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Mmm beer. Sorry, went off track...
I need some advice.

I got married to a girl I'd been with for 6 years in September last year, while I was 20 years old. She left me one month later. A week later, I find out that her and my best friend of 14 years are getting jiggy with it. Sorry, I mean ex-best-friend!!

I heal, then start dating a gorgeous girl. But then she gets into the sex industry. Bye bye!

Finally, I think I've found my dream girl. Later I find out that she left school after grade 8. I can live with that. But after a week of dating, she gets jiggy with one of my good friends... Mental breakdown time.

So hense I need advice. Should I turn gay? :nervous: Just kidding.

Anyway, then I receive an email from a very nice girl which said, "I live nearby, liked your faceparty profile, so I thought I'd say hi.". We talked and I found out that she was actually a passenger on the party boat that I work on. What a coincidence. We meet up and have lunch together. We have a great time. At least I think so.

I can't remember what I was going to ask you... Stupid beer.
Oh I can't stay mad at you................. Oh yeah...

I message her and ask to take her out to dinner the following night. I don't receive a response, so I call her, she doesn't pick up, call her again an hour later, leave a breif message on her messagebank, email her and msg her through the faceparty online thingo all in the one day. I get a response via SMS from her later on saying that she had no credit on her phone and that she couldn't make it that night coz she has uni (college) until late. I msg her back and tell if she'd like to go to dinner another day, just say.

That was Tuesday. Question is, should I call her today, or just wait for feedback?

I don't want to seem too obsessive by calling, etc too often, but I don't want her to get the impression that I don't like her. I like her a lot hey. She's so beautiful (as I'm sure you can tell in that image) and she has a great personality. I hope something can develop. I also hope she doesn't play FreeSpace and frequent the HLP boards... ;)
« Last Edit: April 11, 2003, 04:25:11 am by 326 »

 

Offline Shrike

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Damn, you sure know how to choose them, eh?

Makes my perpetual dealings with lesbians (goddamit!  There's so many of them around here!) positively tame.

Anyhow, play it cool.
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Offline Tiara

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Mmm beer. Sorry, went off track...
:blah:
I AM GOD! AND I SHALL SMITE THEE!



...because I can :drevil:

 

Offline Fetty

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my advice : get rid of your friends

 

Offline Tiara

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Errr... and when a woman neglects to call/respond she probably isn't really interested or someone close to her had an accident or sumthin serious...

Orrrrr she's shy :blah:
I AM GOD! AND I SHALL SMITE THEE!



...because I can :drevil:

 
Mmm beer. Sorry, went off track...
That's for your advice. But it's too late, I called her.

She's not interested. :(

 

Offline Nico

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get another beer. oh, come to France, we'll have a beer together :doubt:
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Offline Darkage

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Can i come also? A beer is never wrong:D


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Offline Turnsky

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mmmmm, b33r :D
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Offline wEvil

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Meh, its a blokes place to get shat on in this day and age, unfortunately.  Just dont sweat it and trust me, you'll meet the right gal eventually :)

 

Offline Nico

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Originally posted by wEvil
Meh, its a blokes place to get shat on in this day and age, unfortunately.  Just dont sweat it and trust me, you'll meet the right gal eventually :)


trust you? her... no. just need to look around me to know that this does not always happen ( meet the right gal, that is ).
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Offline wEvil

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considering the average age of people on this board and what our preference are as to how we spend our spare time its not that surprising

 

Offline Styxx

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Some friends you got yourself, huh. The answer? Fight Club.
Probably away. Contact through email.

 

Offline wEvil

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wow, that actually made me smile - have a gold star :D

 

Offline Styxx

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Originally posted by wEvil
considering the average age of people on this board and what our preference are as to how we spend our spare time its not that surprising


Hey, I spend my work time here, not my spare time!
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Offline Styxx

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Originally posted by wEvil
wow, that actually made me smile - have a gold star :D


Thanks, thanks.

* pins star to shirt *

* hurts self *
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Re: Mmm beer. Sorry, went off track...
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Originally posted by Pegasus V
I need some advice.

I don't want to seem too obsessive by calling, etc too often, but I don't want her to get the impression that I don't like her.


Thats quite a pickle.  Give it a day or so.  Wait too long and she probably will loose interest. Phone too soon and she may get a bit scared like you said.

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Offline Razor

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Uh I don't know what advice to give you. I never had a girl in my whole  life. :sigh: :( Well maybe someone else here that are more experienced can help you.

 

Offline vyper

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Re: Re: Mmm beer. Sorry, went off track...
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Originally posted by beatspete


Thats quite a pickle.  Give it a day or so.  Wait too long and she probably will loose interest. Phone too soon and she may get a bit scared like you said.


What he said. But with this:

If she's interested she'll at least bait you into phoning or messaging again. If you do anything before that happens, then forget it - she'll think you're too posessive/eager/irrational/*insert bollocks here*.
You see the one thing I've learned is, women are not the emotional ones - WE ARE. Women can be far more rational than men.

Also, try and play it slightly cool. Make sure she does some work too ;). But of course, remember and show a little affection at the right moment. Finally, never allow yourself to get too attached until you know for a fact that this is going somewhere.

I made a few mistakes when going after the right/wrong girls, and of course I made an arse of myself. However eventually I got it right and my girlfriend is wonderful - ergo : just remember everyone gets someone eventually. Well, except CP, he'll eventually find a way to clone himself using math alone!

Good luck mate. :)
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Offline Nico

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Originally posted by wEvil
considering the average age of people on this board and what our preference are as to how we spend our spare time its not that surprising


heh, I'm talking about people in real life, not HLP people. people over 35, for exemple.
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