I posted that I was just trying to figure out if I was weird, because Im a guy, who doesn't want a 3 way.
What type of female is attracted to me is not the issue, what one I chose is.
karajorma.... I dont know what to say, you whip up an argument like no other. You in a forum is like gas on a pile of ... burning gas, that is somehow in a pile. Its just personal attacks...
::braces for response:::
you must cure her from her bi-illness with your mighty cock
Mighty Meaty
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I'll try that on the next one :D
G0atmaster, you reply was well said, but I dont know how to put something in quotes from 2 pages ago.. also 'GOatmaster' is a strange name, how did you come by it?
The fundie spastics are making the mistake of grouping good ol' fashioned whores in with 'bisexual'.
Being attracted to both men and women makes you bisexual.
****ing anything that moves makes you a whore.
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
you are great :yes:
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Did I forget to mention that before the second day of this I decided that it wouldn't be a good idea to date her?
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No, you didn't, but why?
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1) I couldnt trust her and 2) I would always want a 3 way and I would never do that because Im not willing to share my signifigant other with another person
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At the time I posted that I was just trying to figure out if I was weird, because Im a guy, who doesn't want a 3 way.
Did she actually offer you a 3-way or are you just assuming? :p
karajorma.... I dont know what to say, you whip up an argument like no other. You in a forum is like gas on a pile of ... burning gas, that is somehow in a pile. Its just personal attacks...
::braces for response:::
It's a dirty job but someone has to do it. :p
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The fundie spastics are making the mistake of grouping good ol' fashioned whores in with 'bisexual'.
Being attracted to both men and women makes you bisexual.
****ing anything that moves makes you a whore.
Well no a whore gets paid, slut is the word you're thinking of. :)
At the time I posted that I was just trying to figure out if I was weird, because Im a guy, who doesn't want a 3 way.
I dont see how it follows Ive been with a Bi girl for nearly a year now and theres been no suggestion that she wants a 3-way, and shes very loyal.
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well... if this has been resolved i think we should leave it alone....
any complaints...?
Take a number
http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/7845/complaintah8.jpg
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Im glad that that is over, I have bigger issues to worry about
No, you didn't, but why?
because I found somebody that is a better match for me :D
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if a girls bi shes either confused, a whore, in denial about being gay, or just plain in general ****ed up, and anyone but a liberal hippie douche would see that thats probably not best person for a long term relationship. so, does it make you a homophobe, no, it just means your somewhat wise in your selection. now the fact that someone is bi doesn't mean that they are mental. one should always be wary of signs that might indicate instability. being bi might be a warning sign or it might be the way she is.
there are plenty of girls who pretend to be bi to tease the guys and theres lots of people who sexperiment. in the former no actual sex usually transpires, and in the latter, it might happen a couple times, freak em out or they find out its not for them, and then they would cease homo activity and return to relative normalcy.
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Have you ever even talked to a girl?
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I feel I should explain....
Ever since the admins decided that all viewpoints, no matter how wrong and/or stupid, were all equally valid and began driving away all the smart, wise and insightful members by forcing them to endure the inherantly retarded ramblings of 14 year old fundies with about as much experiential knowledge as a block of clay - HLP has been taking a nosedive into the ****ter in terms of intellectual integrity and general smarts.
But this is it's whole own level of stupid:
if a girls bi shes either confused, a whore, in denial about being gay, or just plain in general ****ed up
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i find it amusing that 99% of the people that have replied to this thread probably either don't have girlfriends, or have never had sex. yet they're giving relationship/sex advise?
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This will never happen again:
I agree with an0n. You guys need to get out more.
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Lol.
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Ever since the admins decided that all viewpoints, no matter how wrong and/or stupid, were all equally valid and began driving away all the smart, wise and insightful members by forcing them to endure the inherantly retarded ramblings of 14 year old fundies with about as much experiential knowledge as a block of clay - HLP has been taking a nosedive into the ****ter in terms of intellectual integrity and general smarts.
Who said they were equally valid? They have every right to express them without being insulted but we have every right to tell them that their opinion is bollocks and tell them exactly why.
