[Gank]

Originally posted by Gank
I'd shag ya. Gimme uyer number

This offer will only last till the morning.



btw I'm a giver not a reciever

[redsniper]

^^ your first post was disturbing enough, no need to make it worse.

[Gank]

I'm only trying to give the guy a confidence boost.

[ShadowWolf_IH]

no Gank, you were being sarcastic and when no one found it amusing, you reiterated with more sarcasm to draw attention to yourself.  

and drew, i've never given you much thought, but after i was shown how you've treated some people with your remarks, which aren't funny by the way, i got to thinking about a favor you could do all of us.  look up everything you can possibly find on the word "tact".  i'll even start your search for you, it is the ability to make your point without making an enemy.  

Lib.....
There must be some women that you work with.  Don't look for a relationship with any of them, just befriend them, it's much easier to get to know them when you do that.  Go in genuinely wanting to be friends, it works.  it also helps your confidence.  During my divorce, i kept seeing the marriage counselor, who told me to "surround yourself with women"  he also told me not to get romantically involved with any of them, but simply being near them will help in the self esteem department.  so now i impart that you.  

[JR2000Z]

Play around with your hair a bit. And think about highlights.

[Drew]

Main Entry: tact
1 : sensitive mental or aesthetic perception
2 : a keen sense of what to do or say in order to maintain good relations with others or avoid offense



Clown.
Sucking up isnt in the definition. And who cares if people online hate me.

[ShadowWolf_IH]

no one hates you drew.  it's a simple matter of how you treat people on here.  it isn't about like and hate, it's about right and wrong.  if you would like to continue this in private, so as not to derail this thread, everyway that you can contact me is listed in my profile.

[Night Hammer]

now i have a question Lib, do you have a mullet or is that shadow behind your head by the neck?

Please dear god say shadow...

[Liberator]

Originally posted by ShadowWolf_IH
Lib.....
There must be some women that you work with.No job and I'm enrolled in Computer Science at a 2000 student university whose primary major is education.  

Don't look for a relationship with any of them, just befriend them, it's much easier to get to know them when you do that.But once I do that, there is no way in hell that I could ask them out, hence why I've never been on a date  Go in genuinely wanting to be friends, it works.  it also helps your confidence.I've never been the poster child for confidence, I'm not even in the finest of fine print at the bottom  During my divorce, i kept seeing the marriage counselor, who told me to "surround yourself with women"  he also told me not to get romantically involved with any of them, but simply being near them will help in the self esteem department.That's easier said than done when 100% of the people in an area evac or move to points of rapid egress when I show up.  so now i impart that you.  

BTW, I can hear Tiara laughing her ass off in her house from here.

[ShadowWolf_IH]

Lib...you don't ask them on a date.  you just don't.  you are a friend to them.  hwat it does though, is start to build your confidence for meeting women, and saying hey we should go do this or that, then eventually you will meet one and ask her out.

[Ford Prefect]

You look like a regular guy to me. I mean, when I look at the picture I don't think anything like, "Wow, he's hopeless."

More of a, "Hey look, it's a guy who's dressed funny."

[Liberator]

That's...umm...that's my best/favorite shirt.  I haven't had a lot of reason to dress up in my life.  I own 1 really nice tie, 4 not so nice ties, 2 pair of what I consider to be dress pants, and about a half dozen button-up shirts.  The rest of my wardrobe consists of several pairs of jeans, some polo shirts and assorted t-shirts and sweat shirts.  I'm not a clothes horse.  I cannot imagine spending half a week's pay a month on clothing.

I can still hear Tiara laughing, BTW.

[Sandwich]

Originally posted by Drew
Sucking up isnt in the definition. And who cares if people online hate me.

Would you rather I ban you? Cuz you pissed me off with your remarks in this thread. Shape up or be shipped out.

[Splinter]

Walk tall
Be confident no matter what you think others think they will respect you for respecting yourself.
Be sincere not always smiling (not saying that you do I just taking first impressions from the picture)
Keep the goatee
I don’t know where you work if they have a dress code but think of dressing more casually no tie unless it’s an occasion button up shirts ok plain sweaters.
With your hair... make it less Sunday going to church hair. Be yourself if you want it colored wild spiked whatever crew cut you know try new things. You could even mess with it and send us pictures at each stage and we can tell you what we like best

In answer to your question... no one is going to put a number on you anyone that does is retarded you cant just rate people like a piece of meat by a picture. Its allot in how they carry themselves how they interact and such.

