Originally posted by Deepblue
Maybe it's because she is exploiting the situation? Her son RE-UPPED, which makes it pretty obvious that he supported what he was fighting for. The Sheehan family has seperated themselves from Cindy because they believe that she is exploiting her sons death, and recently Cindy has not really even talked about her son (just carrying his picture), and instead constantly attacks Bush (biggest terrorist outfit in the world)/the US/Clinton (she called the Clinton administration the biggest war criminals ever, just to give you an idea of how extreme she is).
1/ What her son believed doesn't impact what she believes. Especially if she believes her son was fooled into re-enlisting for a wrong cause, or whatever. Most of the similar background arguements I've heard in the UK have stemmed from the same complaint - that their children were fooled and blinded into thinking something wrong was right.
2/ Likewise, it doesn't matter what the rest of her family thinks. Why should it? If she believes in it, then that's her call. Personally, I think it's part of a grieving process and I'm not sure how healthy it is, but it's not my position to say how people should and should not react to berevement.
3/ If she blames Bush for his death and the hundreds of other American (etc) deaths, why would she talk about her son? If she believes the war is illegal, why shouldn't she say so?
4/Why is it exteme to call the Clinton administration war criminals? I know a lot of Serbians would agree with that statement, as probably would some Sudanese, Somalis etc. It's just a question of perspective and opinion. Same as some people genuinely believe the current US government is doing a good job; is it also extreme if people host pro-war rallies?
5/ Why do you attack this particular person? One who's actually lost something due to this war. It used to be they'd attack anti-war protesters for being unpatriotic, or soft, or unwilling to sacrifice. Now you're trying to character assasinate a person who has actually genuinely lost something and can speak of the hurt of loss.
I find it...distressing that the best arguement against this woman is insinuating that she's a publicity junkie exploiting her sons death like a cheap whore. It's atypical of reactionary America to me - rather than look at the issue, or even accept a differing viewpoint, the arguement against breaks down to simple, cheap insults. I've seen it with the Iraq war arguement, the elections in 04, the Schiavo case, and now this. I think it's pathetic, cheap and disgraceful.
EDIt; hell, I've not seen a single reason given beyond 'I disagree with her view'.