ionia: as comforting as it may seem to build a solid wall between "us" and "them", the civilized people and the terrorists, anyone could become a suicide bomber under the right circumstances. I could; you could, anyone basically. If I lived in poverty and suffering for 30 years, under foreign occupation, forced to live with daily humiliatition, seeing my kids shot dead and my home demolished because of what some other person did, sure I'de be up for a little payback. If I saw no hope for breaking free from the oppression - and you can't reasonably claim that oppression is not whats going on the the occupied territories - then yeah, why not; at least this way (suicide bombing) I have some control over my live.
You can't claim that these people are all fanatics. They're ordinary people who have suffered more than you can imagine. I read a story a few months ago about how a woman, a mother of 2, a teachers - by all indications an educated and peaceful woman - strapped a bomb to herself and blew away a few Israelis.
No, the Palestinians are not blameless. If you bothered to read what I said before, you would know that I don't think that. But the two standards that matter, daily suffering and risk of death, are both higher for the Palestinians. For all this talk of the poor set upon Israelis, if you look at the statistics (provided by an Israeli source) you can see that more innocent Palestinians died since the start of the second Intifada than did Israelis. When it comes right down to it, the Palestinians have limited control over their own circumstances. The Israeli government has greater control over the Palestinians than they do over themselves, which leads to a master-slave relationship.