Anyway if nothing else remember what I said. Be confident no matter what you think others think they will respect you for respecting yourself.

[Tiara]

Well, you're definately not the ugliest guy I've seen in my life. Not at all. I've seen guys with puss running down their forehead. YUCK! You would probably get around a 4/4.5 in my book (which isn't bad since very few people get really high grades from me ). That would be the number I'd give a regular guy.

No job and I'm enrolled in Computer Science at a 2000 student university whose primary major is education.

An all boys school or something? Cause what you need is a female friend. That will do wonders for you, really. I've seen it happen. If you spend some time with girls you'll get more confident.

But once I do that, there is no way in hell that I could ask them out, hence why I've never been on a date

Sorry to say this, but for most girls this is a real turn-off. Confidence is an absolute must if the guy wants to have even a shadow of a chance.

I've never been the poster child for confidence, I'm not even in the finest of fine print at the bottom

This is really something you need to work on. The best way is to socialize more. Go to parties (where girls are actually present ). meet new people. In time you'll feel more comfortable.

Really, the hardest part is taking the first step. Because once you take it, there is no turning back.

That's easier said than done when 100% of the people in an area evac or move to points of rapid egress when I show up.

If that's the case, you need to better your image, the way people see you is very important (though this only shows the shallowness of the Human race).

First of all, your hair. Go to a barber shop and ask them to do something 'different'. You can always bring someone with you so you can ask them how it looks as well.

Second of all, dress more casual and not so 'up-tight' unless you have to. Don't wear ties unless it's some formal event. Simple blouse and jeans work just fine. If you don't know what to buy ask if a friend can help you pick out some new clothes (or ask the store clerk, they usually know what's 'in' and whats not).

But really, looks mean VERY little if it really *clicks*. I've seen guys with 3 centimeter boils on their forehead with girls. All because they got the confidence to make that first step. If you do get together with a girl, she'll probably be more interested in who you are then what you look like. Looks are just for first impressions.

Ow, and don't try and go for the 'cheerleader'-types because they are uptight, care about nothing other then money and have about as much emotional substance as plankton.

[Splinter]

Originally posted by Tiara
Confidence is an absolute must if the guy wants to have even a shadow of a chance.

First of all, your hair. Go to a barber shop and ask them to do something 'different'. You can always bring someone with you so you can ask them how it looks as well.

Second of all, dress more casual and not so 'up-tight' unless you have to. Don't wear ties unless it's some formal event. Simple blouse and jeans work just fine. If you don't know what to buy ask if a friend can help you pick out some new clothes (or ask the store clerk, they usually know what's 'in' and whats not).

Exactly... see! I knew I was meant to be born a girl! Someone up there screwed up.

[Grug]

Good luck and all but I have to say:

I nearly wet myself at Ganks comments.

Immature and all especially in a probably serious thread, but hilarious to me none the less.

I have to say to Lib:
I've got a similar hair style but I don't perfect it like yours. It's kinda always ruffled. Takes away the geeky edge.

[Janos]

Lib looks somehow scary yet relaxing, kinda like that really nice guy who hangs out near the kindergarden and gives candy to kids.

[Carl]

Lib, you have and evil look on your face in that pic. maybe smile without squinting your eyes so much.

Originally posted by Liberator
I haven't wavered off 295-300lbs(what is that is stone BTW?) for literally years and I'm 6'3"

and that's just unhealthy. drop 100 lbs or so and you'll look and feel much better. if i had to guess, this is the #1 problem ladies have with you.

[Flipside]

Well, all I'll really say is two things :-

1 : Until you stop worrying about how you look, you will never like it.

2 : If your partner is more concerned about what you have to offer than the fact that the two of you are happy together, regardless of what either of you look like, then it is not a relationship with much strength in it's roots

Be comfortable with yourself, and other people will sense that and be comfortable around you.