[Nuke]

horizontal, bah, i know better positions
trojan man!

but seriously unless she wants to make an advance, it will be just another night of cuddling.

[vyper]

[yoda]Cuddling leads to touching, touching leads to excitement, excitement leads to... sexing.[/yoda]

[Nuke]

... and they wonder why they never get any.

[vyper]

Who?

[Kosh]

You I think.

[NGTM-1R]

Originally posted by vyper
[yoda]Cuddling leads to touching, touching leads to excitement, excitement leads to... sexing.[/yoda]

Yoda you are not. Wise you must be if Yoda you wish to become.

[WMCoolmon]

Yeah, the correct term is "Snoo-snoo".

[redsniper]

"I never thought I'd die this way... but I had always hoped!"

[vyper]

Originally posted by Kosh
You I think.

[Ulala]

Originally posted by icespeed
advice for you guys from personal experience: don't look for girls, make friends. it's heaps better when you start going out with someone you've been friends with for yonks on end because no one's being fake and trying to impress anyone. and obviously if nothing happens, you've still made heaps of good friends.

Meh, as with everything else, it's different from girl to girl. All my friends that are girls have made it clear that that's all they'll ever be. Usually the "I don't want to go out with you for reasons I'm not going to say because I don't want to feel bad".. err I meant "I don't want to mess up the friendship" excuse comes up. Or they like some other guy. Or they're just not looking for a guy right now. Or even "we're such good friends that it'd be weird." Yeah, thanks.

But then.. I've got the nice-guy syndrome... girls don't want to date a nice guy (but they do want to marry him.. too bad dating tends to be a prerequisite of marriage).

I wish your advice applied to more situations, icespeed. Oh, and any date ideas are welcome.

[Ford Prefect]

Wear a fadora and learn to sing Cole Porter songs.

[IceFire]

Originally posted by Nico


Darn. I never managed to put it into words that well, but it's exactly that ~~

...and it kinda sucks.  We need to get the writers to pay more attention to our characters

[aldo_14]

Originally posted by Ulala


But then.. I've got the nice-guy syndrome... girls don't want to date a nice guy (but they do want to marry him.. too bad dating tends to be a prerequisite of marriage).
 

Become a Moonie

[Grug]

LoL.

So Nuke-y lad, how'd things turn out?

Y'know, I'd laugh myself to death if she ever found HLP and found this thread...

[Solatar]

Why I don't ever mention my romantic affairs online in any great detail.

[icespeed]

well... 'friends' worked for me. we've dumped sh1tloads of stuff on each other over the years and then somehow we realised we liked each other that way, so... *shrugs*... here we are.

maybe i am weird for a girl. maybe most girls are looking for the totally hot, wild guys and keep the nice boys for friends only. or, maybe not. don't take this as the only piece of advice worth following, obviously there's other stuff you can do to find a gf, but really if you're that desperate for a relationship i'm not sure you'll get one, or a good lasting one anyway, because i don't think chicks are all that turned out by desperate guys.

anyway i'm not sure i made this clear: you don't make friends to get dates, you make friends to make friends. if the friendship mutates into something more, then that's a bonus.

date ideas: come up with your own, stop trawling my brains. the point of the date is to spend time with her, not to fully impress her by how creative and rich and randomly attractive you are.

[WMCoolmon]

OK, in that case, how do you "make friends" with chicks.

Specifically, I'm wondering you _don't_ ask girls out, if that makes sense. Like, I don't know anyone I can easily hang out with. So if I want to talk to a girl (So I have a person I can easily hang out with), how likely is she to take an invitation to go to lunch as a date, before I make any sort of move?

This is actually something of a large problem for me, since I get along with girls better than guys in conversation. Probably because I don't get along with the 'nerds', since I'm not nerdy enough, but I don't get along with everyone else, because I'm not mainstream enough. So it'd be nice if I could make use of the other 50% of people that I know, instead of just pretending like they don't exist unless I happen to run into them, to be rather cold about the whole affair.

[Nuke]

ah ****, i think i just got dumped. the, "you are too good for me" line that ive heard too many times over. ****

[karajorma]

Ah. The "you are too good for me" line. Doesn't that particular piece of womanese just make you want to pour a drink over her head and say "Now that we've established that I can be a bastard can we keep going out?"

[Martinus]

Originally posted by karajorma
Ah. The "you are too good for me" line. Doesn't that particular piece of womanese just make you want to pour a drink over her head and say "Now that we've established that I can be a bastard can we keep going out?"

[color=66ff00]Your immediate retort should be:

"Actually, I think you're right".

She'll probably call a few days later and tell you she made a mistake.
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