The only rule I enforce is insult the opinion not the person holding that opinion. Ironically it was Kazan who actually said it best when he said that he had to respect the right of people to express ideas he didn't agree with but that didn't mean he had to respect the idea itself.
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i find it amusing that 99% of the people that have replied to this thread probably either don't have girlfriends, or have never had sex. yet they're giving relationship/sex advise?
99% of the people who have replied to this thread aren't posting serious replies...
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Ironically it was Kazan who actually said it best when he said that he had to respect the right of people to express ideas he didn't agree with but that didn't mean he had to respect the idea itself.
He also, quite frequently, said: "Are you ****ing retarded, you goddamn fundie ****?!?"
I'm paraphrasing, but still...
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(http://www.penguinbomb.com/images/an0napproves.jpg)
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:lol:
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unlike anon who probably spends most of his time hogging fat women, i tend to wait for the cute ones. it has happened before and it will happen again.
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If this gets into a personal pissing contest on who's the better kisser, I see lockage in this thread's future.
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(http://www.penguinbomb.com/images/an0napproves.jpg)
:lol:
If this gets into a personal pissing contest on who's the better kisser, I see lockage in this thread's future.
I totally agree. Everybody knows I'm the best kisser, claiming the contrary is spamming.
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(http://www.penguinbomb.com/images/an0ndoesnotapprove.jpg)
unlike anon who probably spends most of his time hogging fat women, i tend to wait for the cute ones.
Yeah. At the middleschool gates.
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Ironically it was Kazan who actually said it best when he said that he had to respect the right of people to express ideas he didn't agree with but that didn't mean he had to respect the idea itself.
He also, quite frequently, said: "Are you ****ing retarded, you goddamn fundie ****?!?"
I'm paraphrasing, but still...
Hence why it was ironic.
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(http://www.penguinbomb.com/images/an0ndoesnotapprove.jpg)
(http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/2548510/2/istockphoto_2548510_electric_shaver.jpg)
Just saying, is all.
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:lol: Nice lopsided beard, an0n.
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If this gets into a personal pissing contest on who's the better kisser, I see lockage in this thread's future.
How would a pissing contest prove...
Nevermind. I know better than to ask on HLP the internet. :shaking:
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IM THE BETTER KISSER! ;7
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EDIT: On second thoughts I shouldn't have posted that.
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I feel I should explain....
Ever since the admins decided that all viewpoints, no matter how wrong and/or stupid, were all equally valid and began driving away all the smart, wise and insightful members by forcing them to endure the inherantly retarded ramblings of 14 year old fundies with about as much experiential knowledge as a block of clay - HLP has been taking a nosedive into the ****ter in terms of intellectual integrity and general smarts.
But this is it's whole own level of stupid:
if a girls bi shes either confused, a whore, in denial about being gay, or just plain in general ****ed up
We don't decide who joins and who leaves any more than we decide the content of the posts. As long as they don't break any rules, people can post what they like. There is no rule that says you cannot be obstinate, blinkered or self-opinionated as long as you stick to the topic and not the people.
There are threads that could be considered 'Anti-American', and thus 'racist', but I'm leery of turning into the Lock-monster in GenDis, so I try to give threads a chance before bothering to look for the lock button :)
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"American" is not a race, it's a nationality. Just thought it's about time I contributed to this thread.
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So how many of the people offering opinions here have actually been in relationships with a bi girl?
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2, in fact, great fun, but none of us were looking for permanence, just company, so the situation was slightly different.
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So how many of the people offering opinions here have actually been in relationships with a bi girl?
More than once, but I know better than to say anything to y'all. What works for me doesn't for anyone else for some reason. :p
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Geez an0n, you really are one fugly bastard :lol:
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I've known a few bi girls throughout days. The ones I could trust enough to maintain a decent relationship were a small minority... But then again, the same can be said for the straight girls I know.
There's only one rule I go by. Society is a ****ing scourge, and purer people are a dying breed.
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an0n should become Amish with that beard.
That would be something that I'd pay money to see.
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I used to think that he was. But then I realized the Amish people usually don't have internet connections, bad outlooks on humanity, nor genuine hatred.
