[Taristin]

Join the club, Ice.

[Liberator]

My feelings on relationships are thus:

I don't trust often or easily and, despite appearances, am intensly private.  Deep down, I'm almost always wondering when "they"* are going to turn on me, and thus are always preparing for that eventuallity.  Being in a relationship requires that I allow much of myself into what I feel is a public space.  I am not emotionally mature enough to do this, and likely never will be.  Thus I will most likely never know what you know Steak.  Congratulations on this.

[Night Hammer]

i think im kinda close to the engaged thing with mine, but it all comes with work, none of that **** comes easy

[Scuddie]

Originally posted by Deepblue
It rhymes.

No it doesn't!

[Gloriano]

Congrats and I think you 2 will have great future together

[Deepblue]

Does too!

Repeat:

morON...
dranON...

[Nuke]

nice

im currently dating a fat chick

[Deepblue]

lol!

The title "Ursa" just took on a whole new meaning...

[Ace]

Originally posted by IceFire

Better to have loved and lost?

Relationships are always a killer...ironically, not being in one I find as difficult as being in one.  Need to find the right one...but I've been single far too long...

The problem is when you're friends with several fantastic women... who are dating friends of yours that you like and you'd never ever want to see those relationships fall apart.

...and when every single woman you wind up meeting is taken and winds up becoming a friend like that... or is single but is ultra-religious and is trying to convert you... (probably why they are single )

...and colleges are supposed to be havens for free thinkin' and lovin,' who would've guessed?

[BlackDove]

Taking out of personal experience there are we, eh Ace?

[aldo_14]

Originally posted by Liberator
My feelings on relationships are thus:

I don't trust often or easily and, despite appearances, am intensly private.  Deep down, I'm almost always wondering when "they"* are going to turn on me, and thus are always preparing for that eventuallity.  Being in a relationship requires that I allow much of myself into what I feel is a public space.  I am not emotionally mature enough to do this, and likely never will be.  Thus I will most likely never know what you know Steak.  Congratulations on this.

You know, you really are a little ray of sunshine onto our lives.

[Ghost]

Originally posted by Deepblue
lol!

The title "Ursa" just took on a whole new meaning...

[IPAndrews]

Originally posted by IceFire
Yeah that gets old...very quickly.

Jesus. Don't ever become a counsellor. Unless you've got shares in a sleeping pill company.

[Gortef]

Hey congrats mate! You two look a nice couple together.

[Sandwich]

Originally posted by Windrunner


so thatswhy we are seeing more of you around here then...

Ahh, it all becomes clear now.

[Setekh]

Thanks for the well wishes, guys. I might add, though, that both being single and being together are great gifts... the freedom to do stuff and go anywhere with no notice is a big thing you miss when you're in a relationship like this. I, for example, used that freedom to spend time with the local youth group, teach kids the Bible, go on camps with them and stuff. It's not better or worse, just different; now my time is spent building up a single relationship on a deeper level rather than many different ones.

[Windrunner]

Originally posted by Setekh
Thanks for the well wishes, guys. I might add, though, that both being single and being together are great gifts... the freedom to do stuff and go anywhere with no notice is a big thing you miss when you're in a relationship like this. I, for example, used that freedom to spend time with the local youth group, teach kids the Bible, go on camps with them and stuff. It's not better or worse, just different; now my time is spent building up a single relationship on a deeper level rather than many different ones.

damn those are some deep thoughts... i am happy for you steak

well i am of to the gym.. to work on my abs and bisceps...

yeah i am that shallow...

[Bobboau]

Originally posted by Ace


The problem is when you're friends with several fantastic women... who are dating friends of yours that you like and you'd never ever want to see those relationships fall apart.

...and when every single woman you wind up meeting is taken and winds up becoming a friend like that... or is single but is ultra-religious and is trying to convert you... (probably why they are single )

...and colleges are supposed to be havens for free thinkin' and lovin,' who would've guessed?

it's like we were seperated at birth or something.

[IceFire]

Originally posted by Ace


The problem is when you're friends with several fantastic women... who are dating friends of yours that you like and you'd never ever want to see those relationships fall apart.

...and when every single woman you wind up meeting is taken and winds up becoming a friend like that... or is single but is ultra-religious and is trying to convert you... (probably why they are single )

...and colleges are supposed to be havens for free thinkin' and lovin,' who would've guessed?

You know thats EXACTLY The problems I've been having.  Went from the fantastic women that I know who are just friends and will never be anything more to the other women that I try and keep tabs on but are already taken to the ultra religious ones who seemed really danged cute at the time but are totally unavailable to someone outside of their small cultural group.

No free thinking/loving in colleges...none that I've experienced.  Only for a select group...and I really don't want to be those people anyways.

[IceFire]

Originally posted by IPAndrews


Jesus. Don't ever become a counsellor. Unless you've got shares in a sleeping pill company.

At this stage, I probably need more counselling than to be a counsellor...