One, I voted for Prop. 8. Three, I believe marriage (this is the operative term here) should be between a man and a woman. I am all in favor of civic unions with equal rights, just so long as marriage is between a man and a woman.
Why? Give one good, logical, rational reason why two bros getting "married" actually negatively impacts
you. If you can do that, without your reason being "because it sounds funny for guys to get married together lol" then I'll let you go. Otherwise you're nothing but a bigot and a homophobe of the worst sort.
The problem is that the word "marriage" has inherent religious connotations. Therefore, religious people go crazy over this because same-sex marriage is a contradiction in terms (if you base the definition of "marriage off of the bible) and they assume that the term "marriage" is meant in a religious sense rather than a legal sense.
No it doesn't. That's an insult to the idea of marriage. Marriage was around
thousands of ****ing years before Christianity. The Ancient Romans had been marrying each other since 500 BC, and their married lives were just as ****ed up as ours, without including God in their vows. Before them it was the Etruscans. And then the Egyptians. How in God's name does marriage contain anything more than the implication that "these two people are bound to each other willingly?" How? How can religion take something, an idea that's existed for millenia across the world, and all the sudden throw a flag pole in it and claim it as its own?
I've said it before and I'll say it again.
Do away with marriages and call all of them civil unions. You want to get married go to the church. You want the state to recognize it get a civil union or partnership. Solves the whole issue.
No. Because the Catholic / Baptist / Presbyterian / Lutheran / 4-Square / Latter Day Saints / Non-denominational Christian Church and Jewish synagogues do not own the word or idea of marriage, and in a country governed in part by the Bill of Rights as we have them, they never should. That doesn't solve anything except creating neo-segregation over something as fundamentally retarded as a
goddamn word. A word that shouldn't be an issue anyway.