But the beard in conjunction with everything else he has proves the rule. Madness is the purest form of genius.
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That almost looks like it should be something.
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Looks more like he needs an Advil.
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So how many of the people offering opinions here have actually been in relationships with a bi girl?
I am in one now, for a year. Like I said shes great. Straight people suck, gay people suck, but not everyone sucks.
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....Must...not.....Pun.....
With the relationship I was in, it was certainly an experience I don't regret, she was actively bi, but only with one man (her current boyfriend) and one girl (her long term girlfriend). When you are in a relationship like that, you sort of go into it knowing that the odds are it is purely a temporary one, it's a different experience in a lot of ways, there's none of the intensity of a couple, and for a 22 year-old, it's like you won a months cruise in Heaven ;)
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I was until about 20 minutes ago.
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Then what happened? Or don't we want to know?
Also: For ****s sake anon, drop that neckbeard.
Now look what you've done. It was the source of his power!
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Basically, because she's ****in' miles away, we decided that an open relationship was practical. We'd see other people, but they'd be entirely secondary to our relationship.
So she went on 2 dates with this guy. I realised she'd fallen for him, despite her saying she hadn't - so I asked where the **** I stood and what'd happen if I came to see her. She said I'd have to come as a friend. I told her I wasn't going to be her back-up guy and hang around to only be with her when she felt lonely or while she made her mind up about some other guy. Dumped her.
Told her she was being an idiot for continuing the same pattern of ****ed-up relationships she's always been in. Then told her to **** off, as I'd done a few months prior to another of my chums who'd got married for the second time for a meal-ticket.
So I dumped my girlfriend and drove away my best and only friend in a single move.
But, **** it. It's not like I didn't have good reason.
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Can't say I blame you either to be honest. I'd have done the exact same thing.
Hanging around waiting for a girl to lose interest in her current beau is no life and even if you do outlast him she'll **** a few times when she feels down and then dump for the next guy anyway. Women rarely have any real interest in guys they're willing to treat as a back up. If they were interested they wouldn't be the back-up in the first place.
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....Must...not.....Pun.....
:p
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anOn, womens suck.
They tear your heart from your chest and step on it. But are you going to let that stop you? no! You do what every man does, you find a better woman! :mad2:
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If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?
It makes you a close minded idiot :p Seriously, I'm kind of annoyed with all of the comments in this thread that immediately assume bi chicks are more promiscuous and/or willing to have a three some. They're people too you know (I imagine that a large portion of this people in this thread would have trouble believing women are really people just like them), and just because they have different sexual tastes than you doesn't mean they immediately want to have tons of sex with as many people as they can.
I say this from experience, as well. Bi chicks are a ton of fun (not just sexually) - you can talk to them about how hot other girls are and they'll talk back, and generally I've found them to be much more chill over all.
And no, you're not a homophobe :p
One of my best friends is a bi chick, and I agree with you on all of the above.
Honestly though, as has been said before, it's a matter of preference. If you didn't want to go out with a fat chick does that mean you hate fat people? AFAIK it's my dick and I can decide where it's not going without anyone pushing judgment.
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anOn, womens suck.
...non specifically. Thats the most sensible thing you've said in this thread :D
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anOn, womens suck.
They tear your heart from your chest and step on it.
but athe end of the day
anOn, womens suck
n that is a heaven sent talent
love many , trust a few, always paddle your own canoe
andi aka captain custard
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Wow.
Some of you guys really need to get laid :p
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I think some are bitter, and i know bitter! But it consumes you.,
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Basically, because she's ****in' miles away, we decided that an open relationship was practical. We'd see other people, but they'd be entirely secondary to our relationship.
So she went on 2 dates with this guy. I realised she'd fallen for him, despite her saying she hadn't - so I asked where the **** I stood and what'd happen if I came to see her. She said I'd have to come as a friend. I told her I wasn't going to be her back-up guy and hang around to only be with her when she felt lonely or while she made her mind up about some other guy. Dumped her.
Told her she was being an idiot for continuing the same pattern of ****ed-up relationships she's always been in. Then told her to **** off, as I'd done a few months prior to another of my chums who'd got married for the second time for a meal-ticket.
