[Mars]

And now I realize how bad relationships hurt on the way down. I have mono, have been cheated on, a fever of 102 F, I have a C in two college classes, can't sleep, and am so depressed. I tried so hard, I thought I loved her, and I don't have a god damn fake ID.

And I have no originality.

[Dilmah G]

Woah

My heart goes out to you man. How long were you with the girl for? People cheat even in the strongest relationships, you might as well take what you can from it, try and sense it in the future. I try not to get too close to women exactly for this reason, but you shouldn't be a cold-hearted bastard. Play some Freespace, stay away from softdrinks, have a sleep and a wank.

Not like you'll be doing anything with a fever anyway, or you shouldn't at least. There's always a way through.

[Charismatic]

And I get criticized when I make these toipcs.

Next time you find a girl, make dam sure the both of you know and believe in Honor and Loyalty.

"People cheat even in the strongest of relationships"

I think thats based on personal qualities. A healthy relatinoship is a healthy relationship.

[General Battuta]

You're on a dopamine crash. Think of it as a sickness. It'll pass with time.

Try to promote flow cognition with engaging short-term activities (games!) and avoid thinking about the long term. Wake up at the same time every day and eat regular meals. Get at least half an hour of vigorous exercise every day.

[Rick James]

And don't forget to eat your greens and skulk around here moar often.

[Mars]

As pathetic as it sounds, it was only about three months, but I'd known the girl for years. We were just at the point where we were telling each other we loved each other, and then she gave her best friend a blow job, I'm like, okay, we can work through this, she stopped talking to him, and four weeks later, here we are.

[General Battuta]

For what it's worth -- and as painful as it is -- if she did that, she's too much of a player to settle down into a relationship right now. You weren't with the right person, and it's good it ended now instead of more painfully later.

[Daniel P]

As pathetic as it sounds, it was only about three months, but I'd known the girl for years. We were just at the point where we were telling each other we loved each other, and then she gave her best friend a blow job, I'm like, okay, we can work through this, she stopped talking to him, and four weeks later, here we are.

 

The best thing is to forget it.

Think about she never existed in the first place.

[Mars]

For what it's worth -- and as painful as it is -- if she did that, she's too much of a player to settle down into a relationship right now. You weren't with the right person, and it's good it ended now instead of more painfully later.

Yeah, I've been thinking the same thing, but it's stupid, cause some part of me still wants to be with her

As pathetic as it sounds, it was only about three months, but I'd known the girl for years. We were just at the point where we were telling each other we loved each other, and then she gave her best friend a blow job, I'm like, okay, we can work through this, she stopped talking to him, and four weeks later, here we are.

 

The best thing is to forget it.

Think about she never existed in the first place.

In a horrible way, this seems like the most logical thing to do

[General Battuta]

Well, while Freud was wrong about repression -- bottling up your emotions can, in some situations, be productive -- it's probably good to try to accept the memory and move on. Trying to avoid thinking about it will just make you think about it more.

[Einstine909]

This exact thing just happened to me too, but instead she left on a cruise for vacation with her family. Came back and told me she fell in love with some guy on it... she only knew him for a week...

And ya, that's why I haven't been on these forums in so long, you dedicate your life to someone, and in our case, find out they never appreciated it.

And ya, ignoring they exist is probably the best way to deal with them. And the way I see things, don't let them play with your feelings anymore than they already have. She is trying to with me, hitting on my best friend for the jealousy factor... I'm just not letting it get to me.

[Nuke]

EMO!
 

[Mefustae]

Women.

Can't live with 'em. Can't kill 'em.

Maybe slashing her tires will make you feel better?

[blackhole]

If only we knew why life sucks so hard.

[Nuke]

If only we knew why life sucks so hard.

Women.

[Pred the Penguin]

If only we knew why life sucks so hard.

Life doesn't suck... it has a few surprises, but you have to face them realistically.

[The E]

If only we knew why life sucks so hard.

Because something like 99.9999....99% of the Universe is a vacuum?

[Pred the Penguin]

And that's bad because?

[Nuke]

gravity sucks

[blackhole]

If only we knew why life sucks so hard.

Because something like 99.9999....99% of the Universe is a vacuum?

There is technically no such thing as a vacuum thanks to quantum virtual particles