I was speaking of the BS such as "you are not allowed to operate north of xx parallel", these are not created by military commanders; they are created by negotiators in Washington. Wars should be fought like we did in Japan: all-out, make 'em surrender, then build them up to be the ally they are today. Instead, we hamstring ourselves. In Vietnam, we wouldn't bomb the NV like we should have. Endless talks & negotiations... we should have told them: "look, you either stop your attacks southwards in 1 week, or we will destroy you." And then we should have done it.
Rules that that are generally made for a reason. Orders that come down telling soldiers "not to cross such-and-such parallel" aren't arbitrary, they usually have a
damn good reason. Wars have rules because wars
need rules. Let's not even go into the fundamental problems of comparing the War in the Pacific to the Vietnam War.
It's also worth noting that Vietnam is probably a poor example for what you're trying to argue. There was just too much going on behind the scenes and on the greater political stage for such simple conclusions to be drawn from it.
Now, we did finally reach a sort of acceptable compromise in that we trained the South Vietnamese to fight for themselves, and pulled most of our troops out, with the promise of matching the SVs with equipment equivalent to whatever the USSR was giving the NVs. Then Congress cut the funding. Oopsie. Way to treat your allies.
What exactly are you trying to say? Politicians screw up wars? Yeah, we know. That doesn't mean governments should let their military run riot without any oversight. Wars don't take place in isolated bubbles, everything that occurs during a conflict is closely watched by the rest of the world and can gravely affect global politics.
And, for the record, it's worth noting that - again - the collapse of South Vietnam is a poor example for what (I believe) you're trying to argue. By the time the US finally pulled out, the South had become so hopelessly dependent on American support that collapse was all but inevitable. Aside from the mounting economic and social pressures at home, there was no real way to justify that kind of expenditure on a nation that was doomed to collapse regardless. Moreover, global politics had simply moved beyond the region, it no longer served any real purpose and was most definintely in the interest of US leaders to move on and try to forget the whole thing had happened.
War is not nice, and it would better be avoided, but if you have to do it, do it right. Pols seem to think the enemy thinks like we do. No, because if they did, they would not be fighting. The only thing the enemies seem to understand (Nazis, Commies, Militant Islamics) is overwhelming brute force. You try to show them mercy or compromise, and they think you are weak, and try to exploit that to their advantage. Look at Hitler taking over Europe. USSR expansion in Europe & 3rd world countries. Need I mention the Radical Islamic terrorists?
Do you honestly believe all war is black and white? Do you honestly believe that there has always been, and always will be, a clearly defined barrier between right and wrong? Good and evil?
Their reasoning is corrupt; they do not understand that we really want to just get along, or if they do, they don't consider accepting, except as part of a plot for using it for our eventual downfall. So the only option is to fight until they wave the white flag, and then still keep both eyes on them.
Yeah! Blow them to itty-bitty pieces with our biggest and most expensive weapons,
that'll show 'em we just want to get along and be friends!
About Iraq: if we hadn't tried to "get along" with Saddaam for so long, and had taken him out when he first used WMDs (better yet, not give them to him in the first place), we wouldn't have such a mess. But no, we were trying to use Saddaam to counter Iran, because we didn't want to make war with Iran. Heck, squash them both.
And Iraq relates to this discussion... how?
Okay, now your sentiments of overbearing military worship and delusions of total conquest are
really starting to scare me. "Crush them both"? Are you simple or something?! Do you have
any idea what the hell you're talking about, or are you just spouting patriotic, "us-against-them" drivel?
I would be all for negotiating and compromise if it could be done with honest good will on both sides. But think about it. They attacked/invaded/pillaged/raped/took hostages/blew up innocent civilians, and you think they are going to play nice with you?? Whatever you are smoking must be pretty potent. Perhaps it started as a misunderstanding, but by the point you get this far into the game it is too late to change the perception; their mind is made up; you can only stop it by force. You can't be nice to them and hope that they'll come to the conclusion that they were wrong about you.
Who is this phantom enemy you speak of? Who is this group that opposes everything you stand for, wretches at your continued existence, and will stop at nothing to destroy everything and everyone you hold dear? This shadowy collection of sub-human, warmongering evil-doers? Who are these dastardly individuals so that we might set the military loose of all restraints and annihilate them in the name of peace?
I hope you realise the irony here, because that phantom enemy is actually people who think like
you.