I wrote a short little essay for pure fun about debating. I really love debates but I think this comes through the writing.
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The art of debateAs far as I’ve noticed, most of the people seem to have a general misunderstanding about what a debate is. I’d like to shed a light on the matter and show that a debate is far more than two or more people arguing about a random topic.
First things first: the intention.
The goal in a debate is to convince the other one that your opinion is the correct one. As such, you have to be sure that you are right and you must get rid of the pacifist „there are multiple truths” idea. Whether you want to convince the other person because you want to shed light on their dark brain or you want to prove your mental superiority, the basic setting is the same: A. and B. are sitting in front of each other, basically being the same and yet being so different – both of them believe that
they’re right and not the other guy.
If you want a comparison: imagine a chessboard with 6200 pieces instead of the normal 32, spreading across a giant chessboard, all the units accurately facing each other. The reason I made this statement as I did is to show how hard it is to make a sufficient breakthrough regarding any topic – of course, this only applies if both debaters are experienced and basically unconceivable.
You might ask: what is the point of a debate if an ideal debate for you means to unconcievable, close-minded geekheads throwing arguments at each other?
I think you’ve misunderstood me. You couldn’t grasp the point. You know, a debate is never, ever about only the given topic. No, it’s always something deeper. Basically the whole way you’re seeing the world is challenged and you have to answer that. Since our opinions never exist in a sterile, unaffected space, we must admit to ourselves that the reason we’re thinking about a topic is nothing but what we are – what were our past experiences, what do we believe in, what do we hate and love… the list could go on. If you want to see what I think a debate really is, check out
this from 5:07. You’ll see what I mean.
As I’ve said above, two experienced debaters should never be able to convince the other one about their argument (though a good debater immediately admits if he has been defeated and doesn’t hold the unholdable line with pointless counterquestions for half an hour – or half a year, half a life). The good, high-level debate is only about making statements and countering, disproving your opponent’s one. Yes, I’ve said opponent, not partner: I believe that every debate is a little warfare and you cannot allow any step back… but I digress. So, countering and disproving. Most of the great debates result in a complete mental shutdown with no points going across. It doesn’t mean that the debaters don’t give consideration to the other debater’s ideas, no. It only means that they weren’t convinced. Bear in mind: I can’t stress enough that if a debater has actually been convinced or the opponent managed to bring in a valid statement, then he or she shouldn’t obfuscate this fact. Debating should be a fair game with an achievable goal. It’s nothing more than a process of elimination: if you yourself distrust your theory from now on, then what is the point of holding it up anymore?
I’ve digressed again. Again, countering and disproving.
The reason I came up with the „extended chessboard”-metaphor is, along many obvious reasons, is to point out the fact that a good debate is mostly nothing but exchanges that nullify each other. Like in high-level chess: good players make equal tradeoffs (not necessarily material: sometimes a tradeoff of material and time or material and position can be equal, or more than equal; but that’s another story).
Let’s proceed along these lines! If we accept the facts that a) a debater can’t really be convinced and b) a debate is basically a long series of tradeoffs, we should come to the conclusion that
the victor of a debate is the person or group who is able to bring up the more valid points that the opponent cannot disprove. QED above, right? I hope so, because we’re only at the beginning yet. The next main point I am going to discuss is the rhetoric area of the debates.
One cannot underestimate the importance of rhetorics in debates. Whether you throw in an unexpected swear to make you present argument more lively and harsh or you just interrupt your opponent to immediately capitalize on a factual mistake, throwing him or her off track or just generally playing with your tone, speed and volume or wording… it’s all rhetorics; and frankly, I consider it to be a more important part of the debate than the actual fact and topic.
Of course, no rhetorics can come in the place of facts. Facts are the cornerstone and basic element of a debate but the thing that makes it exciting, interesting and – be honest – winnable are the rhetorics.
Clink! Clang! Words are exchanged, sudden gestures are grabbed from the mental armory and sent to the battlefield as A. starts shouting in an attempt to clarify that the metric system is a capitalist lie; B. just goes quiet, probably starts whispering, slows down his speech and lists the facts: the old system was impractical and confusing; the metric system is implemented in almost every country, not just the capitalist, „Western” ones; measuring things has nothing to do with politics, at least not on this level… et cetera.
Right. We’re over the basics. The motive, the basic setting, the rhetorics… allow me to spend a few words on the etiquette.
