Oh, I'm just a very trusting person in general. Mostly because I realize that - in MOST of the situations I get into - if he oversteps my boundaries, he'll stop when I tell him or get kicked in the naked 'nads.
It's more of a biological, atavistic thing than a serious moral discussion with oneself usually. It takes some work to get over, but on the other hand it's better than the alternative, which is to give no ****s about what happens to others. The alternative sort of defeats the purpose of mutual pleasure.
teal deer: They'll probably get over it, and it's a sign things will probably go overall better since they demonstrably care about your experience.
we have now crossed the line into territory my prudish nature cannot accept
This is the part where I go trololololol or something, amidoingitrite?