So I dumped my girlfriend and drove away my best and only friend in a single move.
But, **** it. It's not like I didn't have good reason.
It's the new face of the U.S Army dude, winning hearts, minds, and cocks. Of dark skinned folk.
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I think some are bitter, and i know bitter! But it consumes you.,
Like the Dark Side.
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It's the new face of the U.S Army dude, winning hearts, minds, and cocks. Of dark skinned folk.
/me hugs :(
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Wow.
Some of you guys really need to get laid :p
Agreed. Quit whining and get out there boys :P
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oy, i've been doing too much. after my gf of 1 year 8 months dropped me, i've been on emotional burnout and i've become somewhat of a man-whore.
not quite comfortable with it, but it is fun.
i'll be ok eventually.
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anon, get yer shotgun, i smell an emo.
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no. i figure i can't be emo cause emos dont get laid.
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He's also not emo because he doesn't hate himself. Also doesn't write poetry about words dying while cutting himself.
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It's the new face of the U.S Army dude, winning hearts, minds, and cocks. Of dark skinned folk.
/me hugs :(
Stop touching my scrotum.
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But it's so cute.
It's like a little, salty Shar Pei puppy.
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I think some are bitter, and i know bitter! But it consumes you.,
Like the Dark Side.
Anger leads to hate....
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... and hate leads to Apathytm
!!!!!...
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... and hate leads to Apathytm!!!!!...
I dont believe that to be quote from the Star Wars Saga?
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It wasn't widely publicized in the saga, but that's generally what happens to the Sith after they've been through their prime. You know, they're just like "**** it" and go back to whatever they feel like.
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It wasn't widely publicized in the saga, but that's generally what happens to the Sith after they've been through their prime. You know, they're just like "**** it" and go back to whatever they feel like.
Its not as k000000lllll though. I want a cookie.
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I think some are bitter, and i know bitter! But it consumes you.,
Like the Dark Side.
Anger leads to hate....
...and hate leads to many a night with the bondage fetish girl at the local whore house :D
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Did I hear people complaining about not getting laid?
http://www.marryourdaughter.com (http://www.marryourdaughter.com)
You're welcome.
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:eek2: I initially read that as "marry your daughter".
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Heavens, no! That would be wrong.
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:eek2: I initially read that as "marry your daughter".
I read your post then read the post you were talking about and it took me a while to see that it DIDNT say that! :lol: :lol: :lol:
edit: btw
"Q: WHAT IF MY MARRIAGE DOESN’T WORK OUT?
A: We feel that marriage is a lifetime commitment. But in the unhappy event that your marriage doesn’t work out, then whatever conditions have been negotiated between the husband and the wife’s family will apply. Remember, we are an introduction service – we do not finalize arrangements between bride and groom nor are we involved in enforcing agreements"
Most expensive dating agency EVAR. :wtf:
Edit2: Damn those girls are young. 13, 14, 15. Pretty dodgy.... :wtf: What kind of ****ed up parents are these!
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Damn those girls are young. 13, 14, 15. Pretty dodgy.... :wtf: What kind of ****ed up parents are these!
Time-travelling parents from 1820.
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Damn those girls are young. 13, 14, 15. Pretty dodgy.... :wtf: What kind of ****ed up parents are these!
Time-travelling parents from 1820.
Crossbred with Traditional Muslims. :)
Gotta say it almost looks like a joke site, especially with those "testimonials"
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[looks at the first page, looks at the last 2 pages]
this could be solution....
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:eek2: I initially read that as "marry your daughter".
I read your post then read the post you were talking about and it took me a while to see that it DIDNT say that! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Yeah I thought that but then I realised that MarryYourDaughter.com wouldn't be much of a solution for people who can't get laid in the first place. :D
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I think some are bitter, and i know bitter! But it consumes you.,
Like the Dark Side.
Anger leads to hate....
...and hate leads to many a night with the bondage fetish girl at the local whore house :D
Which leads to answering questions to the satisifaction of the prosecuting attorney when you ignored the safeword, noob. Don't indulge in S&M when you're mad. :p
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I can't believe people are still falling for that thing.
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The quoting thing is getting silly. Stop it.
