[karajorma]

Those of us who were being serious have constantly hammered home the point that being bisexual doesn't mean threesomes. Bisexuals can form long term, single partner relationships same as hetrosexuals can. Bisexuals are people too. There are some who are promiscuous, there are some who despite their attraction don't ever sleep with either sex and there are some who just want to settle down and have a family.

To get hung up on their sexuality as if it is important is silly. There are other things that are more important in making the choice.

You totally missed my point.  You were calling him an idiot because he should go for this chick and hook himself a threesome, even after he stated several times that he was interested in a serious, meaningful relationship, not the cheap sex you (the majority, not you specifically) were advising him to go for.

I called him that in jest and then went on to give him a serious explanation. If he doesn't want to have threesomes and an open relationship that's his choice and he's welcome to it. I've got no problem with him wanting that.

But you didn't stop at having a go at threesomes. You went further and claimed you would never have a relationship with a bisexual because you were worried about her becoming attracted to someone else of the opposite sex. And that's where you stopped talking about threesomes and were ruling out any relationship with this girl simply because she's bisexual. So no, I didn't miss your point. I was having a go at you over your point.

Let's see if I can put it another way. Suppose the woman you marry is plain and rather fat. But you pick her cause she's got a great personality and you can see yourself being happy for the rest of your life with her. But you're still a man. You're still going to see pretty girls who you think are attractive all the time. She's not got what the other girls have got in the physical department. According to you she's stuffed. She's going to have to try to out-woman the other girls you see constantly and since she probably can't cause she's not that physically attractive you're going to cheat on her.

Now I know you're probably frothing at the mouth by now because you know that last bit is bollocks. Good. You've seen the problem with your own argument about why you can't date a bisexual girl then. She might be attracted to other women but she doesn't have to act on it. Same as you don't have to act on being attracted to other women. Why are you making the assumption that she's any less likely to be faithful just because of what she is attracted to?

[jr2]

Hmm... we don't want to do statistics, do we?

[karajorma]

Considering that they'll just be made up ****, no.

Stats for this sort of thing are rubbish because people lie.

[an0n]

The fundie spastics are making the mistake of grouping good ol' fashioned whores in with 'bisexual'.

Being attracted to both men and women makes you bisexual.

****ing anything that moves makes you a whore.

[Fearless Leader]

Hey guys, this original question was "If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?", Im not dragging private matters into the public, you dont know my name, where I live or work, or even who Im talking about. I brought this here because there are 3 things that could happen 1) serious debate 2) funny jokes 3) people fighting. All 3 of those happened, I just wanted to see if anyone was on my side. At the time I posted that I was just trying to figure out if I was weird, because Im a guy, who doesn't want a 3 way.

What type of female is attracted to me is not the issue, what one I chose is.

karajorma.... I dont  know what to say, you whip up an argument like no other. You in a forum is like gas on a pile of ... burning gas, that is somehow in a pile. Its just personal attacks...
::braces for response:::

you must cure her from her bi-illness with your mighty cock

Mighty Meaty

 
I'll try that on the next one 

G0atmaster, you reply was well said, but I dont know how to put something in quotes from 2 pages ago.. also 'GOatmaster' is a strange name, how did you come by it?

The fundie spastics are making the mistake of grouping good ol' fashioned whores in with 'bisexual'.

Being attracted to both men and women makes you bisexual.

****ing anything that moves makes you a whore.

 
you are great


***EDIT***
Did I forget to mention that before the second day of this I decided that it wouldn't be a good idea to date her?

[Kosh]

No, you didn't, but why?

[Darius]

1) I couldnt trust her and 2) I would always want a 3 way and I would never do that because Im not willing to share my signifigant other with another person

[karajorma]

At the time I posted that I was just trying to figure out if I was weird, because Im a guy, who doesn't want a 3 way.

Did she actually offer you a 3-way or are you just assuming?

karajorma.... I dont  know what to say, you whip up an argument like no other. You in a forum is like gas on a pile of ... burning gas, that is somehow in a pile. Its just personal attacks...
::braces for response:::

It's a dirty job but someone has to do it.

[Edward Bradshaw]

The fundie spastics are making the mistake of grouping good ol' fashioned whores in with 'bisexual'.

Being attracted to both men and women makes you bisexual.

****ing anything that moves makes you a whore.

Well no a whore gets paid, slut is the word you're thinking of.

At the time I posted that I was just trying to figure out if I was weird, because Im a guy, who doesn't want a 3 way.

I dont see how it follows Ive been with a Bi girl for nearly a year now and theres been no suggestion that she wants a 3-way, and shes very loyal.

[Send in the TMF]

well... if this has been resolved i think we should leave it alone....

any complaints...?

Take a number

http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/7845/complaintah8.jpg

[Fearless Leader]

Im glad that that is over, I have bigger issues to worry about

No, you didn't, but why?

because I found somebody that is a better match for me

[Nuke]

if a girls bi shes either confused, a whore, in denial about being gay, or just plain in general ****ed up, and anyone but a liberal hippie douche would see that thats probably not best person for a long term relationship. so, does it make you a homophobe, no, it just means your somewhat wise in your selection. now the fact that someone is bi doesn't mean that they are mental. one should always be wary of signs that might indicate instability. being bi might be a warning sign or it might be the way she is.

there are plenty of girls who pretend to be bi to tease the guys and theres lots of people who sexperiment. in the former no actual sex usually transpires, and in the latter, it might happen a couple times, freak em out or they find out its not for them, and then they would cease homo activity and return to relative normalcy.

[an0n]

Have you ever even talked to a girl?

[an0n]

I feel I should explain....

Ever since the admins decided that all viewpoints, no matter how wrong and/or stupid, were all equally valid and began driving away all the smart, wise and insightful members by forcing them to endure the inherantly retarded ramblings of 14 year old fundies with about as much experiential knowledge as a block of clay - HLP has been taking a nosedive into the ****ter in terms of intellectual integrity and general smarts.

But this is it's whole own level of stupid:

if a girls bi shes either confused, a whore, in denial about being gay, or just plain in general ****ed up

[Stealth]

i find it amusing that 99% of the people that have replied to this thread probably either don't have girlfriends, or have never had sex.  yet they're giving relationship/sex advise?

[Inquisitor]

This will never happen again:

I agree with an0n. You guys need to get out more.

[Unknown Target]

Lol.

[karajorma]

Ever since the admins decided that all viewpoints, no matter how wrong and/or stupid, were all equally valid and began driving away all the smart, wise and insightful members by forcing them to endure the inherantly retarded ramblings of 14 year old fundies with about as much experiential knowledge as a block of clay - HLP has been taking a nosedive into the ****ter in terms of intellectual integrity and general smarts.

Who said they were equally valid? They have every right to express them without being insulted but we have every right to tell them that their opinion is bollocks and tell them exactly why.

The only rule I enforce is insult the opinion not the person holding that opinion. Ironically it was Kazan who actually said it best when he said that he had to respect the right of people to express ideas he didn't agree with but that didn't mean he had to respect the idea itself.

[Polpolion]

i find it amusing that 99% of the people that have replied to this thread probably either don't have girlfriends, or have never had sex.  yet they're giving relationship/sex advise?

99% of the people who have replied to this thread aren't posting serious replies...

[an0n]

Ironically it was Kazan who actually said it best when he said that he had to respect the right of people to express ideas he didn't agree with but that didn't mean he had to respect the idea itself.

He also, quite frequently, said: "Are you ****ing retarded, you goddamn fundie ****?!?"

I'm paraphrasing, but still...