i used some freelancer music (cause i liked some of the bar songs from liberty) in fs2 as the music for the deck portions.
usually, for games involving various types of sound to insite emotions of hype or anger or dispair, music has to be created specifically for those moments. its hard to find normal songs to cut up to make certain songs for certain moments.
but try classical, similair to ones found in action movies with much melodrama, and or some rock music depending on the mood.
one nice place to get some music is the pearl harbor movie soundtrack.
try kazaa