Which leads to answering questions to the satisifaction of the prosecuting attorney when you ignored the safeword, noob. Don't indulge in S&M when you're mad. :p
oh but you see, she is very good :D
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:eek2: I initially read that as "marry your daughter".
I would still have read it like that if you didn't say anything.
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god frakking dammit there are no women in game development and it's really starting to get on my nerves.
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Shoulda gotten into the art department mate, we have some 80-90% of the girls at my school, and no programming! :D
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god frakking dammit there are no women in game development and it's really starting to get on my nerves.
There ARE women in game development. They are just very rare (Or, they are in Europe. Asia FTW!).
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god frakking dammit there are no women in game development and it's really starting to get on my nerves.
On the other hand, if you do find a girl in IT she'll be a star. :D
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god frakking dammit there are no women in game development and it's really starting to get on my nerves.
maybe one day you will find one
yeeeeeeeees
i see great things in your womanizer future:
she's anime-obsessed, has father-issues, is surrounded by uncertain nerds who treat women as somekind of highly valued magical object which would should be payed for in Eve Online currency, dates with insanely jealous neo-nazi called Ishmael and only listens to happy hardcore (ironically)
she also has a myspace stalker and has accidentally leaked her naked photos to 4chan where they are now circulated for fun and profit
she might also be a lesbian but is far too uncertain of herself and too attached to said Ishmael to really find out
The Prophet has spoken
begone
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For reference. Women are the ones with the boobs.
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For reference. Women are the ones with the boobs.
oh how i wish that one was true...
that's definitely not always the case. boobs are not women-exclusive.
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Nor are all women blessed with chesticles.
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god frakking dammit there are no women in game development and it's really starting to get on my nerves.
maybe one day you will find one
yeeeeeeeees
i see great things in your womanizer future:
she's anime-obsessed, has father-issues, is surrounded by uncertain nerds who treat women as somekind of highly valued magical object which would should be payed for in Eve Online currency, dates with insanely jealous neo-nazi called Ishmael and only listens to happy hardcore (ironically)
she also has a myspace stalker and has accidentally leaked her naked photos to 4chan where they are now circulated for fun and profit
she might also be a lesbian but is far too uncertain of herself and too attached to said Ishmael to really find out
The Prophet has spoken
begone
OMG! Janos! You just described one of my EXs!
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That isn't something to be pleased about.
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I don't know, but mabye we could just close this thread. It kinda scares me.
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Alternatively you could just avoid reading it.
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You don't think a load of computer geeks trying to discuss women as if it's a subject they actually know something about is in any way amusing?
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That isn't something to be pleased about.
well at least it's his ex, not his current SO
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You don't think a load of computer geeks trying to discuss women as if it's a subject they actually know something about is in any way amusing?
It drifts into pathetic sometimes, so it really depends on whether you think one outweighs the other.
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This thread needs more hilarious lies from insecure nerds to maintain a sufficient level of epic to keep it from imploding.
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I thought it had imploded ages ago to be honest, like almost everything in life, a relationship relies almost wholly on your own perception of it...
This whole thread just makes me laugh at it's rush to point fingers at geeks and nerds, it's kind of like musical chairs, at some point there'll only be one person left and you would have found your geek.... Of course, this doesn't detract from the fact you are playing musical chairs.
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Geek is an established and widely applied stereotype whether we like it or not. I'm certainly one myself. Happily I now live in a place where it's quite acceptable and in fact we tend to do rather well. :D
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You live in EB?
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Geek Sheek (sp?) it's the way forward...... ;7
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You live in EB?
Electronics Boutique?
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That isn't something to be pleased about.
well at least it's his ex, not his current SO
Yeah, she was cool though, I hope she does well in life
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... This topic is out of hand...
On a side note:
I happen to be freinds with like 3 BI Girls... ;7 and a guy who only talks about sex... :ick: this often leads to VERY Strange conversations... :wtf:
another note
a nerd in middle school feels like this: :snipe:
a nerd in highschool feels like this: ;)
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and a nerd after he finishes school feels like this :stacks_of_money: :pimp:
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It's only out of hand when people start posting naked nerds.