I don't quite get what's so great about Force Feedback, to be honest. It's, eh, 'annoying' I guess is the word. The jolting of the stick distracts me from what I'm busy doing (like lining a precarious sniping-shot up), and it's not like I can _hear_ myself getting pegged by enemy fire.
Me, I use the aforementioned Saitek stick, and it's perfect for what I use it for. I'm not a hardcore enough sim jockey to want something as extravagant as a Cougar, yet I do want something reliable and customizable enough in a HOTAS setup to make having one worthwhile. The X45 fit that bill nicely.