As I’ve stated more than once before: be fair, please. Admit if you’ve been convinced. It’s a case of „improve us” after all. The other really important thing – something I’d like to get into the lawbooks: your actions must make sense. You must’nt start shouting or swearing just because you have no other way to keep your argument from being blown apart. You should have resigned already. Throwing crap into your opponent’s face won’t help you at all. In addition, never swear at your opponent. You can use the so-called „dirty words” in order to stress your current statement (be aware though, it might make your argument childish) but it is frowned upon to, again, throw a bunch of crap on your opponent.
A personal recommendation: don’t be radical in your gestures – and I mean the physical ones. Verbal gestures should go to the extreme if you feel like it. Debates are verbal duels after all. But, please, don’t jump up from your chair if we’re sitting and don’t make loud noises and bangs and cranks! Stay loyal to the format!
You’re still with me? Right. I hope that you are hooked by now, because we’re nearing the end. In this section I want to give you a little insight on a debater’s mind – mine.
Let’s see some tactics and general ideas. Don’t forget the golden rule: never make a debate personal. It escalates the tension to an antisocial and anhandleable level and turns the arguments into swearing, the debate into arguing. Of course, you should try to find weak points in your opponent’s mind and counter the way of his thinking (you are challenging his whole belief system, after all). But don’t attack him or her as a person. It derails the debate and basically kills it.
As I’ve mentioned earlier, it is really important to spot the factual errors. It is more than necessary for winning a debate. On the other hand, never ignore any of your opponent’s statements. Even if you feel like having a more important reaction on your mind, you can’t let a disprovable point to make it across and count as a hit. It is imperative to track and shoot down every torpedo you can. No ships can take more than a few of them, after all.
Always bring up examples and metaphors. If an active, lively argument is facing a static, dogmatic one, the former is always in a serious advantage.
Avoid the „moderated” debates whenever you can. If a teacher or a moderator of any kind present at the battlefront, it immediately reduces the debate to fact- and opinionexchanging. Opinions are really easy to disprove and most facts can be countered by another one. You need rhetorics and gestures in order to be able to get an edge – and this is something that is a rarely available option in moderated debates. The same holds true for online or text-based debates: you can’t have gestures or rhetorics (only to a primitive extent).
If you have a proven point (that your opponent couldn’t counter), stress it! Repeat it countless times, use it as an addition to strengthen your other facts! Make it count, make it heard often! Those are the ones that count, you must’nt forget to use them.
I believe that you should be 100% effective in defusing your opponent’s bombs. Only one mistake can be fatal.
Try not to say „It’s true, but…”. An experienced debater will surely interrupt you at this point and state another point, leaving you seriously vulnerable and in a defensive position.
Speaking of defense: avoid the defensive position at all costs! It gives up the initiative to your opponent and you’ll most probably be unable to get it back, basically making you unable to win the debate (the same holds true for chess). As such, never defend a point if it has been countered! Make up a new one, mention another example, tell another story! Don’t lock yourself down on one sentence!
If your opponent makes this incredible mistake, make sure to capitalize on it! While you constantly bombard the oh-so-important statement while stating a new point of yours at the same times! Repeat until done.
This brings me to wording one again, and I deem it necessary to discuss this a little deeper.
First, please,
please be clear and understandable. Don’t make sentences with multiple meanings and convoluted words. If you have to clarify your statements, you’re immediately in the grave called
defensive position. On the other hand, try to chain your sentences together into one, longer one. The reasons are that a) you won’t get interrupted by the moderator and b) it counts as one statement – and being an art of action and reaction, the debate’s mechanics will force your opponent to answer in the same way, giving him or her a hard time to react to all of your statements while forming a neat and clear sentence.
The debate’s mechanics. I actually should’ve put this paragraph to the beginning. But chances are, you wouldn’t have understood it.
Let’s get behind the basics now: beneath the surface, under the core; how does a debate work?
As I’ve said above: action and reaction. Attack and counterattack. „a” and „b”, „x” and „y”, white and black – put it as you wish. The fact remains the same: while the style of the debaters can be totally different (note: the great debaters are great actors, too and can pick up any mood and style they feel the most useful), they have to resort to the same methods and tools.
If A. is making one short sentence, B. shouldn’t answer with a 6-page long essay. If A. speaks normally and haven’t started using rhetoric tools yet, B. can’t start shouting like Hitler. You need to slowly shift the pace and tone, dragging the other person with you. See, this is a war on every possible level. And if you can get out of this jungle with your ideas and beliefs intact, I salute you.
Clink! Clang! Now you understand what’s behind the clash of these everyday titans. Feel free to debate my statements here, but be aware… facts aren’t enough…