I don't think you could apply
any theory universally, but it is true that homosexuals tend to find it easier to communicate with girls in their teens, because they don't have several gallons of testosterone trying to drop hints in the way that Heterosexual males do, girls who don't pick up on the sexuality will read this as someone who is 'comfortable' around girls, not someone who isn't interested in a sexual relationship, and that will attract them. Often knowing they
are gay means that the girl can get a male perspective on certain things in life from a male without having any pressure put on her, the 'Gay Friend' effect.
I've known Gays who wouldn't be considered sexually attractive to women in any way, one of them liked dressing up as Vera Lynn, and yet the number of girls constantly coming round to visit him for a chat, advice or even fashion tips was astonishing.
Those who actually stop and think will realise that Lesbianism is far greater threat to male sexuality than homosexuality is
Yes, but lesbianism is hot... at least in theory. 
As one of my friends put it, the main difference between Male and Female interpretations of Lesbianism is the phrase 'with a man watching'

But yes, in essence, I'm not arguing your point...
